What is the appropriate Provider age range for a Mature Hobbyist? [the Griffin Question of the Day #2]

[Jackie S]

Hey Shithead, you need to get a better perspective as to how some men can keep in shape well into their mid 60's.

"The Griffin Question of the Day".?? Hopefully there won't be one for tomorrow

[brandilynn]

What ever age makes you happy that's the age.

[Mojojo]

Lets keep any unnecessary rudeness out please! Thanks!

[Griffin]

Originally Posted by Brooke Wild

That is a tough one. I'd say 10 years younger or older, but I'm 29 and meet 60 year old clients all the time who I adore so I guess my 10 year rule wouldn't apply.

So my answer would have to be: as long as a provder is 21 and up, mature and is doing what she is doing by her own free will, then any age between 21 & 91 is okay with me.

Hello again Brooke Wild,

Thank you for bending your max age cap for me. I had a great time with you on 02-15-12 and from the PM (see below) you sent me just after our date, I think you did too.

"Thank you!
I just wanted to say thank you for such a lovely morning. I really enjoyed myself.
Brooke"

I know I do not look it; but, I am approximately 25 years older. At 29 years you are just inside my low age range for a Provider.

Thanks again for a memorable morning. You have the nicest, cleanest, most organized incall that I have had the pleasure to visit. I look forward to a future rendezvous.

the Griffin

[Griffin]

Originally Posted by tyboy1

It's all a fantasy they aren't for falling in love with. It's sex for money not making love. If they want you to come back they will show you a good time.
I've seen ladies from early twenties to their fifties, they are all fun and don't seem to have a problem with my age.

Tyboy1, I totally agree with you. (Everyone note: sex for money is illegal in most of the United States, best to keep it out of the forum posts. O.K.) Most of the comments were from Hobbyist, who seemed to have missed the last line in the original thread, which was:

I would like to hear from the Providers on this topic.

As a male, I pretty much wanted too and have nailed any willing female. Hey we are males, we think with the little head 50 times a day. I get it, it's biologically normal. Conversely; Men (age 45 to 65) would you try to nail a woman your mother's age? your grandmother's age?

From the lack of responses from the female Providers, Tyboy1's comment is most apropos. I was just trying to get the female side, so that I would not waist time or money with a provider who was repulsed by age alone. If I look OK, smell OK, am freshly showered, polite, and the Provider still has a look on her face, like I just stepped out of a trash dump, I am not going to have a good time. Yes, I can turn around and leave if this occurs at the initial greeting; but if this look occurs when the little head is in control, it sure is hard to stop at that point.

the Griffin

[wildwooly1]

most providers if they do their necessary screening will see your real age and most realize if they are in their 20's and you the hobbyist is in his 50's there is a age gap of their total life on this planet and you could well be their father.
If they choose to see your old ass its up to them !
ive met some young providers that were as good as any older providers and loved being with older men....its up to both of you and what you like.
I prefer the older providers from 30 to 45 but its just my preference ..each person has their own oppinion and just like assholes everybody has one.
just have fun and everybody treat each other like you want to be treated and most of the time all will get along and enjoy our little hobby world.

[boardman]

Originally Posted by mojojo213

Lets keep any unnecessary rudeness out please! Thanks!

Necessary rudeness is quite permissible.

[Brooke Wilde]

Originally Posted by Griffin

I was just trying to get the female side, so that I would not waist time or money with a provider who was repulsed by age alone. If I look OK, smell OK, am freshly showered, polite, and the Provider still has a look on her face, like I just stepped out of a trash dump, I am not going to have a good time.

I honestly have never met a provider (and I know dozens) who were repulsed by a clients age. I would even say that your looks do not matter to most providers. As long as you are clean, kind and respect her do's and don'ts that is all that matters to most.

On the other side of this ... I would be very weary of backpage ad's that say "I love older guys" most of the time that really means they are B & S or are going to cash & dash and figure an "older guy" will be put up less of a fight.

[joe bloe]

I checked Emily Post; she doesn't address the question. I'd say you should see whoever you prefer and forget about the age. It's probably not a bad idea to let her know you are older in advance, just in case it's an issue for her.

[Griffin]

Originally Posted by joe bloe

I checked Emily Post; she doesn't address the question. I'd say you should see whoever you prefer and forget about the age. It's probably not a bad idea to let her know you are older in advance, just in case it's an issue for her.

Thanks Joe Bloe, Humor and a great answer all in one! Joe's suggest is the one that I will use for future Provider contacts.

I thought it would be informative if the showcases had a listing for a Hobbyist age range, gender, race, and etc. that the Provider was willing to see. Some showcases or Provider websites mention some of this info, if you search for it. To quote the movie "40 Days and 40 Nights": "I have been searching for porn for over and hour Matt, and an hour is to long."

But then again, when money is involved, people are willing to do things they do not like for money. So if this age range info was included in a showcases, it probably would not be correct!

Best for me to ask the Provider if age is an issue and try to determine from how she responds, as to if she is being truthful or not.

The Griffin