My wife and I started to try some kinky new things. Buying toys, dirty talk, attempted Greek, light domination... Then she found a flame from hs and ran away with him (damned Facebook!).
I am dating, but the sex is anything but kinky. I want to hobby some kink back into my life

. Any suggestions on where to start and who to see in DFW (I have read dallasrain's posts. Does she have a clone that is actually in Dallas?!)?
Should I get bat chit crazy, (the kind where I feel weired at work the next day) or ease into it gently somehow?