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MsElena · 01-04-2012, 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by cxavier

MsElena, I really appreciate all of your input and your wealth of experience. I was a little surprised, though, when you said that a hobbyist would get arrested just for showing up at a location. Unless an agreement has been made for more than just someone's time, why would they arrest you on arrival? There are providers of erotic, but not illegal, services. Without an explicit agreement of something illegal for money, wouldn't both provider and hobbyist be safe? I am sincerely interested because I am quite new to this and extremely cautious.

Thanks for the compliment.

Its called intent darlin'. Intent means purpose, an aim...etc. I'm sure y'all know the meaning. With that said, you have a purpose for going to Motel 6, to visit with a lady and get your rocks off and the lady has a purpose too, to make money. LE isn't stupid, don't underestimate them.

It is true, there are escorts out there of the legal nature, but if that's the case.......you sure wouldn't be going to a super 8 to pick that lady up. It doesn't matter if something explicit has been discussed, if LE wants you and wants to rack up that money for the city, they will get you. That goes for both men and ladies.

My advice to you, research the ladies you'd like to see. You have 4 reviews under your belt, so I'm sure you know what you're doing.

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Originally Posted by tucson

I still maintain if the lady has no referrals and no history taking them to dinner is a sure way to weed out LE. LE won't waste time with it and BCD after words will be OK. Most have references so that won't be necessary. Stopping and asking a street walker to go to dinner should be funny as hell.

Do you plan on paying the fee for a lady going out to dinner each and every time you wish to see an escort? Some may go just for the free meal, but most won't.

Guest030824 · 01-04-2012, 11:29 PM

MsElena
Dinner and BCD time is my thing. I enjoy time with a lady and I find the closeness adds to the private time. Today I met with Alecia and we had dinner and hit a clothing shop for a fantastic outfit. Some give me hell for what I do but I sure enjoy it and the ladies I have been with never fail to go again later. I had a date with Lexxy Lust from Calif last year she had no reviews on ECCIE and I took a liking to her pictures. We set a date but things were strange so we went to dinner first. She was young and new to the hobby so this allowed both of us to ease into the BCD time.

MsElena · 01-04-2012, 11:47 PM

I mistook your previous post. I was assuming that you were taking the ladies out for dinner for free or expected the ladies to go for free. I know, you didn't say either.

You keep doing what you are comfortable with and the hell with what others say.

Guest030824 · 01-04-2012, 11:54 PM

It's my damn money I am living my second childhood. I just joined your email site but I am not 79 as it posted. I am still in my prime.....

Omahan · 01-05-2012, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by cxavier

MsElena, I really appreciate all of your input and your wealth of experience. I was a little surprised, though, when you said that a hobbyist would get arrested just for showing up at a location. Unless an agreement has been made for more than just someone's time, why would they arrest you on arrival? There are providers of erotic, but not illegal, services. Without an explicit agreement of something illegal for money, wouldn't both provider and hobbyist be safe? I am sincerely interested because I am quite new to this and extremely cautious.

There's a big difference between arresting you and convicting you. So they arrest you; your photo is on the internet for a prostitution related bust; your wife, family, friends and business associates all hear about it and then your attorney gets you off. Not a very nice scenario. Or the cops just lie and say you agreed to sex for $ - now what?

Bigh1955 · 01-19-2012, 07:07 AM

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Originally Posted by MsElena

Stings to get hobbyists aren't rare in Omaha, I know of a sting a few weeks ago where a couple guys were busted. They happen, they just aren't as public knowledge in Omaha as escorts getting busted.

If the chick is a cop or decoy, etc., you're going to be busted once you show up at the hotel, its called intent. You don't even have to go into the hotel, if the cops want you, they'll get you.

Okay, now I feel sooo much better - lol.

MsElena · 01-19-2012, 10:05 AM

Just do your homework and you'll feel even better.

Guest042413 · 01-20-2012, 11:28 PM

LE Are not allowed to drink alcohol while they are working from what I have heard.... So order some drinks and guess see where it goes

Guest030824 · 01-20-2012, 11:56 PM

My first time with a provider that has no or few reviews start with dinner. I am in my 70s so if I get picked up for asking for sex I will pay extra to have it put on the front page of the newspaper. I have wondered what LE would do if I asked a decoy to dinner? I stay away from back page and there is no way I would ask a SW. The few cop friends I have know what I am doing and kid me from time to time. I will not ask them for any info and they don't ask me. Like I said in another thread I made a date from a cop car last year with the cop laughing his ass off.

MsElena · 01-21-2012, 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by oLiViA88

LE Are not allowed to drink alcohol while they are working from what I have heard.... So order some drinks and guess see where it goes

Cops aren't supposed to touch or for that matter receive services, but some do. Cops can do pretty much whatever they want in order to make the bust. Its our word against theirs in court, which one do you think a judge is going to believe?

newyorkboy · 01-21-2012, 06:15 AM

I have to diagree somewhat with Mselena. I have a cop friend who worked viced until a few years ago.....(hopefully none of you are acquanited with him). Anyway, he has no idea that I'm in the hobby, but has told me with a smile that it was his job to "drink, gamble and pick up women". He would tell me that he could touch or be touched, get naked. The only two things that would sour the bust was if he actually had sex, or if having a massage with a happy ending, "didn't hold my mud". He had multple driver's licenses with different names, so DLs are not reliable. Bottom line....do your reseach on your customers; inquire from each other, keep asking questions, FOLLOW YOUR GUT (most important!!!) and when you get a group of regular clients stick with them! The part I DO particularly agree with, is that some cops will do things they shouldn't (don't we all?), and actually have sex with the provider; and the judge will usually side with LE.
NewYorkBoy