DATY but no FIV?

[lockon]

I hear this often: "Yes, please DATY! But no fingers!" Help me understand why no FIV.
The ladies that I have been able to DATY and use fingers absolutely go wild. They love the combination I give and usually have multiple deep orgasms. I have had nothing but, "Wow, my legs are shaking! I can't stand up!" from using fingers along with the tongue. The tongue alone seems to give some pleasure, but not the "OHHHMMMYYYYYFFFFFFFFUCKKKINGG GGGGOOODDD!!!" pleasure that the combo gives. I even offer to wash my hands thoroughly again and show them my fingernails are short. But for some reason, they emphatically say no. I'd say of the ladies that I've been with, about 90% say absolutely no FIV. Even girlfriends! What's the deal?

[KCQuestor]

I had a response ready up until I read "Even girlfriends!". But now I have no idea. I've never dated a girl like that.

[ScubaBad]

Me either, never once.

[dirty dog]

I was gonna respond but I really cant explain this LOL.

[lockon]

I give up.... I guess I'll never understand.

[Leanna]

I think it's probably for the same reason that men request "no hands".

[TH64083]

Originally Posted by Leanna

I think it's probably for the same reason that men request "no hands".

No hands request from guys? I'm good for touching Whatever, Wherever, with Whatever, and I'll take it Whenever. I'm easy, but I am picky about Whomever.

[simplyme]

I just assume no FIV. I figure if there cool with it they will tell me.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by lockon

I hear this often: "Yes, please DATY! But no fingers!" Help me understand why no FIV.
The ladies that I have been able to DATY and use fingers absolutely go wild. They love the combination I give and usually have multiple deep orgasms. I have had nothing but, "Wow, my legs are shaking! I can't stand up!" from using fingers along with the tongue. The tongue alone seems to give some pleasure, but not the "OHHHMMMYYYYYFFFFFFFFUCKKKINGG GGGGOOODDD!!!" pleasure that the combo gives. I even offer to wash my hands thoroughly again and show them my fingernails are short. But for some reason, they emphatically say no. I'd say of the ladies that I've been with, about 90% say absolutely no FIV. Even girlfriends! What's the deal?

"90%" Hmmmmm...??

Maybe, just maybe you are looking for "FIV"
in all the wrong places.

[KCQuestor]

Originally Posted by Leanna

I think it's probably for the same reason that men request "no hands".

Hah, the only time I've ever requested "no hands" is when a girl was using her hand to avoid "going deep". The hand stays on the dick so when the girl goes down she just barely puts her mouth to you. It ends up being a hand job with her mouth nearby.

The ladies at Lynn's in Columbia all used to do something similar with FS. It was like she trained them. They'd guide you in with their hand but keep her hand there, so basically you were fucking her hand. Disappointing.

[guest033012-2]

Are your fingernails clean and trimmed? Are you hands freshly washed? That might be your answer.

[lockon]

Okay, so 90% maybe exaggerated. But it still happens a lot.
I offer to go clean my hands again. I thought maybe one of the ladies would jump in here and help shed some light on the subject. One provider told me that she was scared I'd scratch her and then she'd be out of work for several days while she healed. idk.

[Guest121212]

[BottomFeederKC]

The answer probably isn't that mysterious. If I had to guess...


Fingers can be sharp and pointy.
Hey, where did my wedding ring go?
Fingers can be dirty.
Maybe she is hiding something?
Fingers can trap air in the vagina.
Most men don't know how to use their fingers.


On a related note: Im not a big fan of hand jobs during BBBJ. Don't hate it per se, but generally I like hands-free foreplay - for several reasons.

[Redwolf]

Could it be that too many guys are using porn for an example of how to offer FIV well?

I can only think of maybe a couple of ladies that I have been with that said no to FIV. They were hurry-me-out type dates. I never saw them again.