Tipping Question

[Guest072323]

Having sex by the hour is really pretty damn expensive if you step back and take a look at the fee divided by the time.

Giggle.
Remember though.... we're NOT paying for the sex.....
We're paying the lady to LEAVE after sex....
SO...... if you book for an hour..... she's actually NOT there for much longer than that..... making the rate much more attractive.....

[ms_anika]

As another independent provider who's rate is all inclusive, I do not expect a tip either after outstanding service (which is what I provide regardless) nor should a gentlemen assume that the level of service he receives from me is dependent on if he tips or not and how much that tip is.

Of course, tipping is always appreciated and I never feel insulted when someone does. It has made me feel awkward on occasion though because let's face it...some tips or gifts come with strings attached in the form of entitlement to preferential treatment or are an attempt to take the relationship to a level that is not transactional.

In my opinion the best kinds of tip you can give are to have a polite, respectful and appreciative attitude, give genuine compliments on the provider and her performance, respect her boundaries, adhere to whatever scheduling policy she has, don't try to negotiate the rate down, don't have to be told "no" twice, arrive on time, etc.

I can't speak for other girls, but for me the little things like those will go a lot farther towards me remembering you than an extra $50 or $100. You will also have the extra piece of mind that it is you and our time together that I enjoy, not your practice of tipping...

[Quail]

Originally Posted by ms_elizabeth

As another independent provider who's rate is all inclusive, I do not expect a tip either after outstanding service (which is what I provide regardless) nor should a gentlemen assume that the level of service he receives from me is dependent on if he tips or not and how much that tip is.

Of course, tipping is always appreciated and I never feel insulted when someone does. It has made me feel awkward on occasion though because let's face it...some tips or gifts come with strings attached in the form of entitlement to preferential treatment or are an attempt to take the relationship to a level that is not transactional.

In my opinion the best kinds of tip you can give are to have a polite, respectful and appreciative attitude, give genuine compliments on the provider and her performance, respect her boundaries, adhere to whatever scheduling policy she has, don't try to negotiate the rate down, don't have to be told "no" twice, arrive on time, etc.

I can't speak for other girls, but for me the little things like those will go a lot farther towards me remembering you than an extra $50 or $100. You will also have the extra piece of mind that it is you and our time together that I enjoy, not your practice of tipping...

ms elizabeth,

I truly like and appreciate your views here. You are a " class act " and your comments should be a MUST READ for any new providers ( as well as some of the existing providers ).

I hope that you have a happy holiday season and a great 2012.

[Chloe]

[QUOTE=ms_elizabeth;1933284]As another independent provider who's rate is all inclusive, I do not expect a tip either after outstanding service (which is what I provide regardless) nor should a gentlemen assume that the level of service he receives from me is dependent on if he tips or not and how much that tip is.

Of course, tipping is always appreciated and I never feel insulted when someone does. It has made me feel awkward on occasion though because let's face it...some tips or gifts come with strings attached in the form of entitlement to preferential treatment or are an attempt to take the relationship to a level that is not transactional.

In my opinion the best kinds of tip you can give are to have a polite, respectful and appreciative attitude, give genuine compliments on the provider and her performance, respect her boundaries, adhere to whatever scheduling policy she has, don't try to negotiate the rate down, don't have to be told "no" twice, arrive on time, etc.

I can't speak for other girls, but for me the little things like those will go a lot farther towards me remembering you than an extra $50 or $100. You will also have the extra piece of mind that it is you and our time together that I enjoy, not your practice of tipping...[/QUOTE
+1

[jan-w]

To Chloe, that's the best fuckin' response I ever read from a lady regarding tips. My sentiments exactly.

[offshoredrilling]

mmmm its called a donation. where is my 501 (c) (3)

[Frankie Fine]

Agree with Ms Elizabeth!!

plus I often wonder,

If a client starts tipping from the very first appointment it would be a shame if he feels he can only book an appointment when he can afford the tip. Possibly he is not as regular as he wishes based on his own decision to tip in the first place.

I love tips,gifts,regular visits as long as it is comfortable for both giving and receiving!

[NormalBob]

Originally Posted by Frankie Fine

I love tips,gifts,regular visits as long as it is comfortable for both giving and receiving!

How about compliments?

OUTSTANDING WINTER PHOTOS Frankie. Your showcase is rocking.

[pyramider]

I love it when fucktards break out their calculators and start computing hooktard income . . . If you want to tip, tip. If you do not want to tip, then don't. I tip if she has had to deal with miscommunications or other goofiness. The ladies appreciate being appreciated. Who doesn't . . .

[petiteassman]

if a group of pictures ever got me so horny. i have imagined that frozen body with a warm spot about a million times since she posted those pics

Originally Posted by NormalBob

How about compliments?

OUTSTANDING WINTER PHOTOS Frankie. Your showcase is rocking.