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[Guest101211-2]

Kara,

Very well said! Not just another smoking hot girl, but smart one too!

Thank you for your contribution! You need to be posting more.

Java like!

[Sensual Sophia]

Originally Posted by Whispers

You assume that because I didn't look for a way to roast her?

No... I said you had a crush because of the specific part of your text that I pulled out and quoted. I know based on your comments in a recent thread that you hate it when people read something into your posts that wasn't there -- I was speaking of your admiration for her physical and mental attributes -- not because you didn't "roast" her.

Now the part I quoted, if that wasn't flirting I don't know what is.

It occurred to me that you had good reason to bash the environment of ASPD Austin co-ed for being little other than flirtation when there was nobody there for you to flirt with. As you have often pointed out, there are no spinners under the age of 25 posting in Austin. But now there is! Karalynn finally chimed in. And your flirting can commence. And I think it's sweet.

I especially find it funny because I can't imagine someone who would more disagree with you on all things hobby. But that might make for some interesting tension leading to a very wild session!

Not nearly as wild as you with Wicked Milf though.

[Sensual Sophia]

Originally Posted by lemontrees

I see an underlying resentment of the fact that many of the men NEED the women and many of the women NEED the men. And need each other for very basic reasons, sex and necessities ( food, clothing, shelter), and that this need is also a fear that they might not be able to get these basics. Quite easy to resent something that you know has such power over you. If you HONESTLY hate/resent the opposite sex and the fact that you need to "use" them, then find some other way of dealing with your needs.

You said it! Seriously. That IS the problem in a nutshell.

[Joel Goodson]

j/k

[caramelqtee mila]

KaraLynn beauty,brains,and class what more could you ask for? Ive had the pleasure of speaking to you and you are as sweet as you are insightful and genuine. Austin, you guys have a great gal(be good to her),cant wait to meet you when you swing back through here doll,xoxoxo,Mila!

[EroticGuideCentral]

Knowing Kara for years now I can say this with an absolute guarantee. Kara is one of the classiest and well spoken ladies I know and you are lucky to have her in Austin. Occasionally she puts her foot in her mouth but is quick to make things right but in this case I would say she is 100% dead on accurate.

Call me and we can sing your favorite song. Got to get some sleep tonight. I don't want to get into a bad habit..

[essence]

Kara, miss you!

[theaustinescorts]

I cannot agree that people involved in this thing of ours are at all "social misfits." IMHO nothing can be further from the truth.

I have accumulated a lot of clients, and they are exactly a cross-section of male society at large.

I have dealt with a substantial number of providers, and the only thing that makes them different than any cross-section of females their age is that they have made a choice many other girls havn't considered for one reason or another, and that isn't necessarily out of "desperation," but is often just "examination."

This thing we do is definitely more stigmatized in this country than most others, and for that reason I understand the social considerations felt by providers. Every girl I have worked with has resisted anything on the content of my site which could remotely reveal to anyone that they are involved in this. It's a serious issue for them. To be honest it's a difficult issue for us, and sometimes causes tensions.

But the truth is that [except for muslim societies] this is a widely practiced, normal activity which has been going on longer than any other form of commerce.

It's normal.

[ibechill]

The word symbiosis comes to mind.

When it is all said and done, hobbyist don't care about providers and providers don't care about hobbyist. It is all business.

[ftgill3]

Kara is very sweet and wonderful girl! She's no misfit!

[Guest041811-2]

Originally Posted by theaustinescorts

I cannot agree that people involved in this thing of ours are at all "social misfits." IMHO nothing can be further from the truth.

I think you missed my point. Allow me to clarify:

I am an escort. Karalynn Kelley is not my real name. I assume you are an agency owner--do you use your real name? Hobbyists have handles. Why? Because society deems our behaviors as taboo and none of us in this counterculture want our real world identities associated with it.

Particpation in the hobby is an active decision to shun widely accepted social mores and become part of a counterculture-- hence my use of the word misfit. What I was not trying to do was label all of as a bunch socially inept, awkward buffoons for engaging in P4P. I was simply saying that hobbyists and providers are viewed with the same amount of disdain from members of the mainstream. Our taboo behaviors make us outcasts and misfits by society at large... and I'm getting fucking sick and tired of all the hate coming from each side. That's all I was trying to say.

[Guest041811-2]

IBECHILL: The word symbiosis comes to mind.

KARA: Very good point. The hippo and the cute little birdie that eats the parasites off his back come to mind. lol Were you a biology major?

When it is all said and done, hobbyist don't care about providers and providers don't care about hobbyist. It is all business.
Can't say I agree with that. While first and foremost this is a relationship based solely on shallow and superficial needs, we are not hippos nor birds. We're humans and capable of something few other species are-- Compassion. So even though both parties most basic and superficial needs are being met in the most basic and superficial way, doesn't mean P4P relationships are devoid of mutual respect and admiration. I know for a fact, that I am not the only one who feels this way.

[johnnyboy]

I don't agree that all hobbiests and providers don't care about each other. There's those that do and those that don't. That's like saying that anyone you meet in the course of doing business with you care nothing about as a person just because it was your job that caused you to meet and interact. That kind of cynicism is poison for this thing to work. Sorry you feel that way.

[Guest041811-2]

Originally Posted by johnnyboy

I don't agree that all hobbiests and providers don't care about each other. There's those that do and those that don't. That's like saying that anyone you meet in the course of doing business with you care nothing about as a person just because it was your job that caused you to meet and interact. That kind of cynicism is poison for this thing to work. Sorry you feel that way.

I whole-heartedly agree and I hope you didn't think my previous post was an affirmation of the former poster's sentiments. Damnit! I just can't seem to make myself clear! And on that note, I'm going to sleep. LOL

[theaustinescorts]

Actually I do give my real name to everyone who calls Lol, and I think agency operators who use a false name to mislead people about their identities are silly p****s Lol [no offense intended..just kidding].

Please don't get frustrated because some posters don't read carefully and you think you're being misunderstood. That's what usually happens here.

Your commentary is very thoughtful and sincere and everyone whose read it, including myself, regards your thoughts and feelings highly for having expressed these views.

thanks