Making sessions better

[jwin]

This question is more for the ladies but guys feel free to weight in. If like me most guys that hobby do it for variety and some added spice. Lately I've noticed that sessions are in most cases not equal to RL experiences. My question is, what are things that you as a provider like that adds to your session and leaves your clients in awe. PM me if neccessary.

[DallasRain]

lol---sometimes ya just gotta go see for yourself! lol

Seriously---I try to make the sessions energetic/upbeat/fun/personable and memorable
{I call it the OMFG experience}

[Big Heretic]

If you really want to make a visit with a lady memorable, it pays to make an effort to show her that you've been anticipating and looking forward to visiting with her, to let her know that she has been on your mind, and make your visit something that both of you will look back on with fond memories.

I always start with a little gift bag filled with nice things. Lotions, nice chocolates, a card with a nice note (as well as the gratuity) telling her how much I have been anticipating our visit, and maybe something sexy that I think she would look good in.

If I am providing the meeting place I always get there early enough to make sure I have things set up. I place scented candles around the room. discretely place certain items near the bed, find a strategic place for the gift bag so that she sees it upon entering the room, dim the lights, close the curtains, put on some light music, and make sure I have some bottled water, sodas, or tea (all unopened) to offer her.

If I am going to her location I still have the gift bag with goodies in it for her as well as some unopened beverages for us to enjoy.

I do my best to make sure she feels special and that she as been on my mind and that I've been anticipating our visit. When the door opens, I meet her with a smile and a hug, and when the door gets closed... a kiss and I tell her how beautiful she is and how it seemed like the clock had stopped as the time approached for our visit.

Short story made long, make the encounter as special as possible. Let her know she is special.

Later today I'll try to upload some pictures of a room I set up for a visit with a special lady in Atlanta this last weekend. I have to resize them before I can upload them. But right now I have to get ready for work.

[Caylee]

Wow! What a lucky lady!

[soccer2010]

Originally Posted by Caylee

Wow! What a lucky lady!

Caylee.....I think I can top that!!!
When are you coming to Bham??

[Caylee]

Soon my friend, very soon!

[Big Heretic]

As promised some picture of the room set up.

All the light was provided by the candles. The flash on my phone makes it look like there was more light. But it was soft candle light, soft music, and a soft lady.

I believe her red gift bag shows up in one pic. It contained a box of chocolates, some Burt's Bee's products, some perfumed lotions, and a card with a personal note and her gratuity.

I prefer suites or rooms that are big enough to have a couch. That way we can sit a chit-chat for a little bit. Also with the suites like the one's in the pictures there are other implements that can be used for candle holders, like the wine glasses.

The wine glasses were just right to drop a scented tea light in and it was fascinating to watch the light from the candle dance around on the counter as the light flickered through the cuts in the glass. Suites with kitchenettes will usually have a cutting board of some kind. I lined tea lights up on it and set it on top of the TV. I've also been known to use the turntable from the room's microwave oven as a tray to hold tea lights.

Tea lights are nice and small (plus they don't cost much) and last about as long as a 2 or 3 hour visit. But you do have to be careful with them and make sure they are sitting in or on something so they don't get knocked over and set something on fire.

I had some small jar candles and glade candles that I sat by the bed, on the desk, and on the counter in the bathroom.

A little effort can go an extremely long way with a lady. Really try to make it a special visit with a special lady friend.

[DallasRain]

I use alot of candles at my incall......I can even smell my apartment from the downstairs hallway! lol

[AdventureAdams]

Wow very impressed Heretic! That sure would make me feel super special, what lucky ladies they are.

[shagnthor]

Originally Posted by jwin

This question is more for the ladies but guys feel free to weight in. If like me most guys that hobby do it for variety and some added spice. Lately I've noticed that sessions are in most cases not equal to RL experiences. My question is, what are things that you as a provider like that adds to your session and leaves your clients in awe. PM me if neccessary.

My 0.02...Attitude is the no.1 factor for a better session.
99/100 you're going to her incall, or at least that's been my experience. If she hasn't created some ambiance, you're not going to haul in your candles and iPod and manufacture milieu. Attitude. Her attitude and your attitude. There are tools to help you get there, but if either of you aren't in the moment, you're not going to achieve the "real-life" experience you are seeking (I'm not sure what real life is...we're all in the Matrix). I hate to compare everything to golf, but its mental. You can have all of the physical skills, but the snakes in your head will fuck you up.

I'm often left in awe when my date brings in the surprise double with her swimsuit model friend at no additional donation. Yeh, that never happens.

[HeatherNicole]

Wow Heretic I think you just made the top of a lot of ladies must see lists. Beautiful setup and I am way impressed that a gent would do so much. My experience has been that its usually the ladies doing those kind of things for the gents. I would bounce around like a school girl if I arrived at a location and saw that a gent had taken that kind of time and thought into things. Just wow!

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by HeatherNicole

Wow Heretic I think you just made the top of a lot of ladies must see lists. Beautiful setup and I am way impressed that a gent would do so much. My experience has been that its usually the ladies doing those kind of things for the gents. I would bounce around like a school girl if I arrived at a location and saw that a gent had taken that kind of time and thought into things. Just wow!

Heather baby... Just you showing up for our first ever meeting was sensual overkill.. Damn it woman!! You had me when you walked in the door!!

And I have never been the romantic type. I can remember New Orleans Gent and the pains he went to for the ladies. I admire that. But I am always running 145 mph and can never find time to attempt to do something like that.

[HeatherNicole]

ty Blad I try babe. Good to see you back!

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by HeatherNicole

ty Blad I try babe. Good to see you back!

Try?? You have it down pat sexy!! And good to be back..