Being Too Friendly

[_Jayne_]

is a state of mind you ACTUALLY TRULY MADLY ABSOLUTELY may really not wish to meet face to face. Most people around here are SO MUCH COOLER ON LINE.. that when you meet in person.. its almost like the wind out of your sail. Od though.. many treat you the same rude way they do here, in person.. and when they build themselves up to be so much.. and then you meet them and they are rude and try to intimidate you.. its like : " MFG.. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME ?". If all these brains and fine men and chics had a real life... you would RARELY hear of them.. they wouldn't have time to be here.

screw poo less sex for cents... that's what I call it.

Originally Posted by simpleton

That might happen. However, It may make me want to meet a lady and have a session with her even more. Smart ladies really get me revved up.

I don't think you can ever be too friendly and hurt your business. Just let them know the only way you'll meet up is to book an apt.
As London says," This isn't match.com this is f for bucks."

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Shayla

Yes well, they are allowed to say no...

Exactly. It's really that simple.

I can't see any situation where being "too friendly" on line had a down side. More guys contact a lady, she is in control of whether she is available for what they want. The big part is it gets the calls coming in.

An interesting, friendly persona on line and in PMs is by far the biggest reason I look to meet someone I haven't met before.

PS: I have been told many times that one of the worst parts of a road trip is eating alone for several nights. There are several ladies hwo have my phone # and have often called to see if I'm in the same town they are in and if I'm available for dinner. Sometimes it turns into more, sometimes not.

[London Rayne]

I have screwed myself by doing this big time lol. What I mean, is that I have so many guys who want to meet me just because of my board persona, but not necessarily for a pay date lol. They just want to meet the person behind "London Rayne" but for drinks and laughs. I have become very good friends with a few here, that I actually got to the point of not being able to see them for bcd anymore. It just feels like I would be screwing my brother or something now!

Because I am nowhere near a full-time provider, I have a lot of time to do what I want and that includes posting an insane amount lol. Once you have gotten your life to a state that allows you to literally live freely without being controlled or confined by a dollar, it really does feel great! At the same time, it also sends off a message that you don't need "any" money, which is not true at all lol. Of course, I still need "some," but not 5-10 clients a week anymore.

I think guys get mixed messages about just what a provider needs and expects. I mean I do find it a bit offensive when someone says, "Hey I don't much care if your bills are paid, but would love to have drinks with you." WTF...I have a public only rate then! It's like they are really saying, "I don't much care if you have extra money to buy your children gifts at Christmas, but I think it would be cool to meet you for drinks off the clock" lol. Then I suggest you start paying my mortgage if you want a girlfriend who can meet with you that way.

If I have NEVER met a guy, I am not just going to lose money going see him for free when he has never invested in any part of my career here or otherwise. If it's a meet and greet type thing sure, but that's only IF I have nothing pending to do.

[JDNorthface]

Originally Posted by simpleton

That might happen. However, It may make me want to meet a lady and have a session with her even more. Smart ladies really get me revved up.

I don't think you can ever be too friendly and hurt your business. Just let them know the only way you'll meet up is to book an apt.
As London says," This isn't match.com this is f for bucks."

+1

If everyone keeps their eyes on the real reason we're all here, we can be as social and candid as we want. Some gentlemen prefer longer sessions and therefore require some social interaction here on the board (and elsewhere) to ensure the lady has a personality.

[shorty]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

I have screwed myself by doing this big time lol. What I mean, is that I have so many guys who want to meet me just because of my board persona, but not necessarily for a pay date lol. They just want to meet the person behind "London Rayne" but for drinks and laughs. I have become very good friends with a few here, that I actually got to the point of not being able to see them for bcd anymore. It just feels like I would be screwing my brother or something now!

Because I am nowhere near a full-time provider, I have a lot of time to do what I want and that includes posting an insane amount lol. Once you have gotten your life to a state that allows you to literally live freely without being controlled or confined by a dollar, it really does feel great! At the same time, it also sends off a message that you don't need "any" money, which is not true at all lol. Of course, I still need "some," but not 5-10 clients a week anymore.

I think guys get mixed messages about just what a provider needs and expects. I mean I do find it a bit offensive when someone says, "Hey I don't much care if your bills are paid, but would love to have drinks with you." WTF...I have a public only rate then! It's like they are really saying, "I don't much care if you have extra money to buy your children gifts at Christmas, but I think it would be cool to meet you for drinks off the clock" lol.

If I have NEVER met a guy, I am not just going to lose money going see him for free when he has never invested in any part of my career here or otherwise. If it's a meet and greet type thing sure, but that's only IF I have nothing pending to do.

Seems like someone has told me this before! Hey here in AR, we are into fking are relatives in more than one way!

[London Rayne]

Yah...so I have heard lol!

[sexydream]

I'm friendly and happy to be in my skin. I have regulars who tell me, one of the reasons they always come back is my personality, not to mention other reasons. (( hehe )) I'm often told i'm the total package, even when i meet someone new!! Each person, and situation is different.

[evietaylor]

I've had several men want to meet me just for dinner or drinks as an informal introduction without any BCD times. This is why I offer a 1 Hour Meet & Greet per my website.

I'm a paid companion, period. A very friendly paid companion.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by evietaylor

I've had several men want to meet me just for dinner or drinks as an informal introduction without any BCD times. This is why I offer a 1 Hour Meet & Greet per my website.

I'm a paid companion, period. A very friendly paid companion.

Nope...they want it totally free with no intention of EVER paying for bcd.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Nope...they want it totally free with no intention of EVER paying for bcd.

I would pay money to see some of those responses to those requests! LOL