I'm in total agreement with Outdoorsman in his good word for SoulManIke. He helped me out a LOT in the transition post Big C.
And speaking of Big C, I'm with Chica Chaser...he was a solid mod that knew when to have fun with threads & members, and when to drop the hammer.
Most of you won't understand my reasoning for my third reccomendation because SHE isn't seen much by y'all doing active moderating. And that is Lea Madisson. She does offers a LOT of help behind the scenes and consistently offers a great deal of insight and level headedness (is that even a word) to difficult situations.
Tigercat, I hear what you are saying loud and clear. To this day I wonder how I pissed in St. Chris' cornflakes that caused him to invite me. And my dumb ass accepted...