Grow Some Fucking Balls!! UNCLE WHO??

[growler]

Originally Posted by aspenp

So normally I keep quite about things that piss me off and anybody who actually has seen me or knows me knows that I am a pretty easy going fun person to get along with. But I just heard that someone who I don't know and have never seen is posting things in the mens locker room saying Fuck Aspen??? The fact that you are posting and slandering my name in a private area kinda shows me the size of your balls, but it also has me annoyed that us ladies on this site can't see what is said and can't defend themselves accordingly when this type of thing happens. I don't even know who you are?? But yet you are talking shit about me to other hobbyist??? Now I see why these threads I have read the last few weeks with providers cussing and fussing back and forth have caused a stir, and now I see why my fellow providers get so pissed when these types of things happen.
WE DO have lives outside of this site, I certainly do and I'm a mom, so I try to be as flexible as I can, but I as with other providers have requirements that need to be met to see clients. WE also don't need to be BASHED everytime someone gets in their feelings because they didn't meet those requirements or if something comes up in the HUMAN PROVIDERS LIFE, that may change their schedule..I don't know this dude that is complaining so I can't say what was going on this supposed day that he is talking about....SO UNTIL HE DECIDES TO FIND HIS BALLS OR SOMEONE CAN TELL ME WHAT IS GOING ON...HE WILL REMAIN A DEUSHBALL!!..

At the risk of being a "Deushball" lol....who said it was only one guy? Don't you just hate it when life gets in the way lol.

[diddler]

I don't think one unhappy person is going to do much damage to your fine reputation..but a thread like this doesn't help.

BTW I didn't even read the flame on you..just took it as ONE guy who had an axe to grind.

[vitokc]

Originally Posted by BobInKC

Maybe this belongs in the Alerts section but the grammar, punctuation, and syntax police are on their way.

[MsElena]

We all know the locker room and powder room have enough leaks in them to sink a ship, but a little bit of advice.....


Never type angry LOL

[aspenp]

Originally Posted by Shayla

Though it sucks to find out when someone is talking negatively about you, I think it's better that it be happening in private and not out in an "open" forum. I think it would cause you a lot more stress if that were the case.
Besides, by making this post I think you have just left people more curious than actually feeling bad for you.

This post was never intended for anyone to feel bad for me, I'm over it already seeing as how I have received points for expressing how I feel. And In the end I will never let anything someone posts behind a computer screen stress me out, it just may piss me off a little, but like I said I'M OVER IT.

[aspenp]

Originally Posted by MsElena

We all know the locker room and powder room have enough leaks in them to sink a ship, but a little bit of advice.....


Never type angry LOL

Advice taken, LOL but I'm sure I do alot of things I shouldn't do.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by MsElena

Never type angry LOL

OMG... now that is funny

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Shayla

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Besides, by making this post I think you have just left people more curious than actually feeling bad for you.

Originally Posted by BobInKC
Maybe this belongs in the Alerts section but the grammar, punctuation, and syntax police are on their way.

Response by Aspenp
?????

I personally don't know Aspenp; but she has been on my short watch list, attractive girl. The question marks in response to a mild common on grammar, punctuation and syntax, tells us a lot. The opening comment about Uncle Who comes across with some very real anger - justified or not.

Brgryan222 had a comment:

"4.) Over the past few months you have 5 reviews with YES recommendations. I dont remember readying anything bad about you in the public areas. If someone is posting stuff that you read or hear about, there are ways of dealing with it that are 100 times better then how you come across in this post. Guys overlook comments if there is a stream of good reviews. Guys overlook comments if the girl comes across in a pleasing way on the board, on the phone, and in PMs.

I agree with the above.

Goodness gracious girl; it looks like you just shot yourself in the foot by opening this thread.

The most interesting part of your gripe posting was:

"WE DO have lives outside of this site, I certainly do and I'm a mom, so I try to be as flexible as I can, but I as with other providers have requirements that need to be met to see clients."

I hear you loud and clear: I think you are really saying it is tough to be a mom and try to deal with a kid, or kids (whatever the case may be) and try to earn a living. You don't need to get criticism from someone who doesn't know you.

Agree!!!! This is true for everyone, not just the hobby. It is tough to be nice to a guy when you have a lot of stuff going on.

Take a break for a few days. Your kid comes first. Everything will work out ok. Sometimes the best defense is to just ignore the criticism. You can be careful about who you deal with, but it is hard if you don't know for sure who has attacked you.

JR

[MsElena]

Aspen,

I'm sure you didn't receive points for expressing how you feel, but for revealing that you have knowledge of what is said in the locker room. That's a big no no. Guys who reveal that info to you are only doing it to gain something from you, to be your white knight or start drama.

As much as some guys say they don't like drama, some egg it on and feed off of it. This is their own lil personal soap opera.


Thanks for proving my point again malwoody. You have a wonderful day.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by MsElena

Aspen,

I'm sure you didn't receive points for expressing how you feel, but for revealing that you have knowledge of what is said in the locker room. That's a big no no.

Yeah, that's what you have to be careful of Aspen, just don't tell anybody that you have access to the locker room, oh and next time you are in there, be sure to read my welcome post to all of the girls who frequent the private men's forum....what a joke..

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by MsElena

Thanks for proving my point again malwoody. You have a wonderful day.

You have a nice day too, oh and btw, you said I was someone who said he dosen't like drama and yes it's true that I do not like drama but you never told me when, where or who I said it to and since I don't recall ever having a conversation with you and I have not posted it in the locker room I am still wondering where your remark came from. Since you did put words in my mouth I think it's fair to question where the words came from.

[FireSerpent]

Closing thread at request of O.P.

Stop reporting this thread to me... gez you guys act like you can't read and see that I already know about it. *insert eye roll*