Where did honesty go?

[MrGiz]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

I really don't see the purpose of an envelope, I just use cash. . . .

I don't like the idea of breaking out a roll and counting off Benjamins as thanks for an erotic encounter.... the envelope adds just another hint of veiled fantasy... just me...

[ForumPoster]

I never address the issue of donation until the session is over. If someone arranges a meeting with me with specific purpose of ripping me off, they are going to do it and escalating conflict won't end well.

That said, I operate under two premises:

1) You get to fool me only once
2) As I mentioned in another post - I have no living enemies.

On serious note, people should "screen" each other not just for safety but for compatibility as well. Just because we live in universe of no strings attached encounters, we still are better off by seeing people we click with both mentally and physically. Research and you shall find what you seek

Lina

[Guest070818-1]

I just can't understand why all the EXTRA formalities after the process of screening. Its like two dogs sniffin' each other buttholes after they heard the other one bark.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Sensual Lina

On serious note, people should "screen" each other not just for safety but for compatibility as well. Just because we live in universe of no strings attached encounters, we still are better off by seeing people we click with both mentally and physically. Research and you shall find what you seek

Lina

very good point. So many of the issues people whine about on here is because they don't do that. I know one lady--not really a friend but we have some common interests--who has almost quit the business because of this point.

She has a lot of ink. It shows in her photoes. Several guys have seen her and then ripped her in reviews because she has tattoos!!!

My ATF is a very cosmopolitain, bright lady. Her portfolio described time with her as "slowly unwinding with a long time friend, catching up on each other and the world before seamlessly moving to the bedroom and more intimate moments". Most her reviews described a slow seduction rather than a rip-off-the-clothes sexual attack. Sure enough, she had a couple trashing reviews that complained she wasn't PS enough.

Too many guys turn off their brains and then complain when they become stupid.

[69]

I may be hobbying under a false assumption, but if a guy pays after the session when seeing a provider, shouldn't that considerably reduce his chance of getting busted in a sting?

I have heard of many cases where a provider was busted "after" by a male undercover cop, but I have never heard of a hobbyist getting busted "after" by a female undercover cop.

[MsElena]

I don't care who the guy is, he may be the right hand of God, but he needs to pay upfront with me. I've had one too many guys rip me off in the past. Fool me once, shame on you.....fool me twice, shame on me. No one has complained about it, they walk in, lay it down and life is good. We go on to have a fab session.

Call me rude, not sensual, not sexy because I require my fee upfront, but I refuse to be a doormat for some guys. Even some of the greatest guys can turn ugly at some point and may short/rip off a gal.

So, those who complain about having to pay upfront....you can blame your brethren.

Us ladies have to deal with numerous questions because of ladies who bait n' switch, use the fake pics, have fake ads, etc. So, we're all in the same boat at the end of the day.

[AdventureAdams]

Originally Posted by MsElena

I don't care who the guy is, he may be the right hand of God, but he needs to pay upfront with me. I've had one too many guys rip me off in the past. Fool me once, shame on you.....fool me twice, shame on me. No one has complained about it, they walk in, lay it down and life is good. We go on to have a fab session.

Call me rude, not sensual, not sexy because I require my fee upfront, but I refuse to be a doormat for some guys. Even some of the greatest guys can turn ugly at some point and may short/rip off a gal.

So, those who complain about having to pay upfront....you can blame your brethren.

Us ladies have to deal with numerous questions because of ladies who bait n' switch, use the fake pics, have fake ads, etc. So, we're all in the same boat at the end of the day.

I respect the guys that operate on the pre-cautious side, but AMEN to all of this I used to be afraid to come of as rude or too business-like but after one or two "I forgot my wallet in the car" scenarios, I don't take chances now.

[ForumPoster]

Originally Posted by Old-T

Sure enough, she had a couple trashing reviews that complained she wasn't PS enough.

Too many guys turn off their brains and then complain when they become stupid.

Here is another "favorite" line "she is not the type I like but she was available." then they proceed to comment on everything they did not like.

Lina

[adult146]

I have had very few ladies ask me for payment up front, but I do try to lay it down somewhere when I walk in.

Only once or twice has anyone counted it before we began.

That may be my selective memory. LOL.