Fair is fair: Make it right

[Hercules]

Originally Posted by Dannie

It works both ways. Don't loan money to people you would like to continue to fuck

Fixed.

[Luv_da_girls]

Originally Posted by Dannie

Before we all start ragging on providers for asking for loans, let's not forget that it wasn't so long ago that a certain (AHEM! Cough!) provider loaned a mod money and had to go through shit that you wouldn't believe, to get it back. In fact I am pretty certain it wasn't the first time this certain provider (COUGH, COUGH) loaned money to a hobbyist.

It works both ways. Don't loan money to people you would like to continue to have a friendship with.

It's not the asking for a loan that bugs me.....it's the not paying it back.

And then there's this thing about ignoring you when you either ask for the money, or ask for some other form of compensation.

I'll beat a dead horse here, and again make the observation that in this situation, the girl in question did not contact legman until AFTER he outed her. That says a whole lot about the kind of person she is.

[Larrydumbass]

Originally Posted by Luv_da_girls

It's not the asking for a loan that bugs me.....it's the not paying it back.

And then there's this thing about ignoring you when you either ask for the money, or ask for some other form of compensation.

I'll beat a dead horse here, and again make the observation that in this situation, the girl in question did not contact legman until AFTER he outed her. That says a whole lot about the kind of person she is.

And just how will that session go after this was brought to the attention of everyone?? I am betting on NOT GOOD.

[Hercules]

Originally Posted by Larrydumbass

And just how will that session go after this was brought to the attention of everyone?? I am betting on NOT GOOD.

I gotta wonder the same thing. Damage is done. The best thing would be for her to refund the money and the two of them go their seperate ways.

[yaddayadda]

The thing is I can't figure out why this ever happens. Its just soooo easy for the girl to pay the guy back...what? An hour of her time or two maybe....possibly an overnighter?

I borrowed a 1000 from my brother in law once....just once...and in order for me to pay it back when I said I would I had to work 65 hours a week for a month in order to get enough overtime pay. I mean come on!

I am not putting anyone down for what they do but you have to admit its a pretty good paying job. I would think that the provider would much rather have sex for a couple of hours than have her name slung around in a negative manner.

Money has ruined more friendships.....oh well.

YY

[Luv_da_girls]

Originally Posted by yaddayadda

The thing is I can't figure out why this ever happens. Its just soooo easy for the girl to pay the guy back...what? An hour of her time or two maybe....possibly an overnighter?


YY

I can't figure that one out either.

This is what makes me think that in these kinds of situations, it's not just a money thing.

Nope. I think they want to feel like they got something over on you. Played you for a fool. Perhaps relishing the thought of getting something for nothing.

It shows a basic lack of respect. And dare I say it?.....human decency.

I would venture to say that most of the providers on this forum make more money on an average than 90% of the guys who see them. At least on an hourly basis.

[gashpump]

"I would venture to say that most of the providers on this forum make more money on an average than 90% of the guys who see them. At least on an hourly basis."

I'll say! Let's see .....

Overhead - One week at an extended stay hotel,
some rubbers, and a couple of 12 packs of Summer Breeze.........($ 300)

Thrice daily $200 sessions X 6 days (must have a day of rest).......$3600

Net........................... .............................. .............................. .$3300 per week

Before the flaming begins let me qualify that this is obviously an over-simplification of the actual pro's business model. But one can see, that in general, there is sufficient opportunity for a quality business owner to pay her bills.

Maybe Luv_da_girls's 90 percent estimate is a little conservative.

[Guest021812-3]

I'd like to out Dannie. I loaned her a bacon Whataburger and 4 packets of spicy ketchup, and she never gave it back. I gave her ample opportunity to repay me with sausage taquitos, but nothing yet.

[Randy4Candy]

Originally Posted by Dannie

Before we all start ragging on providers for asking for loans, let's not forget that it wasn't so long ago that a certain (AHEM! Cough!) provider loaned a mod money and had to go through shit that you wouldn't believe, to get it back. In fact I am pretty certain it wasn't the first time this certain provider (COUGH, COUGH) loaned money to a hobbyist.

Dannie, is one of the local docs checking you for a hernia? Be sure to turn your head to one side.

[CoHorn]

you can't buy class...even if you borrow money to buy it.

[Jules Jaguar]

Originally Posted by CoHorn

you can't buy class...even if you borrow money to buy it.

pow!

[pmdelites]

Quote: Originally Posted by Dannie
Before we all start ragging on providers for asking for loans, let's not forget that it wasn't so long ago that a certain (AHEM! Cough!) provider loaned a mod money and had to go through shit that you wouldn't believe, to get it back. In fact I am pretty certain it wasn't the first time this certain provider (COUGH, COUGH) loaned money to a hobbyist.

Originally Posted by Randy4Candy

Dannie, is one of the local docs checking you for a hernia? Be sure to turn your head to one side.

taking this way out to left field....
i asked my doc why guys had to turn their head and cough when getting a testicular checkup. was it some medical technique or indicator??

cough = shakes up the sack and helps to identify problems.
turn head = so the guys doesnt spit on the doc.

[Jersey Dog]

Simple rules to live by:
1. Never loan money to a provider, relative or friend if you want to maintain a good relationship with that person in the future. (See the many cases on court TV when the deadbeat defendant insists that the money was a gift, not a loan.)
2. Don't confuse business with friendship, or the illusion of passion with the real thing.

[Lust4xxxLife]

Originally Posted by Jersey Dog

Simple rules to live by:
1. Never loan money to a provider, relative or friend if you want to maintain a good relationship with that person in the future. (See the many cases on court TV when the deadbeat defendant insists that the money was a gift, not a loan.)
2. Don't confuse business with friendship, or the illusion of passion with the real thing.

Even simpler rules: don't loan money that you expect to get back. Assume you will never be paid be back. That will help you make the right decision on who you want to loan money to, and it will help you manage your expectations.

L4L

[Lust4xxxLife]

Originally Posted by legman+

Can't go to sleep without making sure I acknowledge that Kelly contacted me stating she will make things right. I don't know if the personal reasons from the PM should be stated so I'll leave it at that. For the negative minded, it's none of the typical 'told you so' stuff: pimp, pharmaceuticals, jail, etc.

She's woman enough to come forward so I'll just see how things go from here.

And for those that know her, as I said it definitely has not been the character of the giggly, charming young lady I've come to know which really set me back in amazement.

Peace.... bedtime.

Sorry, I must be missing something. She wasn't woman enough to do anything until you outed her and she realized that being known as a douche bag might affect business. It wouldn't have cost her anything to contact you before you outed her, would it? With all due respect, I think you might want to reconsider changing your handle to Silly Putty, because that's what you apparently are in her hands. Just an observation...