Fact Or Myth

[charlestudor2005]

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Originally Posted by shorty

Fact Or Myth

Big guys (over 6') with big hands and feet have big dicks. Myth

BBW gives better head. Fact

Athletic guys seem to take longer on getting a O. Fact

Catholic girls take it up the ass because they don't believe in birth control. Fact!!!

Guys under 30 really don't know how to DATY properly. Fact

Smaller/Petite ladies can take big dicks. Myth

Once married all BJ's or allowing DATY seem to stop. Fact


Please add any Fact/Myth that you can think of!

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by alluringava

Let me dispell some of that for you. Having been in the business a while, I can honestly say that sometimes the tallest men have the smallest dicks. And the short guys have ones that hang down to their knees. It never fails to surprise me. I've seen guys 6'4" with big hands and huge feet who had wee wees so small, I needed tweezers to get the Snugfit on. And the Snugfit was too big.

Athletic guys....it has nothing to do from MY experience that they take forever to O. Any guy athletic or not can get nervous, can masturbate before a session, or any number of other reasons and take a while to get there. Sometimes athletic in shape guys are the first ones to blow fast!

" Guys under 30" don't know how to DATY. Bull. Plenty of men twice their age don't have half their skill.

I'm Catholic and I only take it up the ass from civvie boyfriends, my own dongs, and long-term regular customers, so I don't know what that really says about my 12 years of parochial school.

I am petite, and I can take huge dicks. So this may be true.


I was married once, and it wanted me to suck dick more. That was why I got divorced. My husband got tired of me wanting to suck dick all the time. He was too old.

Does a second appointment qualify as a long-term customer? LOL

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Does a second appointment qualify as a long-term customer? LOL

Let's attempt to define LOOOOONNNNNG LOL

[Ed Highlight]

Myth, myth, myth, fact, fact, myth, myth, myth, myth, fact, myth, myth myth. There!! That oughta settle it.

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Myth, myth, myth, fact, fact, myth, myth, myth, myth, fact, myth, myth myth. There!! That oughta settle it.

Now that is some straight shootin' from the hip!

[burkalini]

There are no real facts only partial truths. The best bj's I have ever had all came from slender gals. no set in stone anything.

[davidsmith0123]

"I was married once, and it wanted me to suck dick more. That was why I got divorced. My husband got tired of me wanting to suck dick all the time. He was too old. "

So, Aluringava, are you taking marriage proposals? LOL...

[simpleton]

Damn, I always wanted to go to a catholic school growing up.

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by davidsmith0123

"I was married once, and it wanted me to suck dick more. That was why I got divorced. My husband got tired of me wanting to suck dick all the time. He was too old. "

So, Aluringava, are you taking marriage proposals? LOL...

* Holds out left hand for that ring finger...* LOL


Seriously, over the years, I have heard many complaints from clients who told me about how the sex waned or stopped completely, and it just made me think...do women really lose interest, or do they do all the sex just to 'get the guy' and once they're settled in comfort in marriage and security, just don't 'care' anymore?

To me, while it might sound like a justification or 'excuse' as to why men see escorts or have affairs, I cannot imagine NOT having sex or giving blow jobs with someone I am with. While I think it's up to both parties to initiate sex, I can't blame men entirely for wanting and needing sex when they're not getting any at home. What's interesting is that I find that these very same women who haven't had sex with their husbands for years still expect their husband to stay totally faithful and would be furious if they found out their SO saw an escort. I just don't get that. Yes, some women are understanding about it, but MOST men's wives would be really angry if they found out, even if they haven't touched their husbands in YEARS.

The biggest cause it seems is the 'change'...women losing interest during menopause.

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by simpleton

Damn, I always wanted to go to a catholic school growing up.

I just realized that I saw your avatar character on Cartoon Network the other day LOL and I said, okay so that's where he came from LOL


I've heard things about Mormon girls too LOL so maybe...a trip to Salt Lake City would be the thing to do LOL

[Iaintliein]

Originally Posted by alluringava

The biggest cause it seems is the 'change'...women losing interest during menopause.

Certainly every situation is unique, but menopause undoubtedly made it worse.

The most popular stereotype about providers in the civilian world seems to be the "victim of abuse" meme. Maybe it's got legs, maybe not, but the flip side has to be at least as valid, disinterest or withholding of sex very often stems from being raised by overbearing parents, particularly (and in the case of my SO, an overbearing mother). DATY is just "dirty" and BBJ to completion is "nothing in it for me".

LOL, as a newly wed she expressed dismay at my wanting sex two or more times a week, "I thought you were more intelligent than that". She denies saying it a quarter of a century later, but I'll never forget it, nor the endless, sleepless nights of unrequited desire laying within arms reach of a fantastically beautiful woman who cooed, "I love you" literally dozens of times a day, but still put sex on page two of the priority list.

Now I'll bring the subject of sex up occasionally, usually get turned down, then bring it up again in a few days, but that's it, I decided asking more than twice is begging (like the old days), and that isn't my idea of good foreplay.

Sorry for the rant, not a good week.

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by Iaintliein

Certainly every situation is unique, but menopause undoubtedly made it worse.

The most popular stereotype about providers in the civilian world seems to be the "victim of abuse" meme. Maybe it's got legs, maybe not, but the flip side has to be at least as valid, disinterest or withholding of sex very often stems from being raised by overbearing parents, particularly (and in the case of my SO, an overbearing mother). DATY is just "dirty" and BBJ to completion is "nothing in it for me".

LOL, as a newly wed she expressed dismay at my wanting sex two or more times a week, "I thought you were more intelligent than that". She denies saying it a quarter of a century later, but I'll never forget it, nor the endless, sleepless nights of unrequited desire laying within arms reach of a fantastically beautiful woman who cooed, "I love you" literally dozens of times a day, but still put sex on page two of the priority list.

Now I'll bring the subject of sex up occasionally, usually get turned down, then bring it up again in a few days, but that's it, I decided asking more than twice is begging (like the old days), and that isn't my idea of good foreplay.

Sorry for the rant, not a good week.

Do you believe though that it's realistic for a man to stay completely faithful after years of not having sex with his wife? I mean you can only play with yourself so much. The five-fingered friend is not the same thing as a hot pussy.

[Iaintliein]

Originally Posted by alluringava

Do you believe though that it's realistic for a man to stay completely faithful after years of not having sex with his wife? I mean you can only play with yourself so much. The five-fingered friend is not the same thing as a hot pussy.

I got by on a couple of times a month for 21 years. Possible? Yes. Smart? No. I am sorry for the rant, I just needed to vent and unfortunately this is about the only place to do it. She's a great person, and I love her, just pointing out that the over zealous application of "morality" is another form of child abuse IMHO.

Life deals blows to us all, some make scars, others make facets, we see it, learn from, it and go on with it.

Regards,

[alluringava]

Back on topic, other myths regard race and penis size. Some of that from my experience ( and again, MY experience only) is that they're often true in some regards.

I've also heard the tired old myth that us Asian ladies are keepers of Oriental exotic sex secrets. I don't know about that, I just like to try different things

[shorty]

Originally Posted by alluringava

* Holds out left hand for that ring finger...* LOL


Seriously, over the years, I have heard many complaints from clients who told me about how the sex waned or stopped completely, and it just made me think...do women really lose interest, or do they do all the sex just to 'get the guy' and once they're settled in comfort in marriage and security, just don't 'care' anymore?

To me, while it might sound like a justification or 'excuse' as to why men see escorts or have affairs, I cannot imagine NOT having sex or giving blow jobs with someone I am with. While I think it's up to both parties to initiate sex, I can't blame men entirely for wanting and needing sex when they're not getting any at home. What's interesting is that I find that these very same women who haven't had sex with their husbands for years still expect their husband to stay totally faithful and would be furious if they found out their SO saw an escort. I just don't get that. Yes, some women are understanding about it, but MOST men's wives would be really angry if they found out, even if they haven't touched their husbands in YEARS.

The biggest cause it seems is the 'change'...women losing interest during menopause.

I do have to agree that there's a lot of ladies that do deny there husband's of getting sex from them. I've got one real good friend that's 29 and the wife is 27. He makes about 1K a week and she doesn't work. So on Friday, she's there to pickup his paycheck and he gets no spending money for the week. He did make the comment to her that the only time he gets any is on Friday or Saturday after payday. All he gets is to fuck her with no BJ or DATY. She doesn't do BJ's or allow DATY. He did tell her that's some expensive pussy at 1K to only get to fuck once a week. So now, she's not even giving it up and he's starting to get pissed that he's not getting any sex and still don't have any spending money for the week.