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arialemonde · 05-12-2011, 09:04 PM

Sorry if this is in the wrong session. I didnt post it in the alerts because I wasnt threatened. I apologize if I placed this in the wrong area.

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Ive been stood up again, yes I know it happens but its really annoying when it keeps happening.

This gent from this board called me at 1pm to see me this evening for 2 hours. We confirmed twice throughout the day.

We were to meet at 8pm in Waco.

He turned off his phone and hasnt called me back to give me a reason or to even cancel.

This has wasted 2 hours out of my day. I could have seen other people.

Ladies you can pm me for his handle and number.

Ranchhand · 05-12-2011, 09:16 PM

Sorry that happened too you, but it seems it is starting to be a trend here in the Waco area. Shea Veile from Dallas had the same problem, only they did at least call her and cancel.

incognito isis · 05-12-2011, 09:21 PM

That is rude, but you may want to try to get his side of the story. Maybe an emergency came up?

arialemonde · 05-12-2011, 09:31 PM

I would believe it was an emergency if he hadnt turned off his phone. Ive called him 3 times, its still off. After speaking to him a few times throughout the day, I find it hard to believe thats its anything else but a lack in consideration for my time and money.

Oh well, Ive learned my lesson this time. Stay out of Waco and Killeen....

SamanthaFoxx · 05-13-2011, 09:35 AM

Sorry to hear about your wasted gas and time, from what I heard 35 south of Dallas isn't too promising for a provider. I hope you didn't drive to Waco anyway.

#1College station,Tyler, and Beaumont are plenty, in my opinion.

Can you pm his info?

Orgasms4u · 05-13-2011, 03:39 PM

Ease up on Killeen!! I've NEVER stood up a provider, but have been stood up by girls from everywhere around Texas, so don't feel like you're the only one.

The fact is, this is a hobby. If this is a business for you instead of a hobby, you need to get a regular clientele and see new customers on your terms until you get to know them. If you can't build a regular clientele and have to hunt customers all over the place, you might be in the wrong business.

It works the same way for us as well. If we can't get girls to see us more than once and have to hunt girls in our hobby, then we run the risk of finding bad ones along the way and getting stood up too. The fact is, if a lady doesn't want to see us a second time, we probably don't deserve to meet any good ladies who would have us as regulars!

Find some good guys and stick with them and offer newbs an opportunity on your terms. If they're genuine and you provide good service, you won't have any problems in the future.

Also, Aria, you seem like a nice girl, but guys HATE drama and complaining, so even if you get stood up, it's probably not a good idea to post about it unless there's a real problem with someone.

My two cents.

jpjohnson7454 · 05-14-2011, 01:29 AM

thank god someone said it.

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Originally Posted by Orgasms4u

Ease up on Killeen!! I've NEVER stood up a provider, but have been stood up by girls from everywhere around Texas, so don't feel like you're the only one.

The fact is, this is a hobby. If this is a business for you instead of a hobby, you need to get a regular clientele and see new customers on your terms until you get to know them. If you can't build a regular clientele and have to hunt customers all over the place, you might be in the wrong business.

It works the same way for us as well. If we can't get girls to see us more than once and have to hunt girls in our hobby, then we run the risk of finding bad ones along the way and getting stood up too. The fact is, if a lady doesn't want to see us a second time, we probably don't deserve to meet any good ladies who would have us as regulars!

Find some good guys and stick with them and offer newbs an opportunity on your terms. If they're genuine and you provide good service, you won't have any problems in the future.

Also, Aria, you seem like a nice girl, but guys HATE drama and complaining, so even if you get stood up, it's probably not a good idea to post about it unless there's a real problem with someone.

My two cents.

senseofhumor · 05-14-2011, 10:20 AM

Yuppers. Anytime there is human interaction there is a chance for one of the parties involved to be a flake, a liar or a first rate idiot. Thats why I like turtles. And yes please take it easy on Killeen.

kalel030 · 05-14-2011, 11:53 AM

I would have made an appointment but I can't bring my gun.

jpjohnson7454 · 05-14-2011, 01:47 PM

THATS EPIC

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Originally Posted by kalel030

I would have made an appointment but I can't bring my gun.

VictoriaLyn · 05-14-2011, 02:11 PM

Maybe is phone died and he left his charger at home?...I like to wait at least 24 hrs to hear his side... I mean what if he was in an accident or something? Not understanding how you lost 2 workable hours from this considering you posted this only and hour an 4 mins after session should have started?

arialemonde · 05-14-2011, 05:27 PM

Its been over 48 hours and still nothing. No big deal just a few hundred down the drain.

"Quote: Orgasms4u - Also, Aria, you seem like a nice girl, but guys HATE drama and complaining, so even if you get stood up, it's probably not a good idea to post about it unless there's a real problem with someone."

Thanks for all your input. I think I know my place now. Ill keep my mouth shut and not complain like a good girl. I sometimes forget Im in the South.

Your right, it only matters when the gents get ripped off or stood up. No one really gives a crap about the ladies because its just perceived as complaining and drama.

Anyhow, to answer your question Victoria, it was a waste of 2 hours because I drove all the way from College Station to see this guy in Waco, plus I paid for a room, gas and other people had called for that time but I had already booked this guy so I lost out on alot of money and time.

Its going to be a nice vacation soon. You all have a great weekend. Im off to have fun.