Pictures on 411?

[FocusedGamer]

Do you men actually put your pictures on your profile on p411? Pros Cons?


Chime in ladies...

[Bushjumper]

No.

[Mplay]

No

[R.M.]

Some gentlemen do. I think it could depend on ones marital status.

[Jilge]

NEVER!!

[okraslayer]

I have my face & actual name on there. I'm not married, no kids & my job won't care.

[wombat57]

Originally Posted by FocusedGamer

Do you men actually put your pictures on your profile on p411? Pros Cons?


Chime in ladies...

I put up a picture of me doing an activity - but no face. Skiing, riding a bike, fishing, - whatever. Gives some idea of your interests, but doesn't tie directly to you.

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by okraslayer

I have my face & actual name on there. I'm not married, no kids & my job won't care.

Okay. I'll bite. WHY would you do that exactly? Regardless if your single any site can be "penetrated", pardon the pun. So there are certainly people that you wouldn't want to have that information,(LE for one), not the least of which is some providers who are on there. I mean P411 is my go to for scheduling, BUT even on there, there are some gals who have gone rogue. There are threads on this forum listing a few of them, and I sure wouldn't want them to have my personal info. The main point though the ladies don't need that information before you've met. If one requests real world info, at least you can then research her and decide if you're willing to share it.

[okraslayer]

One it's not illegal for me to pay someone for their companionship... Anything beyond that is dangerous. To each their own

Once I pay them in anything other than cash they will have information on me, name & such. Some women even have their actual names on their cashapp,venmo and so on.

Heck to get on the site there's a good amount of info I have to give to get considered, so the info is already there

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by okraslayer

One it's not illegal for me to pay someone for their companionship... Anything beyond that is dangerous. To each their own

Once I pay them in anything other than cash they will have information on me, name & such. Some women even have their actual names on their cashapp,venmo and so on.

Heck to get on the site there's a good amount of info I have to give to get considered, so the info is already there

But that info is NOT available to a provider who may go off the rails. Really just asking. If your comfortable with your real world info being out there to every woman, (or whomever has account) then thats certainly your decision...

[okraslayer]

If I pay with cash app, pay pal and so on, a good deal of info is provided.

Now could some random see my profile and go ballistic? Potentially, but they'd have to know it was real in the first place & I've been screwed over more often by women that said they were independent & weren't or by some woman with a God complex... So it's possible to have that done no matter what really.

But yeah I have let's say a particular set of things I enjoy doing with a partner that would require an amount of trust and being comfortable before beginning... So I am ok with putting the info forward so they can do the needed background ✔️ and so on .

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

I like the Mug Shots I get to see lol

[LadyAnastasia]

Each person has their own level of comfort. I've seen less than 5 mens profile photos in my hobby career, it's not the norm but I think it's nice when it happens.

[R.M.]

Originally Posted by KCFalcon77

Okay. I'll bite. WHY would you do that exactly? Regardless if your single any site can be "penetrated", pardon the pun. So there are certainly people that you wouldn't want to have that information,(LE for one), not the least of which is some providers who are on there. I mean P411 is my go to for scheduling, BUT even on there, there are some gals who have gone rogue. There are threads on this forum listing a few of them, and I sure wouldn't want them to have my personal info. The main point though the ladies don't need that information before you've met. If one requests real world info, at least you can then research her and decide if you're willing to share it.

Everyone has a different level of comfort.
A gent may use his image to show ladies what to expect when they open the door.
Thus giving us a level of comfort.
Each to their own.

[Wendigo101]

Yes, but with most of my face covered.