Encounter: Most Awkward Experience

[anandaman]

I've been in the hobby for a very long time... I think the "search for something new" all the time is one approach... another is to find the ladies you really like and create a rotation...

I have a rotation right now with around 8 ladies... I see some around 2 - 3 times a month and the others around once a month and some about every other month.... This no. of ladies in your rotation keeps things fresh... I see the ones I like the most, the most... because... I like them!

It took a while to create the rotation... I found ladies that I really connect with... no need now to provide lots of references and they all have great TCB (which is typical with ladies when you are a regular). Just a quick text with day and time... and all set. Never late, never NCNS, never disappointment...

I do a lot of research before seeing a new lady (same as I did to create the rotation)... this lessens the chance of disappointment in the first place.

Spritteacher is well-known for being VERY YMMV... some guys who take control have a good time... those who are more passive... don't. There are LOTS of reviews of her that tell this story.

I think those who 'chase the unicorns' for every session they have are setting themselves up for disappointment...
Do your research, find the ladies you click with, stick with them and have fun!

BTW - The fact that OH2 has not been working is not a problem with this approach... I have the ladies' phone numbers.... don't need a website to see them... I also have 100's of phone no.s of other ladies if I do want to mix things up....

A'Man

[jmedin]

Thanks for this very insightful reply. This is definitely the approach I'm striving for to continue this hobby. I admit I'm pretty passive on first encounters so I can make sure that we are both comfortable with each other. Thank you for the advice, A'Man !

[Schimeister]

Know when to dip when you need to is always good, from the girl's standpoint its financial firstly especially if it is the first time connecting. Which could open up the possibility of being a regular would add to her business too.

The hobby can be a hit or miss when you are experiencing new providers and that goes without saying for anything honestly. I have walked out on providers due to false imaging, lackluster of attitude and etc. All within without having anything condone in the session yet, Also with that being said, I have also tried and make it work with some too but only to be unimpressed and disappointed in the end. You'd have to either do your research and take a dive or be able to take the disappointment that you wasted your time and effort.

YMMV can happened unfortunely, providers are humans too. A much of a real life aspect view on standards and looks. Its just a shame when that aspect would come to ruin the session for you as a consumer entirely.

Sorry to hear you had to experience that though OP, I can feel the awkwardness just from reading your post. Hope you continue to have good ones as well and learn from the not so good ones.

[pxmcc]

heck, start with a qv. hh tops. if it's all that, never had a provider pass up an upgrade request. just know her donations ahead of time.

and never bother to try to make bad sessions work. if the vibe is off, i'll hand em 40 bucks for their trouble and walk lol