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[Joe Joe]

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[Joe Joe]

Originally Posted by Joe Joe

ok. ima t the grocery store today, and see an extremly large woman with no front teeth probably in her early 20's with a very good looking fit man. now can someone pls explain to me, or maybe i just have to much time on my hands, but what, how, or even more y?! i would love to just ask them whats their story. its not the first time ive seen odd couples and im sure all you have too.

Guys do contact us for the comfort and company in more ways than one. They're not wasting there time for a robot, or treated like an ATM. Just as us girls don't want to b treated the same. I don't have time to be fake, or the energy. I enjoy what I do, and my nature is pleasing others. It makes me feel good. Be yourself ladies. Games get old. And thank you my sexy Bristol. We all appreciate your genuine nature Muah! And next pool day with daqeries Sunday good?

[Joe Joe]

As my previous post said. Guys don't want a robot, or an ATM. They want a real woman. No drama or games. I don't have the energy or desire. I love to please and see that kook on people's face. It makes me smile. In other words, be treated like u want tone treated, be yourself, and true colors always shine thru. I'm open and real and appreciate when I find the same. Amd thank you my sexy Bristol hotty. U r one of a kind. And let me know the next time u want to play at the pool

[Guest090920]

Originally Posted by Joe Joe

Amd thank you my sexy Bristol hotty. U r one of a kind. And let me know the next time u want to play at the pool

Please let us know when and where y'all will be playing at the pool! I need to charge my digital camera battery and locate my binoculars!

[jan-w]

I think one thing that's often overlooked is "service after the sale". What does that mean? Let me give an example.

After a session, I'll usually dash off a quick note to the lady along the lines of:

"Thanks for the meeting. Glad we had the chance to meet. Hope you're having a good week."

That's it. Nothing creepy or stalkerish.

Most ladies never bother to respond. Guess what? They're no longer on my list. I'll simply assume I'm just another nameless, faceless John and they can't be bothered with me unless I'm waving cash in their faces.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying the ladies should treat me like a long-time friend or potential SO. I am saying that I want to feel like a valued customer, just like I want to feel like a valued customer at the car dealership or golf course or other retail establishment.

Ladies often say they don't want to feel like a cum dumpster. Well, the guys don't want to feel like a walking ATM either. Make the guy feel like an actual person and he may just turn out to be that reliable regular most ladies want.

[FireSerpent]

The right level of communication is a really big deal with guys. I'm not saying you have to spend all day texting or emailing them... but an acknowledgement of the correspondence, at the very least, is key... and getting back to them in a timely manner. Did something come up and you have to make an adjustment? communicate that.

Also, I'm not saying a lady has to be a big freak to make me happy... she has to know what she is good at and do that on a consistent level nearly all the time. I date different ladies for different reasons. One girl I know is an amazing kisser... wow... I'm tingling just thinking about her lips... another girl really "gets" me so I see her most often (doesn't matter to me if she "gets" other guys too)... and a third rocks my world in the bedroom--she's the first lady I call on a night I'm feeling frisky.

[jframe2]

+1

Originally Posted by jan-w

I think one thing that's often overlooked is "service after the sale". What does that mean? Let me give an example.

After a session, I'll usually dash off a quick note to the lady along the lines of:

"Thanks for the meeting. Glad we had the chance to meet. Hope you're having a good week."

That's it. Nothing creepy or stalkerish.

Most ladies never bother to respond. Guess what? They're no longer on my list. I'll simply assume I'm just another nameless, faceless John and they can't be bothered with me unless I'm waving cash in their faces.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying the ladies should treat me like a long-time friend or potential SO. I am saying that I want to feel like a valued customer, just like I want to feel like a valued customer at the car dealership or golf course or other retail establishment.

Ladies often say they don't want to feel like a cum dumpster. Well, the guys don't want to feel like a walking ATM either. Make the guy feel like an actual person and he may just turn out to be that reliable regular most ladies want.

[Bristal]

Originally Posted by malwoody

Naaa, these guys aren't great, but you, well I'm sure that's a
different story.

From what I hear you are GREEEAAAATT!!!

[Bristal]

Originally Posted by jan-w

I think one thing that's often overlooked is "service after the sale". What does that mean? Let me give an example.

After a session, I'll usually dash off a quick note to the lady along the lines of:

"Thanks for the meeting. Glad we had the chance to meet. Hope you're having a good week."

That's it. Nothing creepy or stalkerish.

Most ladies never bother to respond. Guess what? They're no longer on my list. I'll simply assume I'm just another nameless, faceless John and they can't be bothered with me unless I'm waving cash in their faces.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying the ladies should treat me like a long-time friend or potential SO. I am saying that I want to feel like a valued customer, just like I want to feel like a valued customer at the car dealership or golf course or other retail establishment.

Ladies often say they don't want to feel like a cum dumpster. Well, the guys don't want to feel like a walking ATM either. Make the guy feel like an actual person and he may just turn out to be that reliable regular most ladies want.

I love this! I'm not saying I need 100 texts after we meet, but a text or 2 back and forth expressing a good time always makes me smile. Usually 15 minutes after the appointment I am on some highway in you know what city in stopped traffic for 45 minutes. A cute text makes me smile and know that he was happy I am not usually the one to text first since I never want to get anyone in trouble

[CuteOldGuy]

Bristol, Malwoody was right the first time. I'M the great one!

[catnipdipper]

Malwoody is great.
COG is the Great One
Cat is THE GREATEST!

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by catnipdipper

Malwoody is great.
COG is the Great One
Cat is THE GREATEST!

They say in some circles it's true.
Cat is the true stallion of us all.

Maybe we should sponser a contest between Cat and COG

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by malwoody

Maybe we should sponsor a contest between Cat and COG

Hey, if this contest involves any , I want in on the challenge, as well..!!

Can Bristol be our... "guinea pig"?

[Miss_Mya]

Originally Posted by jan-w

I think one thing that's often overlooked is "service after the sale". What does that mean? Let me give an example.

After a session, I'll usually dash off a quick note to the lady along the lines of:

"Thanks for the meeting. Glad we had the chance to meet. Hope you're having a good week."

That's it. Nothing creepy or stalkerish.

Most ladies never bother to respond. Guess what? They're no longer on my list. I'll simply assume I'm just another nameless, faceless John and they can't be bothered with me unless I'm waving cash in their faces.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying the ladies should treat me like a long-time friend or potential SO. I am saying that I want to feel like a valued customer, just like I want to feel like a valued customer at the car dealership or golf course or other retail establishment.

Ladies often say they don't want to feel like a cum dumpster. Well, the guys don't want to feel like a walking ATM either. Make the guy feel like an actual person and he may just turn out to be that reliable regular most ladies want.

"Service after the sale" can be a tricky thing sometimes. If a client sends me a message I make sure to get back to them as quickly as possible(I have forgotten a couple of times), or if they send me a PM from here I will send them a message even if they have not sent me one first after the appointment. The tricky part to an extent is when they just call/text or send an e-mail because one cannot always assume that the client has a hobby e-mail or hobby phone. I know that for a vast majority discretion is a big deal and I will only send an e-mail or text when I am specifically told that I can do so. If a client does not tell me that it is ok then I take that as it is not ok. So I like being told if it is ok or not that way I do not make a mistake and contact a person when it actually is not ok to do that. Now I will say even with the ones that do not have a problem with it I always feel weird just texting or sending an e-mail just out of the blue because I have read plenty of threads about unsolicited texts or e-mails from providers. So I think that communications on both parties is very important and I have no problem exchanging texts or emails before or after an appointment if they are initiated by the client but it is hard for me to be initiator unless it is with a client that I have seen more than once and they tell me it is ok to do so.

[Cheaper2buyit]

Never say are you finish yet damn your going to make me miss my show. or little dicks get a discount you will never make any gifts. And really don't say oh your in already next time I will pay more attention.