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Originally Posted by Reese Foster
I always feel weird about sending out a text or pm even with a special. I guess, I just assume if a gentleman wanted to see me, he would ask.
I have done it before with great results, but the initial act of it...makes me feel uneasy.
So when I am bored, I just sit and twiddle my thumbs until someone texts or emails. Pathetic huh?
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Originally Posted by Selena51
I'm with you Reese I feel the same way
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I kind of think a text message is a bit too forward, but a PM or email offering a special is not as intrusive to me.
The big thing would be how well you know the hobbyist. Have you seen him before? Have you seen him multiple times? Has he tried to schedule with you and your schedules just never could align? Perhaps knowing you were available, an even offering a small discount, might be enough to complete the hookup.
I had a pretty tight relationship with Rumor when she was around. Occassionally she would drop me a email with an offer, or an IM on yahoo. She didn't like chat, so we never used that forum, but that is another resource.
A cold contact in most cases would turn me off. If I haven't ever contacted you or flirted with you before, then I probably have little interest in meeting you. But for old friends (I know, at my age, I am an old friend to anyone & everyone), I would say no problem.
Reese, I don't play much, but a note from you would never feel intrusive, even if I couldn't take advantage of you, oops, it. I think most guys would agree to that comment regarding you or Selena.