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Originally Posted by katkisses2000
ok i treat this as a lifestyle not a job nor just something to make money.I love what i do and do what i love.I do now offer in call and hh rates to get things going.I understand that every man wants a playboy bunny when they come to visit yet just because i am not a size two(not knocking those of you whom are) dose that mean that the service is any thing less then the best service around? I understand things are hard now for everyone,but i see it as if things were so hard wouldnt the hobby lifestyle in a whole drop.I dont know what to do,i feel like a outsider looking in11 did anyone else have this problem when they frist started (or at least within their frist year) or am i just crazy to have even started?
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Kat, cheer up. You have much to offer. Things get slow for me too. I know other providers who were complaining of lackluster business. I feel that if things are too slow, perhaps you could take your show on the road and do a tour? Go to other cities where you can meet new faces. Men love new faces and thats why many women travel around. Look into doing a tour if you can swing it. Lots of men love curvy women. If the market is a little slow or lacking in your neck of the woods, again, go to where it isn't lacking. It seems you have a full menu, but perhaps you could do some fetish work? I'm not really into domination or that stuff, but it's an idea, right? What about massages? Maybe get into the massage business? I know it's less money per hour, but many men are attracted to massages not only for the release but because it's more affordable. I know you said you offer 30 minute appointments, but what about 15 minute appointments? Look around, tons of others do them. Some people frown upon the 15 minute appointment, however, there is a market for them. So why not offer it? I've seen women charge anywhere from $50 to $100 just for 15 minutes. If you did say 3 of them a day, you could still be pulling in some cash to pay the bills. Also, ask yourself: how popular is Eccie in your area? I mean, Eccie is just one place to advertise. I hate to say this, but mayve most of the hobbyists are on Backpage? If you do advertise on Backpage, be very careful and screen. Use other sites too. I don't know what advertising sites men use in your area, but do your research and find out. Advertise on the other sites.
I hope it all works out for you. If you need someone to talk to you can always PM me.
I agree with Summer
