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Old 04-17-2011, 02:57 PM   #16
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I dont see this as a review site, I see it as an info site. Seek it or give it, reviews are part of the giving of info.

Said that in another thread. Just my opinion.
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Old 04-17-2011, 04:20 PM   #17
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From the way it looks like things run a Gent can say yes and then trash talk a lady behind her back and write total lies about her in the part of a review that she can't see.
I have seen Gents that have said no but I have asked them why, both Gents said it was because the Lady was drunk or on some sort of drug.
what you never told a lie before ?? and take it easy on the forbidden topics babe !! be green and with peace !!
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Old 04-17-2011, 06:01 PM   #18
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mmmmm That can go both ways.
Always play both sides of the fence whenever possible.
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Old 04-17-2011, 07:25 PM   #19
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shit happens sometimes. as long as it is truthful, then tell it how it is
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Old 04-17-2011, 07:57 PM   #20
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Old 04-17-2011, 08:00 PM   #21
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shit happens sometimes. as long as it is truthful, then tell it how it is

ok i'm gonna honestly admit you're gorgeous babe !!
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Old 04-17-2011, 08:23 PM   #22
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". . . some kind of d--- . . ."
Isn't that a forbidden term, here?
Truth but forbidden, nonetheless.

On topic, I've written negative reviews - not here - but only when truly necessary, when something was really wrong. But, I don't think it would be appropriate to do so if it was just a case of not "clicking" with someone, or one of us having a bad day.
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Old 04-17-2011, 09:13 PM   #23
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Old 04-17-2011, 09:18 PM   #24
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I've written negative reviews also. Generally on BP girls not verified providers because regardless of what someone said earlier, the providers do talk to each other and have a "list". IMHO, Negative reviews of eccie providers are open to white knights and others who are quick to defend the girls honor. It'd be nice to have reviews stand on their own merit, good or bad. 3 pages of comment on a review is ridiculous. The only responses to a review should be from the moderator and the provider (because there are 2 sides to every story).
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Old 04-18-2011, 12:03 AM   #25
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Default You gotta take the good with the bad.

I will say that over the years I have posted both yes's and no's and many no's over the years. The same is true in everyday life you don't learn from people telling you that you are AWESOME all the time... Think about it in a behavorial sense if our parents didnt smack our asses or ground us when we did wrong how would we know we are doing right?
There is room for a no ("and this is wha you could improve upon") scenario. Sometimes that needs to be done BCD with the provider themeselves and when it continues to happen you may get a flurry of no's for a particular provider.
I have always condoned using the power positive as well as negative reinforcement. Just like life though you have to be careful handing out both positive and negative feedback in order to achieve the behavior you are looking for.. The misuse of one or the other and you have an inbalance. CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM
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4. a critical comment, article, or essay; critique.

I SAY # 3 is striking a pretty good balance
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Old 04-18-2011, 12:11 AM   #26
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ALOT of VERY GOOD points being made in this thread. Thanks guys. After all is said and done, it will be funny to go back and look at this thread and see who didn't post. Their silence will speak volumes.

Hopefully this thread won't get locked LOL
GP - I think you dared me to post! LOL
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Old 04-18-2011, 04:41 AM   #27
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Maybe I should have said negative reviews of eccie providers.
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Old 04-18-2011, 07:47 AM   #28
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GP,

I'm glad you started this Threat I thought about it but don't think I would have been as well written to get the point across as you did. This is dicey on so many levels and frankly most guys are here to avoid the drama and BS of everyday life whichever is why we pay to play without the strings so I think one answer is people don't want to have to justify their opinion over and over again.and Rawalpindi with white knighting and PMs about what went wrong and being blasted for lying.

Secondly, I'm guessing that some guys think I'm hear to play and she may be here for livelihood and honestly not want his preferences to screw up her future.

I'm not agreeing with any of it and I think that most of life is about perception and unfortunately a lot of times these reviews create false perceptions or expectations that can lead to a bad experience as well. The adjectives some use in reviews (beautiful, hot, smoking body, etc) are in the beholder and right wrong or indifferent this is why I've been hesitant to do reviews. I don't want to be questioned on what I spend or who I see or not indulging too much info. Believe me I understand guys all rely heavily on reviews to be informed but since this site is a two way street with guys and girls on the site together I think people play the politically correct route rather than honestly sharing their experiences.
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Old 04-18-2011, 02:53 PM   #29
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Always play both sides of the fence whenever possible.

Absolutely!! The people I admire most are the ones who can argue either side of an issue with equal conviction!!
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Old 04-18-2011, 03:23 PM   #30
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Absolutely!! The people I admire most are the ones who can argue either side of an issue with equal conviction!!
Then you must love politicians!
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