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Originally Posted by Rodram
Where do I sign up!?!? I would like to be the torpedo guy too cuz workin w/women around a giant torpedo for hours on end has gotta get to them sometime!
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Rod, this is not directed towards you specifically. I know that you are mainly kidding around, but it's attitudes like this that makes it hard for women to work around men while in the military.
I was aboard the USS Peleliu during my second deployment and we had three females on board. One Marine (a maintenance controller with the harrier community), and two Navy (a helicopter pilot with the SAR unit and one flight surgeon attached with the helo community).
There was constant lack of respect towards these women. There wasn't a day where I didn't hear a sexist comment. There were always rumors about who the women were having affairs with (mind you all of these women were commissioned officers and if true and caught there would be dire consequences). If indeed there were relationships on-board ship, that was their business and no one else's.
Each and every time that I had to interact with them, they were always very professional (more so than their counter parts). I wish we (as men) just get over ourselves and start treating women with a little more respect.
I'm not denying that there are times when people indulge in this kind of behavior. All I'm saying is that professionalism and respect in the workplace is a must to have a good working relationship. Especially when people's lives depend on your decisions.