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kccountryboy · 02-23-2010, 05:06 PM

It is all a fantasy. Providers tell us things so that we will come back for more. It's just good business. Do I know I am not "too big"? I know I am probably below average, but it is still nice to hear at least for the moment. Men lie to. We lie to our friends and family. When was the last time you told a friend or family member you couldn't be somewhere because you were going to meet a provider and pay her for sex. I know I never have.

By the way, I think that my avatar is a fair representation of me.

Nina Rae · 10-22-2010, 03:01 PM

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pjpenner · 10-22-2010, 04:49 PM

I just came across this thread and realized that I must be participating in a different hobby than some. In my hobby, we intentionally live in a world of make believe and fantasy. Our goal is to make each other happy and feel good about themselves in any way we can.

We don't have to lie. We've just learned to pretend on an adult level. Our pretending becomes perception. And our perception is the only reality we need while we're together.

Come join my hobby. We're having a blast!

Iaintliein · 10-22-2010, 04:57 PM

Why do ladies think it's necessary to lie??

Because they are more like men than either they or we are willing to admit.

TexTushHog · 10-22-2010, 05:42 PM

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Hmmmm, How about a thread asking, "Why do you gents use avatars that in no way shape or form look like you?" LOL.

Hey, I own a tuxedo!! Although my nose isn't quite as prominent as the one on my avatar. And the pig is rather svelte looking, but it's only because black is a slimming color. I'm sure he has a paunch just like me.

China Doll · 10-22-2010, 06:14 PM

I can only speak for myself, so I will do that very thing.

Any compliments that come out of my mouth unprompted are 100% true as I see things. If you ask me about your size, DATY prowess, or anything else, I might be lying when I answer. I hate being put in that position; I never know how to answer, and it's usually the guys who have something to be insecure about who ask the questions.

On the flipside, I have run into a number of clients who had no bloody idea that their...umm...undercarriages were huge. Guys, stop comparing yourselves to the men in pornography, for Pete's sake!

I'd also like to address the orgasm issue. Again, I will only speak for myself. Do I fake? No. Do I orgasm in every session? No. Do I orgasm in every session according to my reviews? Yessiree Bob, I do! If a man specifically tells me that he wants me to orgasm, will I do it? Yes. There are tactful ways to show a man what you need in order to reach that goal.

Now, can we stop being so darn skeptical all of the time? It makes it hard for those of us who truly enjoy what we do when we pay a man an honest compliment just to have him roll his eyes at us.

Doove · 10-22-2010, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by China Doll

Now, can we stop being so darn skeptical all of the time?

Nope.

China Doll · 10-22-2010, 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Doove

Nope.

I would like to take this opportunity to announce that Doove is the most ridiculously and inappropriately skeptical hobbyist I have met thus far. Congratulations?

burkalini · 10-23-2010, 12:30 AM

If we treat it as it is. SEX!! Show respect and demand the same it will be what it is intended. Hot and fun. If you have to ask a woman if she came. She didn't. If you want her to tell you how big your cock is. It's not. Find something nice about her and honestly compliment her on it. Most times she will find something honest about you to return the compliment. If she moans from across the room she"s lying. If she needs money to pay for college. Gotta doubt that one too. I have hobbied for awhile and found out if you want to have fun? You will.

China Doll · 10-23-2010, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by burkalini

If she moans from across the room she"s lying. If she needs money to pay for college. Gotta doubt that one too. I have hobbied for awhile and found out if you want to have fun? You will.

Why is it that the need for money for college is inherently different than the need for money for food or a place to live? I have never understood why so many people view college student providers as scam artists...

Doove · 10-23-2010, 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by China Doll

I would like to take this opportunity to announce that Doove is the most ridiculously and inappropriately skeptical hobbyist I have met thus far. Congratulations?

I'm not sure i should believe that, frankly.

China Doll · 10-23-2010, 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Doove

I'm not sure i should believe that, frankly.

You will if you know what's good for you.

rednecksatyr · 10-23-2010, 10:15 AM

Hey! What is all this? I find that the majority of the providers will not try to BS you if you do not ask questions about their personal or professional life. Clients should accept the fact that the provider needs the job and enjoy the session. Be a gentleman - the results will likely be very pleasing!

burkalini · 10-23-2010, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by China Doll

You will if you know what's good for you.

China I'm not saying that all providers saying they need college money is a lie but the percentage that makes that statement is just too high to be real

China Doll · 10-23-2010, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by burkalini

China I'm not saying that all providers saying they need college money is a lie but the percentage that makes that statement is just too high to be real

Are you saying that the providers who are in college are less likely to enjoy what they are doing as providers and are therefore more likely to lie to clients, or are you saying that many providers lie about needing money for college?