I think we need a list!!!!

[Silverstream]

Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv

bottom line.. no matter what the reason.. if a girl makes an appointment..doesn't call and doesn't show at the appointment she made..she has in every essence of the meaning committed a NC/NS and that should be pointed out.. no matter the reasoning..and yes life gets in the way..it shouldn't..and personally that is a bullshit lame ass excuse that gets leaned on way to much.. but if life does.. then the girl makes it right, calls ASAP since bottom line..this is still her JOB, her BUSINESS.. and she owes it to the men that were going to pay her to offer atleast an explanation without revealing to much as to why the NC/NS occurred..

if a guy post a NC/NS and 2 days later gets knowledge the he accepts as true..then its up to the guy to make sure his NC/NS addition of the lady is given some caveat and he makes it known it was posted but he accepts her explanation..

If you don't want to work that time or with that person, don't schedule it. If some problem arises, call or at least pick up the damn call. DON"T make the situation worse by not responding!

The BBB bureau, before it will tarnish a record, gives the company with the complaint a chance to respond. If there is no response within a period of time, it automatically goes on their record.

For it to be a truly effective list, it would need to be able to be viewed by all people but only modified by a few trustworthy souls. They could receive a report, send a message to the provider to give them a chance to respond.

Personally, I would like the number of NC/NS reports to be put under their profile.

[Dasani]

Originally Posted by fortwortholdguy

I don't consider NC/NS a major problem. Think about it, you go home and put on some internet porn and make Mr. Happy happy. The next morning you wake up and that $200 or $250 or $300 is still in your wallet. Granted you might be out some gas and time but that is only a minor aggravation.

On the other hand, the provider wakes up the next morning without that $200 or $250 or $300 in her purse, and she still has rent, car payments, bills, expenses, etc to worry about. So in the whole scheme of things who gets hurt worse?

I know, I know.... ME the provider. *shaking my head*
Is that right?.....

[Guest012211-3]

NC/NS reports under our profile? What's next, a monthly performance report? Does that mean we get to raise our rates accordingly...LOL

[fortwortholdguy]

Originally Posted by Nina A. Ross

I know, I know.... ME the provider. *shaking my head*
Is that right?.....

Nina, I'm getting really fed up with your "shaking my head" responses...

Are you shaking your head up and down in approval, or side to side in disapproval?

Not that I really care about how you feel about my specific posts but I think the masses would like to know the hidden meaning of this comment, which you put under almost every post you respond to...

[ferdburf]

FWOG, you do know how to use the ignore button, right? I just started using it, and it's fantastic for those posters who seem to grate on nerves. I'm NOT saying Nina is on my iggy list or that she grates on my nerves, I'm just sayin . . .

[Silverstream]

Originally Posted by Nicole Preston

NC/NS reports under our profile? What's next, a monthly performance report? Does that mean we get to raise our rates accordingly...LOL

If there were no NC/NS reports for a provider (versus others that did), then I would expect it to increase demand for that person. Due to the increased demand, you could choose to increase your rates.

NC/NS stats are basically a black and white issue. Performance is subjective as we all know.

BTW, Love your photos Nicole. Very nicely done!

[fortwortholdguy]

Originally Posted by ferdburf

FWOG, you do know how to use the ignore button, right? I just started using it, and it's fantastic for those posters who seem to grate on nerves. I'm NOT saying Nina is on my iggy list or that she grates on my nerves, I'm just sayin . . .

Hell no I don't know how to use it, please enlighten me!!!

[ferdburf]

FWOG, click on Control Panel, then Edit Ignore List, then start typing the username (the name will start to magically appear - thanks, ECCIE), then click on Ok after completely entering or selecting name.

[Guest100513-2]

Originally Posted by Nicole Preston

NC/NS reports under our profile? What's next, a monthly performance report? Does that mean we get to raise our rates accordingly...LOL

For every week you somehow manage to avoid the NC/NS, your rate goes up $50, didn't you get the memo?

[Dasani]

Originally Posted by fortwortholdguy

Nina, I'm getting really fed up with your "shaking my head" responses...

Originally Posted by fortwortholdguy

Are you shaking your head up and down in approval, or side to side in disapproval?

Not that I really care about how you feel about my specific posts but I think the masses would like to know the hidden meaning of this comment, which you put under almost every post you respond to...

Ok.. the *shaking my head* I got from Berk when we all were on ASP* and I have continued to use it. (Thanks berk.)
It normally mean damn, unbelieveable or speachless for me.
Hey and I'm sure most think NC/NS make them *shake their head*

[Guest060812]

NCNS are no fun. And the idea of a list is probably not a bad idea. However, these are often young girls we are talking about. So their priorities may not always be what we want them to be. Some of the Ladies have kids, etc. that can affect their showing up, too.

Don't get me wrong, I find NCNS to be unacceptable. However, it is going to happen to us all from time to time. Best advice is to have a plan B. Call another Provider and move on.

When a Provider NCNS on me, I simply never call her again and go on to another Girl

[fortwortholdguy]

Originally Posted by Nina A. Ross

Ok.. the *shaking my head* I got from Berk when we all were on ASP* and I have continued to use it. (Thanks berk.)
It normally mean damn, unbelieveable or speachless for me.
Hey and I'm sure most think NC/NS make them *shake their head*

Like I said, shaking your head one way can signify approval, the other way disapproval, and I'm not psychic enough to tell which is which...

Thanks Ferdburf!!!

[Guest012211-3]

Honestly, this is a totally ridiculous idea! This is only one site of many, so how on earth would you regulate it? There is no "hobby police", no one gets fired for not showing up or being late to work, and your money is not wasted if she fails to appear.

[fortwortholdguy]

Originally Posted by Nicole Preston

Honestly, this is a totally ridiculous idea! This is only one site of many, so how on earth would you regulate it? There is no "hobby police", no one gets fired for not showing up or being late to work, and your money is not wasted if she fails to appear.

+1

[jkerouac]

From FWOG: Also I'm not a huge proponent of the Plan B approach because many providers get offended if you call them and say "Hi, it's FWOG...I had a meeting in your area that finished up early and I was wondering if I could drop by and see you?"..that's a tipoff to a provider that she is a Plan B, don't you think?

Actually, I agree with you about this as well - I personally don't Plan B, because the inherent nature of a Plan B is "second choice," and typically that just exacerbates the disappointment in the original NCNS. However, for those guys that just MUST nut immediately no matter what, Plan B at least gives them options and puts them in a proactive position. Yes, some ladies may get bent at last minute calls, but it's their choice whether or not to see you - and if they are slow at that moment and need the scratch, it's still win-win.

My biggest point is that you will never be able to ostracize providers on an organizational basis because of NSNC, because it's simply an inherent part of the business. So it's up to each individual hobbiest to develop his own plan of action that puts him in a situation to minimize disappointment.