BP attempt gone psycho

[jl11]

Originally Posted by Anita Lay

maybe she had something bad happen to her at a motel or had some serious time wasters messing with her.
Some younger and smaller women feel like they have to raise their voice in order to be taken seriously so they are not hurt.
After all, we are letting someone we don't know and have never met, touch US in the most intimant way every imagined.
We providers are more vunerable for rape, abuse, and mental torment due to our profession. A popular provider was raped in a hotel not so long ago.
You are building trust by following her way of doing bizness and if you couldn't do that then she surely wasn't going to open the door for you dear.
Not implying you or her are right or wrong, just saying understand with compassion and reason.

Ok so say I set up an outcall with you and did the same to you as she did to me. Would you put my number in the alerts section or just understand with compassion if I told you that I was robbed by a former provider?


Maybe she's just domestic friendly.

[Anita Lay]

I was asking you to show emapthy and compassion.. and you are making this into a pissing contest. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN RAPED? you have no idea what providers go through for the fact that women are considered weak and defenseless..
as I WROTE.. there is no wrong or right. Did you skip the part about a popular priovider being raped ... carry on with your point about being 'right" and it doesn't really matter what someone thinks cause all you want to hear is that you are RIGHT.
I am getting that loud and clear. If you knew the proper methods of doing things then why would you let her put you through hell?
I agree that you need to go through the front and up the elevator.. See, I am civil and adult enough to agree to ALL POINTS.. are you?
She may have thought YOU WERE RUDE by not following instrustions and ignoring her.. just a thought. good luck dear.

[Outdoorsman]

I think compassion is a two way street. I am compassionate and appreciative to those professionals that treat me properly, it is that simple. She has to be compassionate to a hobbyiests point of view as well, that's all. I know when I am seeing a lady for the first time, I get nervous and my radar is up higher than when I see a regular lady. A lady yells at me on phone and I have not yet goten a room number? I am headed out the door to the parking lot, that's just me.

It is not about right and wrong, it is not about what someone MIGHT have thought or not thought - all of that is irrelevant to me. What is relevant is she was rude, and I for one do not stand for it, just me.

Understand I was not privy to the phone call and I have no idea if the gentleman was rude to her or not, all I can comment on is what he described and to me she was rude, so I take my dollars elsewhere. if she was raped once, I am sorry for tat no one, I repeat no one should be raped, but that does not give a person the right to treat me rudely, period. I am not nor was I ever the rapist. And that scenario is very speculative at best, no excuse for not being polite in my book.

[biomed1]

Empathy & Compassion?

Post # 5 of this thread shows absolutely zero understanding, empathy or compassion.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...47#post1847847

Just sayin'

Be Careful & Enjoy!

Biomed1

[Anita Lay]

maybe the girl thought he wasn't hearing that well and had to raise her voice.. who knows.
If I keep repeating myself to the guy and he keeps asking for the room number why would someone not raise their voice just in case he can't hear that well. just saying.. You are right.. it is a two way street and many things could EASILY be dictated as RUDE.
He admitted to asking her for the room number and she was telling him to follow instructions but he wanted to do it a paticular way.
Confusion right there...

[jl11]

Originally Posted by Anita Lay

I was asking you to show emapthy and compassion.. and you are making this into a pissing contest. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN RAPED? you have no idea what providers go through for the fact that women are considered weak and defenseless..
as I WROTE.. there is no wrong or right. Did you skip the part about a popular priovider being raped ... carry on with your point about being 'right" and it doesn't really matter what someone thinks cause all you want to hear is that you are RIGHT.
I am getting that loud and clear. If you knew the proper methods of doing things then why would you let her put you through hell?
I agree that you need to go through the front and up the elevator.. See, I am civil and adult enough to agree to ALL POINTS.. are you?
She may have thought YOU WERE RUDE by not following instrustions and ignoring her.. just a thought. good luck dear.

Number 1, she didn't put me through hell. Number 2, if she has been raped I'm sorry, especially if this profession is a last choice for her. Number 3, I didn't start this thread to start a pissing contest or feel that I'm right. Anyone on here is welcome to go try to have a session with her at their own risk. There's something that overpowers any human no matter their strength and they're called firearms, or (guns). How do you know that she could of not overpowered me without a weapon? How do I know that she didn't have a pimp hiding in a closet ready to bash my brains for resisting to let him try to control me. You seem to know so much about her and her outstanding business practice which has gained her high ratings and reviews. Please elaborate on.

[jl11]

Originally Posted by Anita Lay

maybe the girl thought he wasn't hearing that well and had to raise her voice.. who knows.
If I keep repeating myself to the guy and he keeps asking for the room number why would someone not raise their voice just in case he can't hear that well. just saying.. You are right.. it is a two way street and many things could EASILY be dictated as RUDE.
He admitted to asking her for the room number and she was telling him to follow instructions but he wanted to do it a paticular way.
Confusion right there...

Are you hearing voices as well? I asked her once for her room number and she told me that she doesn't give it out. I simply asked what do if the lobby door was unlocked and she kept repeating that if it was locked to call her. Maybe she's the one that can't hear, but I'm too grown to raise my voice to someone or carry on this ignorant arguement with you.

[Anita Lay]

You don't have to get nasty acting with me by writing -Are you hearing voices as well? your suggestive hinting of one hearing voices correlates to a mental issue and I am sure you are not a Psychologist. There would be serious issues with us both for we are in the same arena.
I have been respectful and have treated all ppl involved in this with respect and just because I brought some points up that you didn't like gives you no right to treat one uncivilized. If you think this is an argument then you shouldn't have brought it up because you knew ppl would have their own thoughts.
Hope you learned your lesson and you should have done your homework in the first place. You of all ppl knew better and as one guys said- she didn't look that good......
Now, I am still the bad person for agreeing with what HE SAID...

[jl11]

Ok well where did you hear that I kept asking for her room number? I didn't type that anywhere. You're trying to play out scenarios instead of reading the fine print. You've yet to make an actual point to why she acted the way she did except for your speculation. Now you think that you are in my mind by saying that I didn't like the points that you brought up and are treating you uncivilized. Once again read the fine print. Maybe I am getting nasty by labeling her a psycho, but to waste my time and gas money to get yelled at in the actual scenario, well so what?

[Nicolet]

I think it is time to move on....... too many ladies out there to be stuck on one. It did not work out for whatever reason, move on to the next. There are so many ladies who could rock your socks! Go for it! Enjoy, have fun!

[guest100913]

Originally Posted by biomed1

Empathy & Compassion?

Post # 5 of this thread shows absolutely zero understanding, empathy or compassion.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...59#post1847759
{NOTE: I corrected your link here to the 5th post--UF}

Just sayin'

Be Careful & Enjoy!

Biomed1

I also noticed that (and another one here).

jl11, don't take the argumentative bait. Sometimes its better to grit your teeth and ignor the inane. As regards the OP, I hope your next excursion is more to your liking.

[Anita Lay]

Thanks Ufriend for putting up that link to the other post about a lady provider being stalked by a person and so many people wanting her to stay.. that was sooo sweet to show how encouraging everyone was to her. THNKS