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Austinfunandfit · 03-29-2011, 06:55 PM

I'm single and hobby less than when I was married because now that I'm not married I get laid a lot so don't need to hobby much.

NewWave · 03-29-2011, 07:05 PM

I'm single and hobby but that not often. Jerking off has always been the biggest money/time saver.

I only hobby because it seems a lot of the NSA encounters I was aiming for always became messy and too dramatic for me afterwards. Some guys don't mind playing the women along but that's not for me.

WyldemanATX · 03-29-2011, 07:50 PM

NEwWave that is why you should only date Bi or Bi curious women and be honest. Lying never works. More for me and I will still hobby too. I like providers some have been really good, but a civies bi or bi curious women are hours and hours of fun.

shaft.drive · 03-29-2011, 08:03 PM

Marriage
if we come back a few hundred years from now, me thinks the institution will be obsolete.

Love as long as it is there will keep the relationship fresh
When the love is gone, tis time to move on
amen

NewWave · 03-29-2011, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Wyldeman30

NEwWave that is why you should only date Bi or Bi curious women and be honest. Lying never works. More for me and I will still hobby too. I like providers some have been really good, but a civies bi or bi curious women are hours and hours of fun.

appreciate the advice Wyldeman, i'll look into it.

there is one chick I'm trying to contact who I believe is Bi, which takes a lot of pressure off of my shoulders.

I'd rather they get their nurturing needs from a better person, like another female, and come to me when they need a stray dog.

snowskkyy24 · 03-29-2011, 11:00 PM

Marley wrote: Yup most guys are married, that's taught me something.... I'll NEVER be the wife who does not put out! I vow to always keep it fresh and exciting for my hubby!!
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Would you PLEASE be my wife???!!!!

thehobbydude · 03-30-2011, 12:08 AM

Like a psychologist said when they interviewed him after the Elliot Spitzer situation (can't remember his name) - "You don't pay to have sex, you pay to leave after you have sex". That sums it up for us married guys that don't want the drama of an affair (or the expense of a divorce).

thehobbydude.

Austinfunandfit · 03-30-2011, 04:15 PM

Well can someone tell me where the harem of single bi women is!!? Because as long as I've been dating, no dice on that one.

Jennatexas23 · 03-30-2011, 04:26 PM

Yup most of the guys I see tell me there married and just having issues at home. Maybe even looking for something new. Some single guys here and there.

Like Marley I have to agree with the lady.
When I get married my husband is getting at least a blow job every day. I love sex so I think I might just wear him out lol.

DRorchia · 03-30-2011, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Jennatexas23

Yup most of the guys I see tell me there married and just having issues at home. Maybe even looking for something new. Some single guys here and there.

Like Marley I have to agree with the lady.
When I get married my husband is getting at least a blow job every day. I love sex so I think I might just wear him out lol.

To be completely honest ladies, I'm not even sure if the greatest sex in the world would stop a large % of men from cheating.
My SO emailed me this article on the subject a few hours ago:
http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationshi...u-s-internship

8 Million members on the website in question. A website especially set up for cheating. The numbers seem to speak for themselves.

VictoriaLyn · 03-30-2011, 05:50 PM

I would say about 80% of mine are married.....
There is a huge difference between love and sex..just because you are sticking your penis elsewhere doesnt mean your heart went too...

DRorchia · 03-30-2011, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

I would say about 80% of mine are married.....
There is a huge difference between love and sex..just because you are sticking your penis elsewhere doesnt mean your heart went too...

Ahhh VL, if only you could convince more women of that fact. Men have been trying to make that point for a long time but few SO's are willing to accept it.

Gentleman · 03-30-2011, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

There is a huge difference between love and sex..just because you are sticking your penis elsewhere doesnt mean your heart went too...

VL, you are wrong at least for me: I fall in love regularly when I stick my penis in. At least by the hour......

I am insulted that YOU don't remember that!

Nevermind, that was just lust. I remember now.

VictoriaLyn · 03-30-2011, 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Gentleman

VL, you are wrong at least for me: I fall in love regularly when I stick my penis in. At least by the hour......

I am insulted that YOU don't remember that!

Nevermind, that was just lust. I remember now.

Cum remind me

Guest041711 · 03-30-2011, 09:23 PM

i think 80% is an accurate number.. i dont quite get the paying for it part, but i dont believe in monogamy so i understand the variety part. cheating, to me, is being dishonest about it. i dont cheat. i dont put up with cheating. i also dont care if my guy goes and gets some ass or head elsewhere as long as they dont lie to me, are safe, dont bring it into my life and dont string the girls along. i think i just got the paying for it part.. hm