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Still Looking · 01-16-2012, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Well, you weren't going to pay her to show up.

[I'm not sure I buy the "she didn't have my phone number" thing, though.]

Southwest didn't charge anymore because they knew it was a security issue! So she was able to get on the next and only flight with no up charge! But if there had been an up charge guess who would have paid for that? You guessed it, she has a SL company credit card! LOL

The phone number thing is real, because I don't know her number either. If I lost my cell phone I'd be clueless! The only reason she called my office was she had my office number on my card in her purse! Go figure! After I thought about it, I really don't have very many numbers committed to memory these days! Hell I didn't even remember my land line out of state!

charlestudor2005 · 01-16-2012, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Still Looking

LOL

I really don't have very many numbers committed to memory these days! Hell I didn't even remember my land line out of state!

Maybe you should put your address book in the Cloud?

Still Looking · 01-16-2012, 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Maybe you should put your address book in the Cloud?

That sounds like good advise Charles! Always have a back up plan!

burkalini · 01-16-2012, 04:07 PM

NCNS is the absolutley the dumbest thing a provider can do. There are good reasons to not show up but to not call on top of that 99.9% excuses are pure fucking lies. I will let a less than stellar session go with maybe she just wasn't up to it but the NCNS Bitch and I use that term with vigor just thinks she can shit on whoever she wants. I had one NCNS on me three times ( I am the idiot for giving her second chances) and finally she pissed me off so bad that when ever I see a review on her I remind everyone of her NCNS ability. It just shows no charachter at all. I just say fuckem. Other than that I love most providers . lol

pyramider · 01-16-2012, 04:30 PM

SL and sticky are oddly good together.

That is to funny NCNS by your mom . . . That is too funny. My mom does not know to work her phone, she carries and her old address book.

charlestudor2005 · 01-16-2012, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by burkalini

NCNS is the absolutley the dumbest thing a provider can do. There are good reasons to not show up but to not call on top of that 99.9% excuses are pure fucking lies. I will let a less than stellar session go with maybe she just wasn't up to it but the NCNS Bitch and I use that term with vigor just thinks she can shit on whoever she wants. I had one NCNS on me three times ( I am the idiot for giving her second chances) and finally she pissed me off so bad that when ever I see a review on her I remind everyone of her NCNS ability. It just shows no charachter at all. I just say fuckem. Other than that I love most providers . lol

Why don't you tell us what you really think??

BTW, I disagree that it shows no character. It shows exactly the kind of character you want to stay away from and discourage others from spending their money on.

burkalini · 01-16-2012, 05:20 PM

ok I agree on bad character

alluringava · 01-16-2012, 09:03 PM

I understand that things happen and almost always, when clients cancel, it is work or business-related, totally understandable. On a few occasions the wife or SO came home 'early' or they were unable to get away. The dumbest excuse I heard was " The taxi got into an accident and I'm in the hospital." In the background, I heard what sounded like a strip club or a dance club music and girls talking. I thought, you know, why make up such a dumb ass excuse. That just makes the other person feel dumb.

JDNorthface · 01-16-2012, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by alluringava

...The dumbest excuse I heard was " The taxi got into an accident and I'm in the hospital." In the background, I heard what sounded like a strip club or a dance club music and girls talking....

Now there's a hospital that excels in customer service...!

pickupkid · 01-17-2012, 02:24 AM

As I understand that things happen I feel you are responible for calling or pm your client or provider. I have been on both sides and I really appreciated the call.

Still Looking · 01-17-2012, 03:39 AM

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Originally Posted by pickupkid

As I understand that things happen I feel you are responible for calling or pm your client or provider. I have been on both sides and I really appreciated the call.

IF they CALL, then it wouldn't be NSNC would it? I have had providers reschedule several times due to different issues. The
"Circus Being In Town" is one I certainly understand.

Here is one I've never heard, "Hey I just won the Lotto, go fuck yourself!"

bistraight69 · 01-17-2012, 05:27 AM

Since we hobby as a couple it double sucks when we get a NCNS because we have more than just blocked time - we have to find and pay a babysitter. We have also went thru all it takes to get out of mommy and daddy mode (dehair, dress up, etc) and then we get a NCNS - all that work for nothing!!!
We have a fellow hobbyist friend that works at the local children's emergency room who checks the waiting room for hot mommies and he states he never sees providers there, although they tell us that is where they are when they NCNS. Not to say that this excuse isn't valid, but maybe they just aren't there when my friend is, maybe.

Still Looking · 01-17-2012, 12:59 PM

The legitimate NSNC providers are easy to distinguish from the nut jobs! In every case they do follow up, they are very sorry and they feel they need to compensate you. In most cases they make themselves very available and offer a very hefty discount! Now that’s someone who had a legitimate problem. The rest of you are just flakes that are selfish pieces of crapola that don't give a shit about anyone but yourself! Then when some screws you over in the same fashion you scream blood murder. Then you compound the problem by thinking because it happened to you, you have a sense of entitlement to screw the next person over! What comes around goes around BITCH! Sorry, but little SL gets mad as hell with he gets stood up! I’m usually very understanding and easy going. I just can’t control him sometimes! LOL

CummingsLane · 01-17-2012, 02:19 PM

Thats all you can do. I am great girl with a lot to offer. So I take it as their loss not mine.

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Originally Posted by pyramider

I just drive on.

Its all about respect for yourself & your client. Time is something we can never get back so I choose never to waste it.

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Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

NCNS are inconsiderate they have no appreciation for your time and efforts. They show they don't care about you are their business, most NCNS because they doublebook or float on the assumption that there will always be more guys, unfortunately some are right.

CummingsLane · 01-17-2012, 02:21 PM

I know just the thing to get them out of your mind. The more you focus on the positive the less you see the negative. Hugs & kisses coming your way.

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Originally Posted by Still Looking

The legitimate NSNC providers are easy to distinguish from the nut jobs! In every case they do follow up, they are very sorry and they feel they need to compensate you. In most cases they make themselves very available and offer a very hefty discount! Now that’s someone who had a legitimate problem. The rest of you are just flakes that are selfish pieces of crapola that don't give a shit about anyone but yourself! Then when some screws you over in the same fashion you scream blood murder. Then you compound the problem by thinking because it happened to you, you have a sense of entitlement to screw the next person over! What comes around goes around BITCH! Sorry, but little SL gets mad as hell with he gets stood up! I’m usually very understanding and easy going. I just can’t control him sometimes! LOL