Whats up with the stank energy in helping with references from providers

[diva_queen]

There are so many other providers out there that I truly appreciate for helping with reference checks. However, there have been a few lately that will just not respond, and I feel they do it intentionally . We are all here together to keep everyone safe.

[Bobneals]

Just be patient. I find it takes some providers of very long time to respond. Sometimes it takes several days or a week at 2 o’clock in the morning. I’ve been contacted by providers that I’ve used as references asking why I wasn’t going to see them. Some may feel you’re stealing their money. But like you said we’re all here together and we all need to be safe.

[diva_queen]

This has been about a month for this specific provider. They may get the feeling of their clients getting stolen, but the best of the best win . I am never petty like that , as I hope my clients enjoy themselves, they always come back.

[DallasRain]

i hear ya sexy lady

we all gotta keep each other safe

[DallasRain]

i hear ya sexy lady

we all gotta keep each other safe

[diva_queen]

Dallas you have always been great when it comes to references ,so has lexxi, jane, Gia, I appreciate yall so much

[farmstud60]

I usually only see ladies that are active on P411 and with so many OK's I'm not sure how many ever check references. Of course they can check them easily without me knowing about it.

[nottoday]

I prefer P411 and stick with the gals on that website too

[diva_queen]

No i totally get that . But for example I reached out to duchess dream for a reference and she refuses to give one to me because she has bad blood with a provider I used to double with . I mean come on, very childish to me . And even tho she refused, I still used her ok from p411 as good enough reference. This is about being safe , not playing kiddie games

[DaDuchess]

Lol.... I told you what was going on and explained my side. I don't give references or ask for references for anyone related to Lexi. I just refuse to give any time to people like that Sorry! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ When you explained you no longer work with her I said I could give you a reference anytime. We share a mutual energy on that as she has never reached out to me for a reference either... But if we have to resort to bad mouthing each other publicly that's fine too.

[diva_queen]

I'm not her and I don't know what happened between you guys but nobody should ever pay the price for someone else's shit. These gentleman rely on us to relay these references to other providers so that they can ENJOY themselves. At least 3 people didn't get that option bc you didn't want to provide a reference based on stuff that had nothing to do with me as a provider. There is one goal, and that's to keep everything discrete and safe for all the people of this hobby

[DaDuchess]

If you're not able to see someone based off one reference then I would suggest you do more screening. Sounds like you denied them that opportunity, not me. If we're talking about discretion references aren't very discreet to begin with. But good luck to ya!

[diva_queen]

I still got the reference that I needed. This is just to provide insight to others that don't want the drama and kid games . I've done my part. Best of luck to you as well. And references actually are supposed to be discrete as they don't want their information exposed to everyone . References make it easier for the client and provider to exchange safety information without providing personal information

[DaDuchess]

My clients have never once dealt with drama from me. For some reason it's always you other hoes making the drama.

[DallasRain]

I rarely see new clients..but when I do,I prefer a provider reference from a reputable gal on here or other reputable sites...I am too old n cranky to sleep on a "cold spring bed" lol..if ya know what I mean!