CFNM????

[alaine]

Anyone into this scenereo? Clothed Female Naked Male. I've seen a few request on CL for a woman to play this role. So, I'm curious to know how much interest there is in this fetish.

[badbottom]

Umm, yes please?

This is something I'm very interested in, and I would venture to guess a somewhat large percentage of males (in the 20-30% range at least) are into on at least an occasional basis.

Of course, that comes with the caveat that there is an entire spectrum of CFNM. Some people just have a clothes fetish, and enjoy a well-dressed woman enjoying herself (and them!) Think of it as a quickie on steroids, or a simple "I like women in skirts/schoolgirl outfit/maid outfit etc." In that case, it is more about the woman being dressed than the man being nude necessarily. I'm definitely into this, as I love women being dressed, whether keeping lingerie and heels on all the way to a woman fully clothed lifting her skirt, sliding her panties to the side, and allowing me access, or even just standing there and letting me play with myself while she models. In this case, the different textures/fabrics of the woman's clothes, combined with the teasing aspect of body parts revealed versus concealed heighten the sensualness of the experience.

Another thing to consider that when someone is naked and the other person is clothed, there is a very subtle form of roleplaying going on. The clothed person is typically considered to be the person in control, while the naked person is considered to be vulnerable. This can be reinforced by having the nude person stand while the clothed person sits. In this case, CFNM starts to take on the spectrum of the BDSM side of things on at least a subliminal level, which leads me to my next point.

Then you have the CFNM that you see in the fetish videos, that involves a degree of humiliation/power exchange. It can be anything from very light as in the woman saying "Get undressed and please me" to a full-on domination scene involving OTK spanking, forced masturbation, and/or verbal humiliation. If someone says they are into "CFNM" then it is more likely to be somewhere on this end of the spectrum, simply due to the fact that men that have a clothes fetish will probably just say they want you dressed and won't make a big deal about whether they are clothed or not. Some men like the light element of the woman remaining clothed as a very slight dominant/submissive situation, while others are into the humiliation involved and want to be verbally teased/humiliated. Still others are into the roleplaying aspects of D/s and feel that the woman being clothed and the man being nude helps define and maintain those roles. In that case, it will be part of a larger scene, but not necessarily the point of the scene.

Again, I'm interested in the whole gamut of the CFNM spectrum, and it is a great way for men to explore power exchange without technically being BDSM. Or being another aspect of BDSM that they can enjoy, like in my case. It is a great little tool that can be done either subtly or more overtly to put a nice little twist on an otherwise vanilla encounter, or push things one step further in a BDSM situation.

Enjoy this one, as I most certainly enjoy it myself!

[guest060112-3]

mmmm....I've only experience this in the form of quickies, but I do so love sometimes the added frenzy having clothes on adds

[sdcfnmcaman]

It's definitely becoming popular. Usually it's better in a private residence and with just three or four girls at the most with one guy.

[*GoddessDallas*]

CFNM is great FUN.
The subbie is like your very own cabana boy...naked and wanting to do anything to please me...while I am dressed in a nightie or a corset or anything I want to wear. You can tease him and deny him...I LOVE it!

[DallasRain]

sounds fun!

[MarieLynn of DFW]

I LOVE CFNM... where's my submissive guys at? I have done this many times... it's fun and hot too.

[RoDunn]

I've seen some videos of cfnm and they were a big turn on. Would love to try it one day.

[titlover1]

Hmmmmm, so let me understand this......the woman stays clothed and tells me WTF to do.............is't that what a wife does every day??????????????????/

[sensualsanaa]

i like the sound of this, I'd love to have someone come to me with this fantasy

[DallasRain]

I dabbled in it with a client last week....we made it playful though....it was awesome fun!

[Ms. Athena]

Very sexual and hot, to have the man at my mercy, bowed before with no clothes, hard cock standing at attention, just waiting to serve me and please me...........Having a woman use you as her sexual play toy is a very intense pleasure...................

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

Very sexual and hot, to have the man at my mercy, bowed before with no clothes, hard cock standing at attention, just waiting to serve me and please me...........Having a woman use you as her sexual play toy is a very intense pleasure...................