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Lostboy13 · 05-11-2011, 11:40 PM

It isn't something that I personally seek out! However a little bitting and serious use of the mouth are a real turn on

qixerotic · 05-12-2011, 02:57 AM

Nearly anything that turns the lady on gets me going too. I specifically ask each provider to tell me what works or doesn't. Most, however, are not very verbal while in the throes. Please, if you want it a particular way, speak up. Part of my turn on is turning you on.

Biomech · 05-12-2011, 06:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Lexxxy

It was so hot, the second he walked in the door he pushed me against the wall and started kissing me grabbing my chest while I took off his suit jacket and fumbled with his buttons on his shirt stripping him at the door. Then we moved to the bed where he shoved me back and pulled my panties aside and ravaged me with DATY and from there is was really wild intense animalistic pleasure for the both of us. Like I said, ask and you will most likely receive.

Something tells me you might have just pre-booked your entire next Buffalo trip with this story.

Biomech · 05-12-2011, 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by incognito isis

I hate rough sex. Mostly because one of my ex boyfriends used to beat me up, so I just don't like anything that revolves around pushing or hurting someone. Not only was he a beater, but he was into rough sex also. He was just a lost, tortured soul. I think any man who gets off on pushing a woman around is a little odd.

That's terrible. This is also why I made a point of saying that, for me at least, it is absolutely essential that this is something that turns the woman on. In other words, it is not so much the act of rough sex that gets me off, but rather the fact that she is getting off on it.

SweetElizabeth · 05-12-2011, 07:09 AM

I agree with the YMMV stated in the previous post.

Many posts here are referring to face fucking as rough sex. I don't believe it has to be rough.

Good partners can enjoy sensual face fucking without being rough at all. :--)

Also, there is the art of pulling/pushing/rocking noted in the book of Kama Sutra. Again, if this is applied TOO strongly for my tastes, it would be rough sex (which I NEVER enjoy) When properly applied (to my liking,) it's just fun!

I suppose part of the greatest attributes about this thread is we are all able to see adults identifying definitions and boundaries. That's a good thing.........

Lostboy13 · 05-12-2011, 08:49 AM

Ah the Karma Sutra ... passion is what consenting adults make it and the bottom line is the individuals involved have to know their own limits as well as their desires

Rocking, pushing pulling, and varying positions is the key to both partners mutual enjoyment of the experience.

Cosmo even has a Karma Sutra AP for your I-pnone LOL

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/

Lexxxy · 05-12-2011, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by incognito isis

I hate rough sex. Mostly because one of my ex boyfriends used to beat me up, so I just don't like anything that revolves around pushing or hurting someone. Not only was he a beater, but he was into rough sex also. He was just a lost, tortured soul. I think any man who gets off on pushing a woman around is a little odd. I don't mind being on top though. I have the energy for that, and not too many people do!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OMG HONEY, I am sorry to hear that happened to you no girl should ever get hit outside of the bedroom between two consenting adults. I hope you were strong and smart enough to leave him after he hit you!!

Lexxxy · 05-12-2011, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by HlavinKitheri

My sometimes take-out dancer says she likes her hair pulled, but not too hard. I don't think that counts.

Some GFs, on other hand, have liked being tied with old silk neckties; and one in particular preferred scratchy rope, eventually graduating to speaker wire. Thus disadvantaged, she appreciated being "used" in ways other than our usual fun, and WITHOUT me asking nicely. Rather than passively receive oral, for example, I might kneel astride her collarbone and fuck her in the face.

I'm guessing bondage/force fantasy that leaves temporary marks on the wrists and ankles would qualify in most people's minds as "rough sex." I had a friend who liked it *really* rough, but she was taken, and I never had the pleasure. :-)

*Drooling!!!*

Lexxxy · 05-12-2011, 10:01 AM

I am so happy to see that people are participating in this thread, I was afraid no one would speak up or have anything to say about it.
Yay for exploring

offshoredrilling · 05-12-2011, 11:29 AM

Well one time My ATF told me that it was ok if just took it mmmmmm. Well many times later she told me if I have to go, go now I want to take a shower. Well she was just done shoveling snow. And I was ready to go. So put on rain coat walk in out of the bathroom still with all on with my fly open. pick her up dump on bed got her pants off part way and went at it. When done she says " can I take my shower now before we start".mmmmm Latter after the shower and making love she whispers in my ear " you can't rap the willing".

With the use of female conduces she scared the hell out of me more than one. surprising and being ruff with me. yup she is right "you can't rap the willing"

incognito isis · 05-12-2011, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Lexxxy

OMG HONEY, I am sorry to hear that happened to you no girl should ever get hit outside of the bedroom between two consenting adults. I hope you were strong and smart enough to leave him after he hit you!!

Hey Lexxy, unfortunitely I stayed for a couple years with him. It did alot of emotional damage and I am still living with it. But we all live and learn.

Lexxxy · 05-12-2011, 12:42 PM

OMG offshore rape play can be super hot! Key word is play though haha.

naughtyfun · 05-12-2011, 02:04 PM

Lexxxy.............You had me at "Rough Sex". I can get into rough hair pulling, ass slapping, hard K9 and anything else aggressive. ONLY and ONLY if my partner is into it also. I dont get off on hurting others I get off on others enjoying rough play and that is what it is play. Your beeping on my radar more intently with everything I read from your threads or posts.

Bancroft1957 · 05-12-2011, 02:37 PM

I'm glad to see you enjoy the "rough", but fun portion of this type of sexual encounter!! I think it's the hottest!!! Now I just need to get you within sexual
striking distance of Buffalo, and then hold on!!!!

chevysw · 05-12-2011, 03:37 PM

For me theres many different types of sex sometimes you want to take it slow and enjoy every part of it and enjoy the moment. Then there is hard fucking. It all depends on that moment. Ive enjoyed the differences with different provides. For me its all comes down to what you wanna do. But the next time I see one of my ATFs I want to have some PSE with her. Because I know she is an animal in bed.