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xxnubyxx · 03-02-2011, 07:05 PM

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=184141

I've always imagined that to be a cool gig, getting pay to bang hot chicks, depicted in Chippendale videos or shows like Hung... but after thinking about it now (due to this guy above), what if the woman was unattractive or old or disgusting. I've no idea how the hobbyists here looks, never meet any one of them, but I would guess its a wide range, from all types, personality and looks....

So the question is (for me at least), if the woman was hot, I probably wouldn't charge her or maybe accept a small tip... and if was ugly, I would charge her a WHOLE lot more, so in order word, it's a scaling factor based on her attractiveness or hotness... I'm sure that's a guy thing because LOOKS is everything.

So the question is, does that work the same with a female provider. Do they have some level of preferential treatment based on "attractiveness" (maybe a more open menu) or perhaps personality, I dunno.... or is it really all the same... business is business... ugly, old, short, fat, goofy etc... it's all the same

Codybeast · 03-02-2011, 07:28 PM

There are some basic mechanical differences. Unless he's popping the blue pill before every appt which would be extremely dangerous and costly he has to be at least somewhat attracted to the client or it ain't happening. At least that would be the case for me. A women however can just bite the bullet attracted or not and focus on the Rent or Bill that's getting paid off.

xxnubyxx · 03-02-2011, 07:37 PM

Well, maybe a pill a day, 200 dollars no tax is pretty good living in my book

saj1000 · 03-02-2011, 07:49 PM

You won't hear squat from the ladies on this one.

Dagny D.E.W. · 03-02-2011, 09:16 PM

I'll bite.....
we have to keep the rates the same for all hours. so for the old, fat and ugly we just look for the good person inside. When meeting thru the keyboard it is easier because we don't see the outer guy. Only the inner you.

Those are the connections that we have to make it fun for both of us and him to have a good time.

guest031812 · 03-02-2011, 09:18 PM

I believe that maybe the girl might be more open to getting know know an attractive client but I don't believe it would open up the menu.. Inless you got on a SO type of relationship with her vs. hobbyist.

Sexy Roxanne · 03-02-2011, 09:48 PM

There are a few providers that do see male escorts. Sometimes they just want to be the ones to lay back and enjoy the moment

Also beats the hell outta putting up with drama from a relationship. After all the shoe is on the other foot at that moment and we are paying him to get us off and beat his feet out the door, lmao. I coudnt help it that was funny, but true story folks.

Kanyon · 03-02-2011, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Sexy Roxanne

There are a few providers that do see male escorts. Sometimes they just want to be the ones to lay back and enjoy the moment

Also beats the hell outta putting up with drama from a relationship. After all the shoe is on the other foot at that moment and we are paying him to get us off and beat it, lmao. I coudnt help it that was funny, but true story folks.

Sooo... reciprocation of services would technically make my session with one of you lovely ladies break-even, free.

Shit! Do you know how much I would have saved if I had known this earlier! No wonder the ladies are so happy when the visit with me is over... not only did I satisfy them, but I gifted them too!! LOL!

Baloney Pony · 03-03-2011, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by xxnubyxx

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=184141

Howdy, Folks!

What the hell is in the cage in the background? It looks kinda like a monkey...

Whatever it is - that cage looks way too small...

sterling1 · 03-03-2011, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Dagny D.E.W.

I'll bite.....
we have to keep the rates the same for all hours. so for the old, fat and ugly we just look for the good person inside. When meeting thru the keyboard it is easier because we don't see the outer guy. Only the inner you.

Those are the connections that we have to make it fun for both of us and him to have a good time.

Damn; I meet most of that criteria ! Except the ugly part lol ! Don't we all wonder what the other party thinks of us when we show up or especially after we leave? I do ... As far as being am male provider; I think we can all fantasize .
Dagny we need to get together someday.

Nightcrawler29 · 03-03-2011, 10:21 PM

Yeah, I imagine providers look at men in the same way, where they would enjoy having a session with a fit good looking guy, rather than a fat old hairy one. The advantage is that at least they can hide their true feelings and still pretend they are having a good time. While for us guys... well its pretty obvious what we feel like when our cocks are pointing up or down.

Kit-4-Kat · 03-04-2011, 04:29 AM

I know we've talked about this before, but I recall not being the only lady who felt somewhat intimidated by a REALLY HOT guy being on the other side of the door. I share Dagny's approach in that it's not the appearance on the outside, but the substance on the inside that make a person attractive. Hell, some of my hottest sessions were with guys most gals would never consider to be attractive if they only care about looks.

If you do this several times a week over a long period of time, you have to find some middle ground. If you're superficial, you won't make it in this biz for long. The ladies with longevity in this biz are GENUINE. They care about the man and his needs first. It's not just about what you can get out of it i.e. money or your own satisfaction. Pleasers, givers, unselfish, unconditional lovers... These are what make a provider something special in the long run.

Dagny D.E.W. · 03-04-2011, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by sterling1

Damn; I meet most of that criteria ! Except the ugly part lol ! Don't we all wonder what the other party thinks of us when we show up or especially after we leave? I do ... As far as being am male provider; I think we can all fantasize .

Usually when the door closes, "what a nice gentleman!" couple of times "what a creep" (lots of times that is the good looking guy who THINKS he is cassanova lol)

sometimes... "that didn't go well" and then he calls again!

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Originally Posted by sterling1

Dagny we need to get together someday.

I'm holding some time for ya sterling but only till March 31st.

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GotCondomz · 03-04-2011, 08:20 AM

Begin a retired male escort/stripper... this is very common there a lot of unattractive women..as I'm sure there's plenty of unattractive men..but that's the Industry for you...They are paying for a service, and its up to us to provide the clients with the attention they deserve no matter what they look like

I have had many female providers as clients as well....its funny cause most don't tell you that they are in the industry till after the session has ended..lol