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My advice is to leave her to her own business.
it's her life. do you really want to be a large factor in how she does in life?
if the answer is yes - run some/all of her life and be prepared for all consequences!! and dont come back here moaning if it goes south, waaaay south.
if the answer is no - leave her be.
besides, you said it yourself.
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but it's a hopeless cause. She's in a bigger bind than I can reasonably fund - plus she's spoiled by the quick money.
I hate to see this happen, but if she's going to do it, seems like the least I could do is provide what input I can gather from those in the know.
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the least you could do is help her make an informed decision, but not make it for her.