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gimme_that · 04-08-2011, 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by DickEmDown

5. Chica...why in the hell isn't this thread closed

So to not discuss it is the answer? Why not make it a new rule that nba threads are not allowed. No one has been uncivil....people have voiced opinions....so why so fast to close it? I thought that was sorta discouraged when discussions were happening.n

What would the reasoning be personally for it. The people who posted her read it and choose to respond. They didn't have to.n they wanted to or felt inclined. Just trying to grasp the don't discuss and close it first mentality. Maybe its too many pages to moderate and monitor.....or something trivial like that who knows?

At least its not a bbfs thread lol.

Guest082824 · 04-08-2011, 01:07 AM

What's that old saying....

If you keep doing the same thing over and over (dicussing NBA threads) expecting a different result (which we are never going to get) it's called insanity

Naomi4u · 04-08-2011, 01:16 AM

Oh hush DickmeDown

. I have heard some amazing things about you from my girlfriends. If I were to make such an exception I wouldn't say so in public. It would go against everything I just posted lol.

Reya Sunshine · 04-08-2011, 01:19 AM

You know I still love you DeD...I just can't risk gettin' dicked down and losing my mind! I REALLY REALLY hope I didn't hurt your feelings with anything I said.

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Originally Posted by DickEmDown

What's that old saying....

If you keep doing the same thing over and over (dicussing NBA threads) expecting a different result (which we are never going to get) it's called insanity

Guest082824 · 04-08-2011, 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Oh hush DickmeDown

. I have heard some amazing things about you from my girlfriends. If I were to make such an exception I wouldn't say so in public. It would go against everything I just posted lol.

Whatever you heard...lies I tell ya, all LIES

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Originally Posted by Hannah Heresy

You know I still love you DeD...

Yeah, yeah...tell me anything.

CarlaBrazil · 04-08-2011, 02:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Sunny Taylor

Im sorry...but for you gals having to hook for a living you aren't going to get on here and turn down anyone who is paying your rent.

When I began in this biz I saw people I didnt otherwise would see if I really didnt have to make a living, I was very unhappy and I was burnout very quickly and exited for a while. I am thankful that today I do not have to see anyone I don't want to see because my rent is due or do things I am not comfortable with because I am afraid of a bad review. I am able to make a living outside of this hobby and can be picky about whom I see since this is only my suplemental income.
I do not see Black men or Hispanics. I am not attracted to them at all.

Guest082824 · 04-08-2011, 02:10 AM

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Originally Posted by CarlaBrazil

I do not see Black men or Hispanics. I am not attracted to them at all.

That is fine...but are you attracted to every other client that you DO see???

I know it won't get me anywhere because I'm black but your website pics are HOT!!!

Carry on...

Chica Chaser · 04-08-2011, 02:12 AM

DeD, its still open because, to this point, everyone has remained on track and mostly respectful, shockingly enough! No major meltdowns even 170 posts in...restores my faith in people, for a minute at least!!

I think this thread has shown a LOT of people a view into the depths of thinking and more honest feelings that I haven't seen on countless past threads on this matter.

Wish I had taken that bet now!

Guest082824 · 04-08-2011, 02:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

DeD, its still open because, to this point, everyone has remained on track and mostly respectful, shockingly enough! No major meltdowns even 170 posts in...restores my faith in people, for a minute at least!!

I think this thread has shown a LOT of people a view into the depths of thinking and more honest feelings that I haven't seen on countless past threads on this matter.

Wish I had taken that bet now!

Yeah, I know Chica...I honestly wouldn't have closed it either

They are scared of you...folks play nice in the Nat'l forums

Chica Chaser · 04-08-2011, 02:34 AM

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Originally Posted by DickEmDown

Yeah, I know Chica...I honestly wouldn't have closed it either

They are scared of you...folks play nice in the Nat'l forums

Not always!

Reya Sunshine · 04-08-2011, 02:46 AM

Now now DeD, I can't have you flirtin' with other girls right under my nose!

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Originally Posted by DickEmDown

That is fine...but are you attracted to every other client that you DO see???

I know it won't get me anywhere because I'm black but your website pics are HOT!!!

Carry on...

Guest031213-03 · 04-08-2011, 02:51 AM

I just do my research even more when I feel someone has contacted me that may have made me uncomfortable. Thats how the boards can be very helpful to the ladies that MAY be fearful of certain men. Check his posts and reviews. That always makes me more comfortable when I'm considering spending time with anyone. Someone mentioned AA men causing drama. I've been through that also. I personally have NEVER had a 'white" pimp try to text or call me. Maybe that is one reason why some ladies don't want to see AA men. I kinda think pimps tell their ladies not to see black men because they already know their girl has been brainwashed by him (the Pimp), maybe he's afraid a nice AA client will come in and swoop her off her feet since she is already "in love" with him (the pimp that just so happens to be AA). Other races truely do haggle just as much as the next race at times. Smelly, disrespectful, rude, hagglers, time wasters, ncns, they come in all races. It still boils down to the ladies own personal choice. If you think a lady has a pimp just because she won't see a black man, that should be the LEAST of your worries. You should be more worried that she will rob, steal, bait n switch, upsell, etc more than anything.

The FrenchGuy · 04-08-2011, 03:38 AM

"You can talk yourself out of any policy but NBA" I sued to think it was a Race think (which somehow I still think it is), but I've learned some "providers" hang with black people but still don't sleep with blacks in the hobby.

For providers who have an NBA policy, "black" guys= pimps, no tips, disrespect, bad attitude, and ALL the possible dangers in the hobby.
Yeah, you will all come here and argue it's just "preference", but deep down this IS a racist issue.

Reya Sunshine · 04-08-2011, 03:52 AM

All who? Not Hannah Heresy...it is what it is and you can call it whatever works for you.

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Originally Posted by The FrenchGuy

"You can talk yourself out of any policy but NBA" I sued to think it was a Race think (which somehow I still think it is), but I've learned some "providers" hang with black people but still don't sleep with blacks in the hobby.

For providers who have an NBA policy, "black" guys= pimps, no tips, disrespect, bad attitude, and ALL the possible dangers in the hobby.
Yeah, you will all come here and argue it's just "preference", but deep down this IS a racist issue.

Eccie Addict · 04-08-2011, 04:06 AM

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Originally Posted by The FrenchGuy

"You can talk yourself out of any policy but NBA" I sued to think it was a Race think (which somehow I still think it is), but I've learned some "providers" hang with black people but still don't sleep with blacks in the hobby.

For providers who have an NBA policy, "black" guys= pimps, no tips, disrespect, bad attitude, and ALL the possible dangers in the hobby.
Yeah, you will all come here and argue it's just "preference", but deep down this IS a racist issue.

So you are able to see in a person's heart and "know" there reasons for doing things now. That's interesting. Most people who feel that is a race issue are the ones that feel it's a race thing all the time every time whether in the hobby or not.