What to put in your opening text?

[everix1992]

I've had quite a few instances lately where I'll find someone on Tryst or STG or something and shoot them a text and never hear anything back. Maybe this is more common than I'm expecting and I'm getting in my own head for nothing, but it has me wondering what everyone else puts in their opening text to a provider?

Obviously, if they mention specific info in their ad they want then that's a gimme but other than that I've always kept it simple and basically said "Hey, saw your ad on X and wanted to see if we might be able to set up an appointment/visit/whatever". Maybe I need to revise my gameplan there though

[MarcellusWalluz]

Don't take it personal.
Use hello instead of hey, include some of your stats & maybe say you want to get to know her better. Some won't respond if it sounds too much like a transaction.
There really is no standard, some just don't respond at all & some will go as far as giving their address then just ghost.
Try contacting them again after a few weeks.

[Wile E Coyote]

If they advertise and you like what they have to say, look at what they are telling you to do their screening, then introduce yourself that way. Sending a provider "Sup?" is not going to do anything for you. We are all adults here, well most of us are, some are still mentally challenged.

There are far too many providers out there who not only want your business, but also your repeat business to waste your time on providers who think they are doing you a favor by taking your money.

Get to know the providers by the way they talk to you one on one, their reviews by multiple different guys and most importantly, the way they carry their persona on the boards. Those things more than any ad they post tells you if you want to see that provider or not.

[LadyAnastasia]

Heres my take on tryst as a provider.

When I get a message there, its usually very basic with little information to go on, like "hey, i saw you on tryst.", with no other info. Tryst is not like p411 with a profile/okays, its much like backpage. I prefer the boards.

[Amy Adams Atx]

In my opinion, just saying hello so and so, I saw you on (insert site). I have references and/or screening available and was wondering what your schedule is like on this date and time and give the length of time requested and maybe even a brief physical description. You could even make a template and save it for contact every time. Some ladies like to be pm’d or emailed first.

I get too many requests that come in via text, email, pm and booking form to keep up with who’s who and they don’t make it easy at times, because they don’t indicate that they are texting and emailing. Sigh. lol.

I’m guilty of not responding back via text if I feel like the gentleman is being way too vague or just asking if I’m available without any introduction. I know people are busy and maybe they’re at work, limited on time they can spend on a companions email or text or site, but taking an additional 5-10 minutes to streamline a request with a short intro influences my decision to bother responding or not. I feel I take a ton of time to explain step by step how to approach everything, so it’s kind of insulting to put out a website, tons of social media, fill out bios on tons of sites and get a two word request. I’ll usually give that one more chance to do a proper inquiry by gentle feedback. After that, I move on. I have too many regulars and streams of income to entertain a person who doesn’t do research or know how to communicate effectively. It doesn’t sound you’re doing anything wrong. Maybe just research them a bit more for their preferred method of communication.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

1.Fastest and best way to get me to respond to you is , read my ad and fill out my screening form on my web site, as all my ad's ask you to do.
I get to my emails right away (unless im in a sassion) or my RW life is busy.

2.A text is fine but if you don't Introduce yourself right way ( Hi Gina this is Tom) like to know who I'm chating with. I may not get back to you.

3.Send all screeing info in one email or text or on my website screening form will get to you right away if not busy,
This tells me you are a Serious Booker and not Wasting both of our time.

Just texting or email asking if I'n Available is going to get you this ( after screeing)

I get a lot of emails and text when on tour and most of my time is booked with only few openings and taking the time to answer worthless text or emails with no info , just may not happen!

One other thing guys screening takes time if you are using Refes some providers never get back or it may be past your Window of time when they do.
I do like last min appt if I have time but I prefer pre books so I know how my day will be going ...