Provider Committment!

[VegasStud]

Originally Posted by Bristol

So what your saying is it is a black and white issue?

I see the client get arrested in the parking lot outside his room, but do not call to cancel. Nc/NS?

Wife calls from her cell threatening to call LE for seeing her husband right now at the Plaza Hotel.(where I am) Do I call his cell and cancel? Nc/NS?

You give me 3 references, I tell you that you had 2 go aheads and "Ashlyn" hasn't responded but with the 2 good recent plus other information we can meet today at 2. At 1:45 I get an email from Ashlyn stating you robbed and beat her last week. Ashlyn has 100+stellar reviews and is a respected community member. Do I call and cancel so you can wait outside the hotel and follow me home to my kids?

These are just a few examples of issues ladies deal with daily. You tell me exactly what to do in these situations in which everyone is happy and safe. BTW, you have 5 minutes to make and execute your decision and no do overs . Be careful your decision will be picked apart for days by strangers (with half the story) across the entire country. P.s. you must keep them happy too!

Please excuse any typos, posted with my phone.

Ok, im going to pick apart her comment and answer the way i feel how any provider can safely handle these... and anyone and everyone chime in from sea to sea and correct me.

"I see the client get arrested in the parking lot outside his room, but do not call to cancel. Nc/NS?"
Ok, she sees him get arrested. In a public parking lot (hotel) is she sure this is the guy she is meeting since she has no description and i have yet to tell a provider what im driving. Cause remember everyone said they tried numerous times to contact her with no response. Hard to make those text/emails/calls locked up. But fair enough, say this is the guy she was going to see that got arrested. He sends her a pm on here the following day and says whats up with ncns? Reply, I think you know whats up, obviously couldnt see you in the slammer and I dont want/need that publicity around me, im choosing not to see you. Thanks! Or he starts a thread, she can say I sent you a PM explaining myself thats all i have to say. DONE

"Wife calls from her cell threatening to call LE for seeing her husband right now at the Plaza Hotel.(where I am) Do I call his cell and cancel? Nc/NS?"
OK, Why not? Call. text or PM here. Same deal. For one, im sure if this was the case he would be asking you VERY LAST why you didnt call him and dealing with a BIGGER issue in the home front. But lets say he did, would it hurt to respond saying that you were contacted by his so called SO and was threatened and that you choose not to see him. He chooses to create a post, same verbage.... I sent you a PM explaining myself thats all i have to say. DONE

"You give me 3 references, I tell you that you had 2 go aheads and Ashlyn hasn't responded but with the 2 good recent plus other information we can meet today at 2. At 1:45 I get an email from Ashlyn stating you robbed and beat her last week. Ashlyn has 100+stellar reviews and is a respected community member. Do I call and cancel so you can wait outside the hotel and follow me home to my kids?"
OK, Leave immediately. If that was the message from Ashlyn. Get the f out right away, get to a safe location and be sure your not followed or call the authorities yourself if your in danger. Definately! He calls, text, emails you pm's you. Simply say, i am not going to see you. For reasons which you dont have to give or can if you want. He post a thread on here and says you NCNS him, same verbage....I sent you a PM explaining myself thats all i have to say. In this situation i am sure you will have multiple support from other providers because im sure you would have posted this on infoshare/powder room etc to warn all the ladies INSTANTLY. And from what i have seen there are several ladies that have commented on this thread. DONE

Bristol, none of the scenarios you gave did you say they even contacted you to ask why you ncns. I dont think they would question the fact you ncns if these were the cases. I dont know any of the other 2 guys that said you ncns or any detail other than what they said. I do know mine though. None of these are them i can gurantee that. This thread has gone in circles without resolution, and your comments in eyes of many have made no sense and seemed to stray others off the actual facts or just to save face and say you were here. Im not going to knock any of the guys that have stepped up and defended you saying your a great provider or they have a different outlook now from before based on how you worded something or gave scenarios. They will always have your back as long as you treat them right, and I dont see anything wrong with that. I exhausted all known forms of communication with you after it was aparent you were not going to see me (NCNS) to ask what was up. I have not heard from you since except a few post on this thread and everone here has read what i have. You can leave me in the dark, i dont care and have moved on, its simply money that i have lost. Nothing else (well time too)
There are alot of other great ladies here i have seen and will see again.
I dont have any hard feeling for you and will not/havent lost any sleep over this. You remain the same in my book, A hot girl that i have not met. DONE
Oh, and i wrote this post in about 5mins.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Bristol

So what your saying is it is a black and white issue?

I see the client get arrested in the parking lot outside his room, but do not call to cancel. Nc/NS?

Wife calls from her cell threatening to call LE for seeing her husband right now at the Plaza Hotel.(where I am) Do I call his cell and cancel? Nc/NS?

You give me 3 references, I tell you that you had 2 go aheads and "Ashlyn" hasn't responded but with the 2 good recent plus other information we can meet today at 2. At 1:45 I get an email from Ashlyn stating you robbed and beat her last week. Ashlyn has 100+stellar reviews and is a respected community member. Do I call and cancel so you can wait outside the hotel and follow me home to my kids?

These are just a few examples of issues ladies deal with daily. You tell me exactly what to do in these situations in which everyone is happy and safe. BTW, you have 5 minutes to make and execute your decision and no do overs . Be careful your decision will be picked apart for days by strangers (with half the story) across the entire country. P.s. you must keep them happy too!

Please excuse any typos, posted with my phone.

Payton Place

Originally Posted by drock00

Jesus butt-fucking christ. I don't know why the rest of you are here, but for me its because sometimes I don't want to have to deal with drama to have a little fun. You guys take this shit way too seriously sometimes.

Someone stands you up and doesn't respond within an acceptable time then post a quick note for the rest of the community so we can see if a trend is developing and cross said lady off your list. I don't see a need for a giant shit-storm of other ladies piling on and Wks coming in to defend and everyone getting their spiderman underoos up their asses.

Originally Posted by HoustonMilfDebbie

Oh, come on, don't spoil the party. No drama, no fun!

Drama, what drama

[big country]

"You give me 3 references, I tell you that you had 2 go aheads and Ashlyn hasn't responded but with the 2 good recent plus other information we can meet today at 2. At 1:45 I get an email from Ashlyn stating you robbed and beat her last week. Ashlyn has 100+stellar reviews and is a respected community member. Do I call and cancel so you can wait outside the hotel and follow me home to my kids?"

I ussally wait at least two weeks before I use a provider I have beaten and robbed as a reference. To soon??

[NoHalo4Me]

Originally Posted by Bristol

So what your saying is it is a black and white issue?

I see the client get arrested in the parking lot outside his room, but do not call to cancel. Nc/NS?

Wife calls from her cell threatening to call LE for seeing her husband right now at the Plaza Hotel.(where I am) Do I call his cell and cancel? Nc/NS?

You give me 3 references, I tell you that you had 2 go aheads and "Ashlyn" hasn't responded but with the 2 good recent plus other information we can meet today at 2. At 1:45 I get an email from Ashlyn stating you robbed and beat her last week. Ashlyn has 100+stellar reviews and is a respected community member. Do I call and cancel so you can wait outside the hotel and follow me home to my kids?

These are just a few examples of issues ladies deal with daily. You tell me exactly what to do in these situations in which everyone is happy and safe. BTW, you have 5 minutes to make and execute your decision and no do overs . Be careful your decision will be picked apart for days by strangers (with half the story) across the entire country. P.s. you must keep them happy too!

Please excuse any typos, posted with my phone.

As a thirty year hobbiest, I like to think I've scene just about everything. I've been around before the words hobby, escorts, and GFE, GPS, and NC/NS acronyms existed and before Craigslist came and went. The hobby has a unique business model that would be unsuccessful in any other business venture. Working when you feel like it, answering phones when you feel like it, and showing up for scheduled appointments when you feel like it only works in the "escort" business. Try this in any other business and you would be out of "business" in less than 6 months. But supply and demand is the great equalizer. When the demand is high and the supply is low, substandard supply will always infiltrate the market place. However, supply is getting better all the time, and the market will ultimately take care of the less than considerate.

The frustration of the NC/NS stems from the traditional escort time clock that always seems to be at least 15 minutes behind GMT combined with the provider who just doesn't give a shit. While most hobbiest see 15 minute tardiness as an acceptable nuisance of the program, the "who gives a shit" NC/NS provider merely amplifies the frustration of the hobbiest waiting another 15 minutes trying to decide if the current delay is within normal parameters or a full fledged NC/NS. A difference between annoyance and time wasted. However, after reading 11 pages worth of hyperbole, I just had to jump back in.

With respect to the Black and White issue.

Scenario #1. After getting arrested, ain't nobody gonna get on ECCIE and complain they were no showed!

Scenario #2 After the wife is on the hunt, ain't nobody gonna get on ECCIE and complain they were no showed!

Scenario #3. Plausible, but not likely. But absolutely no harm in calling or texting "i am not going to make it." Case closed, no explanation expected or required.

For those interested, my facts are as follows: Appointment requested. Verification completed. Appointment confirmed for time and location less than 24 hours in advance. Designated time came and went. No call. No show. One text and one phone call on my part still unanswered. Period. No arrest. No wife calling. No beaten provider. Just time wasted. However, I like to think my time is almost as valuable as Bristol's.

As a provider, you either you care about your business future, or you have enough "demand" (or income stream) that you don't have to care. Judging by Bristol's looks and reviews, I suspect the "demand" for her companionship will far exceed her desire to modify her appearance performance.

I am not angry, vengeful, or interested in retaliation. I am disappointed, but that's the price we pay in this hobby. I just regret not seeing Bristol before she fell into the inevitable course of most providers reaching their burn out stage. (Remember Bristol's retirement announcement?) I am not seeking an apology, an explanation, or a free ride on the ferris wheel. I would just prefer common courtesy extended to all who deserve it.

[Guest052813-01]

Originally Posted by Bristol

Would you like me to forward you the email apologies from 2 hobbiest who apologized for starting a thread when they were in the wrong? One already closed his account here.

No, you do not. I fault the two hobbyists who sent you apology e-mails that did not post in this thread that they were in the wrong, and if one of those started this thread, it is up to the OP to request this thread be closed because it is no longer relevant. That is on them. However, that does leave one hobbyist who still believes that you were in the wrong for not getting back in contact with him for your apparent NC/NS.

[Wakeup]

The economics of supply and demand don't apply to the hobby world...if you'd been doing this for 30 years you'd have seen this by now...c'mon man...

[Guest090920]

Originally Posted by fritz3552

No, you do not. I fault the two hobbyists who sent you apology e-mails that did not post in this thread that they were in the wrong, and if one of those started this thread, it is up to the OP to request this thread be closed because it is no longer relevant. That is on them. However, that does leave one hobbyist who still believes that you were in the wrong for not getting back in contact with him for your apparent NC/NS.

After the stunt you allegedly pulled last week, you are the past person to be lecturing anyone on integrity and telling Bristol what to do.

There are so many things you still don't get about this sub-culture, aren't there. It's sad for you, I know.

[Guest090920]

Originally Posted by kcjimmy

Ok, im going to pick apart her comment and answer the way i feel how any provider can safely handle these... and anyone and everyone chime in from sea to sea and correct me.

Jimmy, you're starting to sound more and more like a whiney, pussy-whipped bitch! For whatever resason, Bristol decided not to meet you; it was her decision and her decision alone. You posted that announcement; now, call another girl and move on! Sending multiple emails, PM's texts, etc., and then whining about it, surely hasn't endeared you to any of the other girls. Good luck!

[Guest090920]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Who said that she was required to justify herself?

You did, Mr. Wizard. In post #129 of this thread wherein you wrote....
"So, either keep quiet with your "we agree to disagree" comments and suck up the criticism, or you tell your side and justify (bold and underline added for emphasis) to us that it wasn't a NC/NS. Period."

Thank you for playing. You can pick up a t-shirt from the table by the door as you leave! Bye Now!

[Guest052813-01]

Originally Posted by scorpio31

After the stunt you allegedly pulled last week, you are the past person to be lecturing anyone on integrity and telling Bristol what to do.

There are so many things you still don't get about this sub-culture, aren't there. It's sad for you, I know.

So many posts, yet no reviews. It's sadder for you that you can't get it up yourself. And I get that about the sub-culture - that you can't get any that you have to take your frustrations out on everyone on the board. I pity you.

[Guest090920]

Originally Posted by fritz3552

So many posts, yet no reviews. It's sadder for you that you can't get it up yourself. And I get that about the sub-culture - that you can't get any that you have to take your frustrations out on everyone on the board. I pity you.

Temper, temper, fritzie-boy.... Who's taking out frustrations now? I don't need or want your pity; I do just fine and have have for almost 10 years without any help from you.

[boardman]

You tards are stuck in a circular reference.

Which came first the hooktard with GPS or the WK?

A hooktard screaming at the top of her lungs that she is right is nothing unusual. Fucktards allowing it to continue by rationalizing her right to do so is fucking hilarious.

Originally Posted by scorpio31

You did, Mr. Wizard. In post #129 of this thread wherein you wrote....
"So, either keep quiet with your "we agree to disagree" comments and suck up the criticism, or you tell your side and justify (bold and underline added for emphasis) to us that it wasn't a NC/NS. Period."

Thank you for playing. You can pick up a t-shirt from the table by the door as you leave! Bye Now!

Fail!

I don't need to fight wu's fights for him but this one was just to glaring. You put the emphasis on Justify not Require. He did not say that she was required to do anything in that post. What he did say was that if she is gonna be dumb she'd better be tough.

You people crack me up.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by boardman

You tards are stuck in a circular reference.

Which came first the hooktard with GPS or the WK?

The White Knight. On boards anyway.

[boardman]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

The White Knight. On boards anyway.

leave it to a fucking dog in a pinck hat to thinck he knows the answer

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by fritz3552

So many posts, yet no reviews. It's sadder for you that you can't get it up yourself. And I get that about the sub-culture - that you can't get any that you have to take your frustrations out on everyone on the board. I pity you.

What difference does it make whether or not Scorpio has any reviews? Is there some kind of written or unwritten bylaw concerning reviews? If I were to suddenly write a bunch of reviews would it improve my standing in your eyes? If a fucktard has no reviews does that mean he never participates? I'm not gettin this hangup on reviews and why someone who has reviews is somehow superior to someone who does not.

Splain it to me Modtard? I'm all ears