Showing your ID to a provider - yes or no

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Agreed. Which is just one reason why I take a pass on a lot of ladies. Ladies never know it when I cross them off the list because I've never contacted them...but there are a hell of a lot of showcases and P411 profiles in my trash can.

There is someone for everyone.

[msjayla]

I generally check id for newbies, but if they are apart of reputable sites then there is no need

[simpleton]

The same reason London, Naomi, Shayla don't want to show their id is the same reason why I don't want to show mine. Imagine that... But I'm the jackass?

[simpleton]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Ummm news flash dude...YOUR DNA is all over the place lol. She does not need your name to call the cops and cause trouble for ya now does she? What's to stop her from saying you raped her? She has a physical description including what you look like naked, how big you are, etc. You were probably recorded at the hotel including driving up and leaving the lot. If a provider is that hell bent on getting you...she will.

This proves my point why I don't want her to have my personal information. How much more of a shit storm would it be if she had my personal information.

As far as the dna goes. My dna isn't a public record. Cops wouldn't know who the dna belonged to. After the rape the kit was done cops would know she was lying.

[simpleton]

Originally Posted by 1kewlkat

Do I mind showing my ID, nope? Do I mind if they, the provider, knows my name, nope.
When I first started hobbying many years ago, I was one of those individuals who would use public payphones, public internet access to research and contact providers or escort services. Why, it is a long boring story.


I look at it this way that a provider can screen anyway she desires. Most have posted pictures in their profiles and many have college degrees much higher than I will ever achieve. Then given that there are over 300 million people in this country, there are bound to be more than a few wackos out there. I just do my research made a few friends with other hobbyist and ask questions of other members, some reply others don’t. I make no secret that I have played in the hobby to my coworkers. If they ask questions, I answer. I never recommend getting involved in the hobby, most are naïve, and it is too freaking addictive. I am not worried about being let go from the job; I do not care what anyone else thinks. I know the risks and make my own decisions and I will always deal rationally with the consequences of my actions.

God bless you and have at it.

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by simpleton

The same reason London, Naomi, Shayla don't want to show their id is the same reason why I don't want to show mine. Imagine that... But I'm the jackass?

If it came down to it... I would show you my ID if you were that paranoid. BUT ONLY because I am legally licensed here IN CANADA as an escort and nothing bad would come of me. Also, my family doesn't live here or anywhere near me so I have much less to be concerned about. These other providers on the other hand, do. There is MUCH more stigma attached to them than you IMO.

[MsKriss4Play]

Originally Posted by msjayla

I generally check id for newbies, but if they are apart of reputable sites then there is no need

Yes...


There are so many turned away by me because of their neglect to show some of the real them. But, the ones who humor Me with My comfort zone... ; )
I know that a man is not all Benjamin and Hard...

And, I'm OK with that!

There is no need for name calling like gradeschool girls... ! Or Boys !

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by simpleton

This proves my point why I don't want her to have my personal information. How much more of a shit storm would it be if she had my personal information.

As far as the dna goes. My dna isn't a public record. Cops wouldn't know who the dna belonged to. After the rape the kit was done cops would know she was lying.

Ok keep believing that. You are seriously naive if you think that your photo and license plate that are recorded at the hotel, can't track you down with your DNA after you leave lol. Your license plate is just as much of a giveaway as your ID, so IF some nut job wanted to fk with you, it would not be all that hard to do. This is the very reason I do not drive or see clients at a personal home...duh, my car would be parked in the driveway!

Did you really just say that "After the rape kit the cops would know she was lying?" What planet are you on dude? If you fked her, she has you! There is no way for them to tell if it was rape or not. They will still take you to jail, your name will be out there, and you will be arrested until they can prove otherwise.

Many rapes do not include physical force that results in blood and bruising...they pretty much go like a romp with a boyfriend. If you kiss her, go down on her, put your thing in her....that's DNA! Your hair, skin, etc. are all over the damn place so you can't deny you were there.

I had a girl who worked for my agency way back when who clocked a guy with an ashtray, called the front desk, and said he tried to rape her. If the rape thing was true, I have no idea but he was hauled off to jail. She never saw his ID...imagine that!

I am not suggesting you show your ID...just stop thinking someone needs that to burn you. I have never showed my ID to a client or provider, yet somehow a few details about me still got out. Every time you disagree with someone it turns into a pissing match about who is the jackazz...you said it, not me. Do what YOU want to do, and stop trying to tell everyone else they should feel the same way!

No one here is telling you to show an ID!

I will also reiterate what Shayla said...the "whore" always has more of an issue when we get busted. You guys just get a slap on the wrist and maybe even a pat on the back from your buddies! We are the ones who get fired from our civie jobs, and are branded for life. YOU are not being forced to see escorts are you? I didn't think so. If I want to stay at certain hotels I do what is required or I stay at the freaking Days Inn...same thing here. You can either do what is required by said lady, or see someone who does not give a fk about screening. WOW...how simple is that!

[Chica Chaser]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Every time you disagree with someone it turns into a pissing match about who is the jackazz...you said it, not me. Do what YOU want to do, and stop trying to tell everyone else they should feel the same way!

Wait...what? You didn't really just say that!

[London Rayne]

Shut up puppy!

If the boy does not want to show his ID, don't show it! If a provider demands one, move on! It's not rocket science lol. What annoys me are the bs excuses and naive delusions some people have about being busted. You don't need a person's ID to fk them up!

Then it turns into, "Well when I become a whore and start sucking d*ck for money" bs. As if we didn't know that's what we were doing lol. WTF!

[simpleton]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Then it turns into, "Well when I become a whore and start sucking d*ck for money" bs. As if we didn't know that's what we were doing lol. WTF!

That comment was in response to Babee who made that distinction on post # 74. It was a JOKE.

[London Rayne]

Well...I knew that lol.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Shut up puppy!

If the boy does not want to show his ID, don't show it! If a provider demands one, move on! It's not rocket science lol. What annoys me are the bs excuses and naive delusions some people have about being busted. You don't need a person's ID to fk them up!

Then it turns into, "Well when I become a whore and start sucking d*ck for money" bs. As if we didn't know that's what we were doing lol. WTF!

WOW! The two most important words spoken! Like the famous OJ lawyer once said, "If it don't fit, you must aquit!" Move on is right! I'm NOT showing ID to any one! But I make no secret about who I am. So I'm never asked for it! A lot of talk about all the 007 BS. But hey, no ID, I'm not a member of P411, I won't fuck in a zip lock baggie (Worried about DNA), I always wear a cover, and I don't worry to much about LE. But if a session with a provider went south, like lets say with Msjayla, well my booking pictures would depict me having a big smile on his face and I would be whistling a happy tune! Were all different, and we can't always make it work, God knows I try! But if it don't MOVE ON!

And London, Simpleton didn't call you or any provider a "Whore!" He did talk about a web site and sucking dick. I'm not a fan of the word unless its used to describe a hobbyist like myself! "MAN WHORE! LOL

[waydown]

Twice after I went through a provider ref screening process I was told I would have to show my id up entering room. I said sure and I will need to see your id too. Both times they lit into me telling me I was an ass and need to grow up in this biz. Sorry but I don't care who you are or what end of the fks for bucks you are on. You ask someone for personal id they have the exact same right to ask you for your's.

In that end I don't see what it gets. fake id are a dime a dozen.

[MrGiz]

Originally Posted by waydown

. . . . Sorry but I don't care who you are or what end of the fks for bucks you are on. . . . You ask someone for personal id they have the exact same right to ask you for your's.

. . . . In that end I don't see what it gets. fake id are a dime a dozen.

You are wasting your time, trying to convince the "I.D." crowd that a "Piece of paper I.D." means [doesn't] a phucking thing!

If a girl has "waited" long enough to check an "I.D."..... that only means she doesn't have a phucking clue of what she's doing!!