Reversion of Power

[Leah Ireland]

I'm wondering if any clients happened to meet a lady they'd known in the escorting world and suddenly she's also your dentist/doctor/bank manager/CEO/whatever?

For those that may think this is incredible just think of the author of Belle du Jour - a high ranking scientific person. The details evade me right now (probably forever), but certainly she's an awesome person in the 'regular' world.

Another side of this - I know of at least one high profile escort who with cleverly adapted pictures is not recognisable in the real world. Where she's somewhat a star. The fact that I know this is because guys talk.

Guys here, how far do you keep to yourself very private details about companions? Particularly when they're high profile in the regular world?

Leah Ireland x

[JDNorthface]

Originally Posted by Leah Ireland

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Guys here, how far do you keep to yourself very private details about companions? Particularly when they're high profile in the regular world?

Leah Ireland x

Her information is as closely held with me as mine is with her. And since I only see ladies who understand the absoluteness of this concept, there's your answer.

Good question. And this actually has been tested before when a former ATF became a chef at a distant eatery. A learned this on Facebook and ran into her there once. (OK, I went to that town just to eat there and practice my, "Oh my God, I'm so surprised!" look!). Disclosing anything about her former life--and thus mine--never crossed my mind...even though she charged me full price for the whole damn meal!

Great post.

[CuteOldGuy]

No way. Having been an attorney, I am used to keeping a lot of very juicy information to myself. No way I would tell on an escort, regardless of whether she is high profile, or a clerk at Burger King. One of my favorites manages a fast food place, but you won't find out who or where from me. No one will.

[Ed Highlight]

COG, I'm with you.....I'm a vault!!

[Guest041413-2]

If I were to run into any of the beautiful women I've had the pleasure with but see them unexpectedly, SHE wouldn't even know that she saw me (in the past) unless her body language 'welcomes' me (then I would say something). Discretion and privacy are just as intimate as the 'act' itself.

I have had a horrible experience in the past, but my lips remain sealed. She violated the 'code' but I have never uttered her name on the board.

Now, with that said, I would find it extremely Hot if I were to run into one as my dentist, lawyer, MD, nurse, waitress, etc. I do not look down at this hobby. It makes the most sense to me. It would be an extreme turn-on. Her "other" life/side is just what turns me on the most. I would ruin that 'mystery' by sharing it with others/anyone.

[John Bull]

She would have to come up to me and touch me before I'd say anything and then my response would be, "Excuse me". You see, if she were as discreet as I, she wouldn't come up to me.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Leah Ireland

I'm wondering if any clients happened to meet a lady they'd known in the escorting world and suddenly she's also your dentist/doctor/bank manager/CEO/whatever?

I know a story like that the other way round ;-). Sometimes also clients pay huge amounts of money when they see that a lady REALLY is a medical doctor and has a demanding career and really just does this for fun on the side (which rarely happens...). I know a well established lady doctor in her mid 40ies, smoking hot, who has to carry proof of her doctoral certificate (MD or PHD) when she dates clients sometimes. It is supposed to be a huge turn on. She practices as medical doctor and does not need any cent of this business for anything. She just has a kinky side she likes to explore sometimes.

Having studied is one thing, does not proof anything, let alone you are having any career.
but being in career, earning huge money, and having a kinky edge on the side is yet another story .......

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Leah Ireland

Guys here, how far do you keep to yourself very private details about companions? Particularly when they're high profile in the regular world?

Leah Ireland x

I assume that is mandatory for both sides. Legally speaking, would it be an issue for a career if someone is an escort? Unless you`re in politics and in the legal field, I seriously doubt it. In Austria it can only be an issue when you are employed at a company and are not allowed to take any other job due to contract with this company. I heard of escorts being fired for the reason that they entertain another job. But for being an escort you can`t get into troubles legally speaking, it is discrimination. In the USA I only heard of such cases making the news in the "law" world, where careers got outed and cancelled due to escorts being attorneys or having financed their studies with that money, I assume the same laws as in politics apply. But I never seen the aftermath either. I wonder what happened to these women? And I also assume, changing your name is possible, and starting new.

If someone has an interest to bring a person into bad credits for political reasons or other mobbing issues, I assume it might be an issue. But other than that?. Haven`t heard similar in other businesses. I assume there is a reason for it. And the reason is not that it never happened in othr fields of studies, right? For Belle de Jour there were no consequences to her career whatsoever. Which brings me back on how honorable science is ;-). Doesn`t matter "who" does it , as long as you're good at it. I think that is the way it is supposed to be, but rarely happens in other professions. Many professions go with specific morals, where being an escort can damage your career. But - then again - if you are THAT good, I assume no one cares, too. With hackers and such it`s the same. And traces back to your past can always be deleted , if that is at stake.
So, unless you are "caught in the act" I assume it is hard to proof anyway the connection (even if we all know - In Austria for example everyone knows who does what for money, but never ever would anyone admit it openly, even when confronted,because proof is yet another fact). Word of mouth should not be able to "proof" anything.

So, point being, even if you discover your doctor or researcher is an escort. How to proof and who cares? If I see clients in the open, I ignore them and pretend I did not see them. And I expect the same. Sometimes happens when you have "same city" clients, but rarely.

[Leah Ireland]

Originally Posted by JDNorthface

Her information is as closely held with me as mine is with her. And since I only see ladies who understand the absoluteness of this concept, there's your answer.

Good question. And this actually has been tested before when a former ATF became a chef at a distant eatery. A learned this on Facebook and ran into her there once. (OK, I went to that town just to eat there and practice my, "Oh my God, I'm so surprised!" look!). Disclosing anything about her former life--and thus mine--never crossed my mind...even though she charged me full price for the whole damn meal!

Great post.

He he, well, what do you expect?

[Leah Ireland]

Nina Sastri - " Having studied is one thing, does not proof anything, let alone you are having any career."

True.

Also coming from Europe I always find it very funny that in America so many people appear to pay so much for an 'education' yet still are so illiterate. Etc.

[Leah Ireland]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

I assume that is mandatory for both sides. Legally speaking, would it be an issue for a career if someone is an escort? Unless you`re in politics and in the legal field, I seriously doubt it. In Austria it can only be an issue when you are employed at a company and are not allowed to take any other job due to contract with this company. I heard of escorts being fired for the reason that they entertain another job. But for being an escort you can`t get into troubles legally speaking, it is discrimination. In the USA I only heard of such cases making the news in the "law" world, where careers got outed and cancelled due to escorts being attorneys or having financed their studies with that money, I assume the same laws as in politics apply. But I never seen the aftermath either. I wonder what happened to these women? And I also assume, changing your name is possible, and starting new.

If someone has an interest to bring a person into bad credits for political reasons or other mobbing issues, I assume it might be an issue. But other than that?. Haven`t heard similar in other businesses. I assume there is a reason for it. And the reason is not that it never happened in othr fields of studies, right? For Belle de Jour there were no consequences to her career whatsoever. Which brings me back on how honorable science is ;-). Doesn`t matter "who" does it , as long as you're good at it. I think that is the way it is supposed to be, but rarely happens in other professions. Many professions go with specific morals, where being an escort can damage your career. But - then again - if you are THAT good, I assume no one cares, too. With hackers and such it`s the same. And traces back to your past can always be deleted , if that is at stake.
So, unless you are "caught in the act" I assume it is hard to proof anyway the connection (even if we all know - In Austria for example everyone knows who does what for money, but never ever would anyone admit it openly, even when confronted,because proof is yet another fact). Word of mouth should not be able to "proof" anything.

So, point being, even if you discover your doctor or researcher is an escort. How to proof and who cares? If I see clients in the open, I ignore them and pretend I did not see them. And I expect the same. Sometimes happens when you have "same city" clients, but rarely.

That's interesting.

When I was in the UK it always appeared extremely interesting to the press who was an escort - if I had a memory for names I could tell you some stories. I don't remember names, but I do remember stories. Suffice to say that some well known women were accused with details of being escorts and similar (and wasn't Sarah Ferguson???). How they lived it down I don't know.

I do wonder how escorts who expose their faces on the net continue to live their lives freely. I can't imagine they do.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Leah Ireland

That's interesting.

When I was in the UK it always appeared extremely interesting to the press who was an escort - if I had a memory for names I could tell you some stories. I don't remember names, but I do remember stories. Suffice to say that some well known women were accused with details of being escorts and similar (and wasn't Sarah Ferguson???). How they lived it down I don't know.

I do wonder how escorts who expose their faces on the net continue to live their lives freely. I can't imagine they do.

Oh yes, I know these stories too. Rumours, though. I do think a lot of them were escorts, but they invested a lot of money to pay for a "cleared life". So even when info was leaking there was never sufficient proof. Someone for sure was getting rich keeping all these photos and infos to him/herself.

In Austria it`s pretty clear which "stars" are banging who for money, and no one would ever write abuit it.
Fact, even Richard Lugner in his soap opera hired a well known escort for his agendas - and someone tried to out her as working in a brothel. didn`t get very far. As I said, saying something and proofing a point is different.

That said, VIPs in Austria (Europe maybe?) have the habit of dating escorts, so that is maybe a reason why no one bothers. Of course, there is also always the "proof" factor.
There was a lot of discussion which wives of what stars used to work in the Brothel called babylon www.babylon1.com and such. But - again - only rumuors and no proofs.
Maybe it`s different when you have webpages, I don`t know. But entering brothels, working there and exiting again is not as easy to proof. Point being ;-). But you`re right, there was always some interest in such things. But never any proof.

So there was no substantial claim to destroy anyone`s life. The royals still are as royal, and Sarah Ferguson is still her old self. It was the same with Berlusconi and the escorts. Not sufficient proof. Even though everyone knows...

[hank hill tx]

I am new to hobbying but I recently was searching p411 for a provider and recognized one of my clients from a side company I operate (personal training and wellness coaching). I am a vault of secrets and have no changed opinions of her, but I just thought it was an interesting observation.