Approaches to nervous newbies

[SitnStare]

When a newbie client is obviously nervous on arrival at an incall, what is the typical approach that a provider will take? I’m not saying nervous because the client is a virgin or anything. But maybe because of just first time jitters, infidelity nervousness, or even recognition of all the other risks.

Are most providers going to put in extra effort to try to make the newbie feel comfortable and get him to relax? Or, is it business as usual and treated like any other client? Or, worst case, is the newbie going to be viewed as an easy mark?

[jan-w]

Maybe

[The Queen Sophie]

A more mature reputable provider will definitely take extra steps to ensure he gets relaxed and loose the nervousness. For me, if the client is super nervous then I'm gonna be a little more nervous than normal and jittery. Even if it means the appointment goes over time because of such, then it does and the provider isn't going to freak out and push them out the door or expect extra $$ because time ran long.

A younger 20'something...not so much. Most younger ones think the minute they open the door the timer begins and aren't usually apt to carrying on a decent conversation to allow someone to wind down a little so it's usually "here look at my hot body let's get this over with" kinda vibe. Most of the younger ones are used to the strip club mentality and carry it over to providing and tend to catch an attitude if the dude is not out the door on the minute mark ending their session or requesting more $$ if time goes over.

Hell even if they guy isn't nervous I usually am a little bit amped because my adrenaline is up from getting ready for them so I need a few minutes once they are inside.

I've always said "if you aren't a little nervous going in you usually drop your guard and make bad choices and more likely to end up in handcuffs or robbed".

Well that's my opinion anyway...

[alanbourdilliontreherne]

... sorry I'm late to the thread. Everybody is a newbie once and even after some experience some nervousness is expected. Heck, I've been out of the game for 10 years or so and am trying to find that provider to help ease me back in. I'm sure I'll be a little nervous the first time we meet. Some nice conversation always helps.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by SitnStare

When a newbie client is obviously nervous on arrival at an incall, what is the typical approach that a provider will take? I’m not saying nervous because the client is a virgin or anything. But maybe because of just first time jitters, infidelity nervousness, or even recognition of all the other risks.

Are most providers going to put in extra effort to try to make the newbie feel comfortable and get him to relax? Or, is it business as usual and treated like any other client? Or, worst case, is the newbie going to be viewed as an easy mark?

Easy mark if you're green