ECCIE have a situation here, and I don't know how to handle it...help?

[Tabby]

I'm going to ask the Hobby community's opinion on this one, both provider and and hobbyists alike (please go easy on me, and don't make me regret that I put myself out there, lol).

I'm having some trouble dealing with a client. He wrote a review that we disagree about. He says the appointment happened. I say it didn't. It's not important because those of you who have met me and see me on a regular basis know what I'm about. The truth doesn't need defending.

The problem that I'm having is: is it right for the client who disagrees with the provider to keep asking info about her or gettin his friends to see her and write a similiar opinion just because he is sore about the responses he received from his original false review? I mean I don't know about the rest of you, but that sounds like a lot of effort. I don't have that much time to devote to such petty and meaningless things. I barely have enough time to write this. BUt, Enough is enough!

When this review originally came out, I did nothing. I sat back and let it blow over. But he is commenting consistently on other reviews. He's very sarcastic, rude and negative. Why is he so hung up on me? Why can't he just let it go? Why is he so set on giving me a bad rep? I have never had a recommendation of NO until this idiot. Now that ERAPS is out, it proves that at the time this alleged appointment supposively happened, he did not choose to write a review. In fact, I have emails that prove he even tried to schedule several times after the appointment in question.

The weekend after ASPD shut down, he PMed me asking about another provider's rates. Apparently, he was interested in a double between us. I would not see him. I guess that pinched a nerve. The day he signed up for ECCIE, his first post was the review on me. It was well over 60 days old. Makes you go hmmmm...

Anyway, that is water under the bridge. I hate drama and I won't participate. But his persistence in putting me down is starting to make my skin crawl. In his review (and thank you to all my supporters who put themselves out there and stuck up for me, you definitely made me feel special), he continuously makes insulting references about my size.

Look, I'm not a BBW....I might be guilty of loving Dr. Pepper, I may eat too many ice cream sandwhichs, but enough already. I love me, I won't lose weight for anyone else but myself and frankly, I like my size. I feel like his is trying to deliver a low blow because he's upset about me not wanting to see him, coupled with what my supporters had to say.I just want him to leave me alone. I've never been involved in "board drama." Life is too short, but he is trying my patience.

People that know me know I'm very sweet, and I'd give the shirt off my back to help someone in need. I'm tired of bullies. I don't want to get involved in all the politics behind it, but he leaves me no choice, right? What should I do?

[motocrossman39]

Hey Zoey; i see that you have 2 choices;
1. Notify the Moderators, let them sort out the review situation-
2. Leave it alone and just go on....

Just my 2 cents dear!
Moto
P.S. I think your HOT, no weight reduction required!!!

[Bestman200600]

Zoey:

If he continues to harass you or stalk your posting notify the mods and let them take care of it. There are trouble makers out there. Take care babe.

[Tara Evans]

Take it from me hun, just walk away. Let him think what he wants and the others will find out the truth and know you for who you are.

[Tabby]

see I have, they know about the situation, not about his recent antics...I chose to do both the first time. I PMed the harassing party I told him myself that if he did not back off, I would request something be serious done. I just want him to stop making negative, rude comments and/or getting his friends to agree with his biased opinions. I'm a good provider and a strong woman, but this shit is what scares off good established providers and new talent. It takes away from the beauty of the experience. If I wanted to hear something negative about myself, I'd call my ex husband (ha! Sorry tryin to lighten things up a bit). I was just hoping someone would have a better option I hadn't thought of yet.

[Tabby]

You mean I should let him continue to be my cheerleader from hell?

[Guest050911]

Zoey,

Please PM me the information pertaining to this and I will look into it. For now, I will close this thread as all that need be said has been said.

Please return to your previously scheduling hobbying, nothing more to see here.