DATY but no FIV?

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

My guess is that most ladies that request no fingers have had too many guys that are trying to use their fingers as a "Roto-Router" auger rather than as a finger.

[Sorghum]

Thanks for those.

[Enchanterlingum]

Or the perception that a man's hands are too rough. Katie Morgan taught me that last week....

[Muffrider]

Do your fingers look like this?

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by Muffrider

Do your fingers look like this?

Kinda sorta..

[TiffanyKC]

My reason as to why FIV will sometimes turn me off because it hurts! It either isn't quite wet enough for anything to go in just yet, or you treat it like you're trying to punch a bee out of a honey hole! Uneven, non-trimmed and filed nails hurt. If you do it, go slow and move your fingers, not your arm! lol

[vitokc]

Originally Posted by Redwolf

Could it be that too many guys are using porn for an example of how to offer FIV well?

I can only think of maybe a couple of ladies that I have been with that said no to FIV. They were hurry-me-out type dates. I never saw them again.

Good point. Some of the guys in porn act like they're predrilling a hole
in preparation for entry. Sometimes looks more like all out assault.
While tongue can only slap so hard, the licking can be pretty rough too,
especially if it's a 69 and you forget about her and think about what you're feeling.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by TiffanyKC

My reason as to why FIV will sometimes turn me off because it hurts! It either isn't quite wet enough for anything to go in just yet, or you treat it like you're trying to punch a bee out of a honey hole! Uneven, non-trimmed and filed nails hurt. If you do it, go slow and move your fingers, not your arm! lol

+100

[HeyMikie]

Maybe you should start gently with ONE finger, FIV doesn't mean five fingers.

[Nashboy]

When we first started having sex, I would go down on my girlfriend and use fingers and would always be able to get her off. She would also get off just on the finger banging. My nails were always trim and filed, however she hesitated one time when we started to go at it. She said that she thinks I may have cut her by getting too vigorous with my fingers the previous time - so even if they're trimmed, it doesn't mean you can't do some damage. She suggested getting a vibrator and some edible lube (you can get it in a variety of flavors) and now when I go down on her, I just use the vibrator and lube while I"m licking away and she loves it. You might see if your fave providers might go that route if you bring the supplies.

[Allie_Kat]

There is a birth control ring called Nuvaring. I've heard it can be accidentally pulled out that way.
Just a thought.
Also, some girls work on their periods and have sponges or cups that can also be accidentally pulled out by probing fingers.
Hope this helps shed some light on the subject, though I'll probably get roasted for sharing trade secrets.

[NatalieBanks]

Im sensetive, personally I like one or other boh @ once is a lot of stimulation sometimes too much...

[jeniqueincognito]

I had a boyfriend whom I wouldn't let use fingers. His touch was too rough and when it comes to fingers, just one does the "trick" for me.

[growler]

Originally Posted by jeniqueincognito

I had a boyfriend whom I wouldn't let use fingers. His touch was too rough and when it comes to fingers, just one does the "trick" for me.

l'm good with using only one lol.

[sugarbabiekc]

I like the combo of daty and fiv. But u must have clean clean hands short nails an know hpw to cup ur fingers to fit me not scratch me. If mary.and I can give a 101 step by step proper combo class. If done proper the combo can have amazing results.