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chrissy · 04-19-2011, 08:41 AM

Hello Ladies Gentlemen.. I seem to have an issue..lol...Not to me but apparently to some one else...

My question is this..

I recieved a text(my ads CLEARLY ask not to recieve them) a gentleman claiming to be p411 wanted an appt off escorts...WTF???
(Again why text me and disregard my wishes/respect not to recieve them from any board?)

Well he wanted a special that was posted to that board ...I declined his appt due to the fact I felt he was trying to bait me for a lower rate on another board in wich he is using for references NOT gatherings..

(He didnt want the rate to the board his references are coming from and he is a memebr to, but wanted a special I listed on another entirely free public board for those members that are NOT on p411, dc or here basically)..

On top of that he ASSUMED my special was for the hour! Did he NOT read my reviews?? ANyhow he Requested 2 of those then mentioned he KNOWS I am outside the driving range that I cater but would still like 2 of my specials anyway and can I come anyway!??????? WTF!! Seriously???

So he didnt follow NOT ONE of my requests.. From the text messages to the driving distance ect ect..Yet he wants me to cater to him and has something negative to say about me NOT taking his appt? I do not get it??

CAN I GET A LITTLE ADVICE PLEASE!

petiteassman · 04-19-2011, 09:49 AM

you think he would be happy to pay a higher rate to you from a board for which he pays to belong rather than a lower price avail to everyone and anyone. what was this guy thinking

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Originally Posted by chrissy

Hello Ladies Gentlemen.. I seem to have an issue..lol...Not to me but apparently to some one else...

My question is this..

I recieved a text(my ads CLEARLY ask not to recieve them) a gentleman claiming to be p411 wanted an appt off escorts...WTF???
(Again why text me and disregard my wishes/respect not to recieve them from any board?)

Well he wanted a special that was posted to that board ...I declined his appt due to the fact I felt he was trying to bait me for a lower rate on another board in wich he is using for references NOT gatherings..

(He didnt want the rate to the board his references are coming from and he is a memebr to, but wanted a special I listed on another entirely free public board for those members that are NOT on p411, dc or here basically)..

On top of that he ASSUMED my special was for the hour! Did he NOT read my reviews?? ANyhow he Requested 2 of those then mentioned he KNOWS I am outside the driving range that I cater but would still like 2 of my specials anyway and can I come anyway!??????? WTF!! Seriously???

So he didnt follow NOT ONE of my requests.. From the text messages to the driving distance ect ect..Yet he wants me to cater to him and has something negative to say about me NOT taking his appt? I do not get it??

CAN I GET A LITTLE ADVICE PLEASE!

Guest021824 · 04-19-2011, 12:35 PM

If he didn't make the appt via his P411 account. Then ignore the request and do not see him. Always be safe.....Never be sorry!

charlestudor2005 · 04-19-2011, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE

If he didn't make the appt via his P411 account. Then ignore the request and do not see him. Always be safe.....Never be sorry!

Agreed!!!! Make a note of who he is so you can turn him down in the future. Someone who doesn't follow your rules from the outset will probably ignore them BCD.

chrissy · 04-19-2011, 02:55 PM

Thank you gentlemen I was hoping for some advice from an experienced lady also so I may have both sides to look at and ponder but I will def take what I can get! I mean no harm in my post and kindly appreciate everyones input and pms.. I was just very lost in the point where he decided to post his comments on an OLD review and push that particluar one to the top from another city when I clearly have reviews here he could have commented on? Lol..Soon I will have this down to a perfect "t" lol..but until then Thank you very muxh guys and gals...xoxo

ExploreLatinAmerica · 04-19-2011, 06:07 PM

IGNORE HIM sweetheart. I get the same thing all the time.

I tell clients that try and haggle, "I am not a car auction and your boss does not ask you to work for free"

Ignore him and don't let him get you down.

Smooches and Hugs
Cayla James

rrabbit6926 · 04-19-2011, 09:14 PM

I thought there was a rule against posting on a thread that was over 30 days?

Guest101811-4 · 04-19-2011, 10:14 PM

It appears to apply to reviews only.

In our review forums, be mindful of the 'maturity' of threads you are posting to, ie. the date of the last item posted. We ask that you refrain from posting to a review in which the last post was made 30 or more days ago.

Source: http://www.eccie.net/announcement.php?f=5 (2nd post, #13)

Sweet N Little · 04-19-2011, 10:18 PM

for sure ignore him , so not worth your time girl , sorry that happened to you .

Chica Chaser · 04-20-2011, 01:29 AM

Chrissy, it does make it more difficult for a gentleman when you are running different rates on different sites. But thats another thread thats been discussed here numerous times.

In ANY event, you must require a PM message via whatever site they claim to be from. Anyone can SAY they are anyone in a text, email or phone call. How would you know otherwise? Anyone could claim to be me, you agree to the session with that guy and it turns out bad. I'm suddenly reported and blacklisted when I have absolutely no idea who or where you are or that anything has happened. It can and has created a real cluster for everyone involved, unless you know for sure who you are dealing with. A PM from that person. from that site, is the only way you can be reasonably sure who it really is.

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Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

I thought there was a rule against posting on a thread that was over 30 days?

Rabbit, here is the full guideline

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#13 - In our review forums, be mindful of the 'maturity' of threads you are posting to, ie. the date of the last item posted. We ask that you refrain from posting to a review in which the last post was made 30 or more days ago. Some exceptions may apply if you are providing relevant, valuable or updated information about the provider, but as a general rule of thumb, this can best be accomplished by writing a new review altogether and avoiding the bumping of old ones. This applies to our review forums, in particular, as discussion threads are often allowed to flow for an unspecified length of time.

In the end, its at the Mods discretion.

Lily Blair · 04-20-2011, 08:16 AM

The practice of charging P411 clients more than other clients just isnt good business. If you have a special then you have a special, no matter where someone sees the ad. You're saying that because he was a p411 member, he wasn't eligible to get the special. That just doesn't make any sense. Pre-screened clients (like from p411) should receive specials before the general public in my opinion. But if you have a special advertised on a free website, it makes perfect sense to me that this guy would ask for the special but let you know where his screening info was. If the issue was the distance then you should have just said no due to the distance, but complaining that he's a p411 member isn't a reason to turn down a client.

ExploreLatinAmerica · 04-20-2011, 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

I thought there was a rule against posting on a thread that was over 30 days?

What thread is more then 30days old?

Nina Rae · 04-20-2011, 12:50 PM

If you decide to offer specials to members of particular sites, I see no problem in that, regardless of which site it is. Maybe the point was to garner more clients from a particular place? Why you offered the special rate and to whom is of no consequence in my book. However, if you are refusing him the special you posted on XYZ board because he is also a member of ABC board, well then I think that isn't really such a great practice. But...its a lady's business, and I really don't see a need to criticize.

As to making sure that only members receive the discounted rate, I would simply require that the person taking advantage of the special rate PM you on the site where the special is offered. Where his references come from? Again, of no consequence to me. As long as the references are indeed reputable, then they should be considered, no?

An "rrabbit6926", the thread is less than 48 hrs old dude. No one is violating anything.

td476 · 04-20-2011, 01:32 PM

I'm in agreement with Lily and Nina. It doesn't make since that you wouldn't offer someone a special you are running because he is a member of a more reputable board. I thought maybe you posted incorrectly at first. It makes more since to offer the guy on P411 a discount because he has just made your screening process that much easier. If you offer a special on a board that is free and open to the public, guess what, the public is going to think that is for them, regardless of what other board they are a member of. As to him texting you when you specifically say not to in your ad, that is his bad. And him expecting you to drive to him out of your area for that price is ridiculous.

chrissy · 04-20-2011, 02:07 PM

Thank you Td and Nina..Your approach was much more respectful and polite then Blairs( she accused me of having bad business practice)..lol... so I chose not to repsond to hers..But I will explain my intentions so there is no confusion..He is agentlemen member/reviewer/poster here, as well a member to p411..He did not give me a escorts.com handle or pm there explaining he was p411 member or eccie with other references..Its also obvious he didnt read my reviews here or he would have seen I do offer specials to alot of gentlemen that APPROACH me correctly and use their p411 datecheck or eccie handle, I DO NOT even offer the services he requires during a gathering.. So I feel his intentions were to see me for a cheaper rate,NOT tell me who he really is thru eccie after we have pm back and forth previous days..then compare my services to what he usualy gets,(things I do not do) poorly review me and all while he attempted to use p411 ceditbility..He could have pmd me here just as he has a few times before! Yet he attempted an appt from a bad rep site did NOT mention our eccie chats and tried thru text(so I wouldnt know it was him I guess?)and asked me to come way out of my driving range..Instead of requesting an hour incall he requested 2 hh local pcb outcall only specials advertised in PCB??? WTH??? Same services are offered with both so what was his real intention?..To get over on me? To take advantage?

As I have asked and mentioned. I have never been thru this situation before and needed advice from both sides..Not to make the same mistake twice that is why I asked in the first place Was I wrong?