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Soonerman12 · 12-02-2011, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Jackie S

You Ladies need to understand that there are a lot of guys out there who take any benevolent action by a Lady as an act of affection. You are opening yourself up to all sorts of hassles and grief by forgetting the basic facts of the Hobby. That is, the Ladies screw Men for money, and the Men pay the Ladies for the pleasure. It's when you start venturing from that basic tenant is when trouble begins.

Agreed. The number one rule of hobbying is to never see the provider/client relationship as anything but a business transaction. Guys go broke all the time expecting more. The guys I knew that married providers ended up going broke when they found out that providers were real women with real issues. It's different when you have to make the other person happy as opposed to paying someone to satisfy you.

Naomi4u · 12-02-2011, 06:31 PM

Eh ok oh well so some of you don't get it. Focus on things you are familiar with. As I said earlier, not everyone will understand the concept.

London Rayne · 12-02-2011, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Jackie S

At last look, this was a Hooker Board. Judging from the hundreds of Provider Profiles listed, there would be a lot of flat broke Ladies if every Hobbyist did what you suggested, or worse yet, did what I do.

Yea, but some men are doing just that...not seeing but a handful or even just one or two select ladies. They are still spending the same amount of money, but it's going to fewer ladies. It all evens out in the end.

Still Looking · 12-02-2011, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Am I still excluded from this discussion??? Or is there another Ed & Namoni (Naomi?) I don't know about!?!

No way Ed, your always welcome!

Still Looking · 12-02-2011, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Naomi4u

for a girl with average looks, yes. Maybe. There are ladise that charge 5k for this.

I can't even explain a clock free date to SL, It's not worth my time.
If someone isn't used to booking more than an hour or two with a lady, they will not get it.
Again, it's like telling a guy that usually books 4 hours to book a 30 minute date, he does not understand the logic.

xoxo

BS Naomi! I do understand, I just don't agree! You act as if everything you do is normal! Well you go ahead tell me and everyone else paying $2,000-$5,000 for a date is normal. While it might happen, it’s NOT the norm. You don't win people over or receive understanding by being condescending!

pyramider · 12-02-2011, 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Jackie S

You seem like a nice Lady, and have a good sense about yourself.

But what you said is exactly what gets Hobbyist, and even Providers, in trouble when it comes to these types of "relationships".

The truth is, all of the Ladies here are Hookers, and all of the Men are Tricks. Once you get past that, it allows you to enjoy this whole endevour for what it is, rather than getting hung up on semantics.

There are hookers here? Where are they all hiding?

Still Looking · 12-02-2011, 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I'm confused. Was that a typo? An overnight for $300?

I'll also say what you described isn't a clock free date or close to it.

It's a NON-GPS rate!

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Originally Posted by shorty

Hey that sounds like someone for SL, Naomi!

Still Looking · 12-02-2011, 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

SL didn't ask the ladies to explain it, he asked some of the guys that have done a clock free date to chime in. So far none have...

Thanks EA! Sounds like a LOT of selling going on!

Still Looking · 12-02-2011, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by London Rayne

Not all guys are here to just see how many women they can fk...how high school.

Many men here want to see only a few ladies and form some sort of rapport, rather than continuing to risk themselves to new stuff...just sayin.

Excellent point!

burkalini · 12-02-2011, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Still Looking

BS Naomi! I do understand, I just don't agree! You act as if everything you do is normal! Well you go ahead tell me and everyone else paying $2,000-$5,000 for a date is normal. While it might happen, it’s NOT the norm. You don't win people over or receive understanding by being condescending!

Is this Still being pissed off???? Please excuse me while I pick myself up off the floor and put my jaw back in it's hinges

Naomi4u · 12-02-2011, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Still Looking

BS Naomi! I do understand, I just don't agree! You act as if everything you do is normal! Well you go ahead tell me and everyone else paying $2,000-$5,000 for a date is normal. While it might happen, it’s NOT the norm. You don't win people over or receive understanding by being condescending!

As my friend London would say WAH WAH WAH!

burkalini · 12-02-2011, 08:28 PM

Every provider has perceived value. We have our own willingness and ability to pay. Hey if they get alot for overnight I say go for it. IfI was a provider it would be the best thing. You get paid the most without having to do one or two hour deals. I don't imagine a ugly snoring old man is tops in their list of things they like so there is a drawback but I'm sure they only do one or two sessions and get paid alot of money for it. I have only done an overnight with one provider and I ended up spending a year with that one. lol I'm not doing those anymore just to be safe. lol

Soonerman12 · 12-02-2011, 11:49 PM

Thank God that we have the "Escort Girl's" blog around to tell us how providers really feel about the men who spend all of that money, looking for something deeper.

http://beinganescort.blogspot.com/

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Let me try to be clearer: I dont know your relationship to her- not that it would really matter, but if you are a client of hers she will see you as trying to get free dates- just as she doesnt truly care for you she knows you dont truly care for her either. Its a well played game but underneath it all she knows why you are there, and yes you may want her to make better choices but coming from a client is just strange..... We see men, money, life, even other women differently- how could we not? The men are obvious- we know you cheat, its a secret world we share. We cant help but wonder about every man we meet, what their intentions are... who really cares and who is just after what all the others are after.

Naomi4u · 12-02-2011, 11:53 PM

Yes because someone writes it on their anonymous blog, it's true. *rolls eyes* Just FYI, Most of us aren't cold and jaded.

Shayla · 12-02-2011, 11:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Soonerman12

Thank God that we have the "Escort Girl's" blog around to tell us how providers really feel about the men who spend all of that money, looking for something deeper.

http://beinganescort.blogspot.com/

Meh... Some guys are easier to be around than others. I'll say that. Generally I try to make the best of it. I keep myself current on the social/political affairs and sports just so I can always have something to talk about. My humour is dry and not everyone get's it.