The last few times with the former SB -- a year-and-a-half ago now -- climaxing via L3 was WORK. And it wasn't due to anything she did or didn't do. I wonder if that's common for guys in their mid-60s and beyond. Sometimes a brief respite to allow a period of recharge, supplemented by her desire to make it happen and actions taken to achieve that end, was necessary. Other times, she'd let me tittyfuck her -- that's a seriously underlooked activity, IMHO -- to completion.
Anyway, I'm still recovering from the dissolution of a relationship like I'd never had before; coupled with the reason mentioned above, the thought of L3 doesn't do much for me. I'd probably be like, "Well, if you want to hop on, go ahead. Just don't expect much."
So something less intimate is what I'll be looking for upon my return.
If you can make it seem like your idea, something you want to do, and not like is included in the price -- perrhaps that's impossible to reconcile -- that'd be about the greatest thing since sliced bread for me.