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Abe Normal · 03-10-2011, 12:42 PM

Escorts are people too, and besides, I have a past I'm not entirely proud of.

As someone already posted, if both of us were out of the hobby entirely, I could do it. Our past has nothing to do with it. Moving foward does !

Cpalmson · 03-10-2011, 01:01 PM

I would definitely date a provider OTC (almost did). For me, it would be NSA situation. I doubt I would get into any LTR with a provider for personal reasons. If I did get into an LTR, I honestly don't know how I would respond to whether or not she continued to be a provider. And I don't know if I would stop hobbying. That's why I would simply want the NSA relationship or a friends with benefits relationship. It is so less complicated.

samantha thom · 03-10-2011, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by London Rayne

With only a few exceptions, men who hobby often go back to it eventually. The ONLY way I would even consider it would be if he was single when we met, and I was out of the business for good.

I agree with you, London!

Ed Highlight · 03-10-2011, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by urhuckleberry

Actually I have (dated an escort OTC)... and if I started LT relationship I wouldn't expect changes in the lady's lifestyle unless it was her choice...

Huck

Just want to make it clear....he's not talkin' about ME!!!

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178972

Mr. Smith111 · 03-10-2011, 02:40 PM

I think it might be fun for a while, but to work long term it would be difficult . I could see lots of trust issues from both sides springing up, even if both had quit.
Are you looking for a boyfriend Sweet n Little ?

Guest020112 · 03-10-2011, 03:02 PM

I only date men in the real world so that my skin glows for you guys!!..lol

guest010313 · 03-10-2011, 03:08 PM

I've thought about this and I don't think I could.

1. Both of us would have to leave the hobby.
2. This includes message boards, texting old ATFs, etc etc.
3. I do not like being a cop but I would turn into one.
4. If I had ever given him a reference I would always wonder "Well if you liked me so much why did you go fuck someone else?"

Even typing that out makes me tense lol. I'll just stay single until I'm done

tennisbum · 03-10-2011, 03:52 PM

Yes to both questions. I am old fashioned. I would date (and for that matter, marry) my UTR in a New York minute. And yes, I would certainly expect her to quit the business if she married me.

London Rayne · 03-10-2011, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by tennisbum

Yes to both questions. I am old fashioned. I would date (and for that matter, marry) my UTR in a New York minute. And yes, I would certainly expect her to quit the business if she married me.

Stop the presses...someone just got proposed to.

Guest071711 · 03-10-2011, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Smith111

to work long term it would be difficult . I could see lots of trust issues from both sides springing up, even if both had quit.

yes this is true

Guest071711 · 03-10-2011, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I would but there is no way I could date and do this. I can't see me being in a relationship with someone while I continue to do this....

this too
+1

jughead1171 · 03-10-2011, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

If you could ,would you date (as in off the clock ) someone you met in this business?
if you did start a relationship would you quit or want the other to?

Yes because I don't see the girls here any differently than any one else. Would it be easy? No, but anything worth it is worth working for. Both in my opinion would have to be committed to each other and willing to work through trust issues mostly likely present on both sides...I don't think it would ever happen overnight but for me would be an option.

topsgt38801 · 03-10-2011, 04:25 PM

I believe I could date someone that was in the business, but if after a period of time the relationship became more involved, I would want her to stop providing and I would most definitely stop hobbying. I would not be hobbying now if my current situation had not gone south. Tried to work it out and other side did not want to cooperate. I can be a one woman man for the right lady and at that point of commitment, I would expect the same of her.

shorty · 03-10-2011, 04:34 PM

I guess I'm the minority here. If you don't have trust in her and likewise then any relationship will not work. I guess I'm to trusting of other people. I would really like to hear the view points of some of the ladies that do have SO's on this subject. I personally don't have a problem with it.

Chica Chaser · 03-10-2011, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Smith111

I think it might be fun for a while, but to work long term it would be difficult . I could see lots of trust issues from both sides springing up, even if both had quit.
Are you looking for a boyfriend Sweet n Little ?

Been there done that. Both directions. The trust issues and jealousy are the real gremlins that fuck up most relationships, but especially in the hobby. I better let it go with that, but suffice to say hobbyist/provider are difficult at best and downright ugly at worst.