Is GFE Dead?

[MariaElena]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

flec,
go with the "legendary" providers...to name a few -- Sweet&Little, TiaTravels...
and
DallasRain -- one caveat on dallas tho'...she's been known to lock you in the room and make you holler for yo' mama!

weg,
mariaE

[deanna_bell69]

personally i wish i had more opportunity's to have gfe dates ...with a little twist most would say ...i wanna be that gfe who is kinky and then cuddly and then kinky then cuddly...i mean a bfe to me would be one that wanted both sides

[vidagalore]

its dead in the atlanta area.......

[exoticbabygirl]

Well im young but i do real good with gfe, well i just do real well!!!

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by evagodiva

its dead in the atlanta area.......

It's going pretty strong at my Atlanta address.

[missroxie]

I don't think it's dead.

((((HUGS)))) to Flecti

[fire engine red]

GFE is not dead, but you do have to pay more for it!!

[lisa.lisa0302]

No GFE is not dead.

Find some other providers to go see. Maybe you see the ones you see too often. Maybe its become routine to them.

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I don't think GFE is dead FNF, Its just like finding a real girlfriend you really like in the real world , hard to do

I agree with this 1000% SnL!

[Guest021012]

Hmmm, GFE as defined by me is a girl who makes you feel as if you've known each other for along time. Someone who is natural and defuses the awkwardness that can come from the situation. Someone who (at the very least) acts like she is genuinely interested in not only the (exciting) sex but can also converse and entertain with her legs closed.. (or at least just slightly parted lol)

If this is the GFE you are talking about, no, it's not dead at all. I thoroughly enjoy these types of clients, BUT they are the more rare for me to find. I suppose being on the younger side of the spectrum may have a lot to do with the clients that seek me out.

My point is, that I believe it has everything to do with compatibility and chemistry. I have regs who call one girl for wild sexual excitement and a different one for more toned down relaxed sensual fun..

Thats the beauty of this scene, you can pick and choose what flavor you want at the time. Don't give up though, find someone you click well with and the gfe experience never dies!!!

[daratu1]

I'm with the general concensus so far, GFE isn't dead. It is however, more difficult to find. I know of an agency I used until I moved that was great for GFE. Some of my more recent encounters with traveling ladies here have been more PSE though. So it really is just harder to find.

Keep looking, you'll find more. :-)

[burkalini]

I would never look for GFE from a provider. I don't kiss or have very rarely done daty with a provider. Not because of any ill feelings about it but something I preserve for my personal life

[SelenaAries]

+1
Best go with low volume & of course, variety....
It is indeed the spice of life

Originally Posted by fire engine red

GFE is not dead, but you do have to pay more for it!!

[Cpalmson]

Here's the deal. GFE is now the norm. It is what is expected. It is the ubiquitous widget in an endless sea of widgets. I remember back in the day when there was no such thing as GFE. You went to yellow pages or the sports section of the newspaper, found the number of an agency, called the agency, arranged a date, prayed the girl came somewhat close to the description given to you on the phone, waited for her to arrive, greet her at the door, she goes to the bathroom to "get ready" while telling you to get comfortable (i.e. naked). At this point, she give you a CBJ and if you haven't blown your load, she lets you fuck her missionary. Once done, clothes back on, she's out the door. A very mechanical experience.

Fast forward 10 to 15 years. We have the internet. Guys know what the girls look like (at least what we think they look like). We have access to reviews and DIRECT communication with the ladies. They advertise services offered. We pick the girl want to see knowing what we are going to get even before the session starts. Now, the girl shows up, we kiss, make small talk, explore each other's body, get naked, have some foreplay. Depending on the girl, maybe a BBBJ or at the least a nice CBJ. Then move into some acronym soup of BCD activities. For some guys, one cup is not enough and the girl is more than willing to take multiple shots. All during this session, there's kissing, massaging, and at least an attempt of engaging communication. This is now the norm. It is what we call GFE, BUT at the same time, we've had this norm for years now. It has become mechanical-- just like the old way of hobbying. It is the way everyone does it, so it doesn't seem "new" or "special".

So what's the next level? It would almost seem to be some sort of a relationship almost an exclusive level or semi-exclusive level. Maybe to the point of "feelings" for one another. Either that or a more daring experience-- hence the reference to PSE, doubles, etc. Now consider this. What are a couple of the front boiler plate topics on this site? The Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby scene and BBFS. The SD/SB situation neatly fits into the "looking" for a relationship category while BBFS discussion explores the riskier end of the hobby. The hobby evolves over time. GFE is the norm and people want something new; something exciting. It will be interesting to see where this leads. But then again, we will still have the GFE norm just like we still have the old escort agencies in the yellow pages.

[Pink Floyd]

My real point is that I think PSE is the way a lot of girls are turning and GFE is what a lot of us guys like. The girl I am talking about is top notch and remains one of my ATFs, but I was down, and the time was late, and I had been drinking all day. I don't normally drink much. She is great so she is not the topic here. Of the many girls I have seen I would say that only 4 were able to pull off GFE. Most of the girls attempted some form of GFE but fell far short.