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[Spunk]

Originally Posted by KCFalcon77

What sites are your go to's for selecting playdates? Research, research, research, is all I can say. And don't schedule dates for the current day or on short notice.

I know my experience here is special. I have my own expectations.

I've been using Tryst. Oddly (maybe ironically) a lot of the providers on that site aren't well reviewed here. Sometimes the reviews here (on eccie) are tough to parse out - Santa's Little Helper being one. Even the positive review has me asking questions. My alarm bells ring loudly when providers are even the slightest bit shady. The last one I contacted myself was a CMT who claimed they don't schedule out more than two days in advance. Which may or may not be true, but when I'm leaning towards that type of service, I would prefer a greater level of standard professionalism (again, as opposed to the provider named above, who I might already guess is flakey).

I was really active in this hobby many years ago when backpage and craigslist were a thing, and it was easy to find a single provider and just make my appointment every 4-6 weeks. The providers I've been in contact with nearly absolutely need references. I'm almost to the point of biting the bullet on some of the more established providers who I'm not particularly interested in, just to get the references...

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by Spunk

I know my experience here is special. I have my own expectations.

I've been using Tryst. Oddly (maybe ironically) a lot of the providers on that site aren't well reviewed here. Sometimes the reviews here (on eccie) are tough to parse out - Santa's Little Helper being one. Even the positive review has me asking questions. My alarm bells ring loudly when providers are even the slightest bit shady. The last one I contacted myself was a CMT who claimed they don't schedule out more than two days in advance. Which may or may not be true, but when I'm leaning towards that type of service, I would prefer a greater level of standard professionalism (again, as opposed to the provider named above, who I might already guess is flakey).

I was really active in this hobby many years ago when backpage and craigslist were a thing, and it was easy to find a single provider and just make my appointment every 4-6 weeks. The providers I've been in contact with nearly absolutely need references. I'm almost to the point of biting the bullet on some of the more established providers who I'm not particularly interested in, just to get the references...

Have you considered joining p411? I know it may not be for everyone, but the two sites you mentioned using previously are kind of like STG and LC today with what seems to be in general a higher rate of poor outcomes based on many reviews in terms of communication issues, underwhelming service, and shady locations. I guess my point is if YOU are not happy with the outcomes your receiving, perhaps look at alternative options on where to shop.

[yourdesire]

Sorry you ran into so many issues spunk, there are those of us out here that you can count on

[MJewel]

Originally Posted by KCFalcon77

Sorry to hear of your struggles Spunk. What sites are your go to's for selecting playdates? Are these well reviewed ladies? Are they reviewed here, or have a presence on P411? This seems so strange to me that gents have this level of striking out. I can only think of one lady I've scheduled in the last several years who NCNS me and she did have reviews here, and posted on both tryst and p411 at the time. (She's no longer posting on either site, as I think her poor business practices on those sites led to her getting very little business). Research, research, research, is all I can say. And don't schedule dates for the current day or on short notice.

Great advice KCFalcon77

[MatureBeauty]

I was ghosted several times.
I’m very low volume and if someone requests multiple hours I’m not seeing anyone else that day. Ruins my day, my week and my month .
Multiple hours booked with no show , no call, or the last min
Something came up, but they never reschedule.
Last one was 2 weeks ago, a four hour booking!
All of these were new clients, or wouldn’t been, I never met up with any of them.
Maybe being done deliberately so providers all start asking for deposits
Then they will post as provider and get deposits more easily, and they are possibly scammers?
Idk, maybe I’m just not trusting anyone , but I’m being bombarded with scams since Jan 1st.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

When I here all this about being ghosted by providers , It just makes me think where are you shopping at?

I'm a provider who tours a lot and I have never ghosted one gent in my time of being a provider ( have I gotten NS a few times and after getting a deposit I can get NS )

Have I had to cancle a tour before YES due to what ever and I return all deposits and let you know a few days before or up to a week before.

If you are well Organize Provider there should not be any issues of ghosting someone.. Now somthing can happen last min , as getting sick or kid issues or what ever last min thing can happen. And you should let the gent know right away.

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

When I here all this about being ghosted by providers , It just makes me think where are you shopping at?

I'm a provider who tours a lot and I have never ghosted one gent in my time of being a provider ( have I gotten NS a few times and after getting a deposit I can get NS )

Have I had to cancle a tour before YES due to what ever and I return all deposits and let you know a few days before or up to a week before.

If you are well Organize Provider there should not be any issues of ghosting someone.. Now somthing can happen last min , as getting sick or kid issues or what ever last min thing can happen. And you should let the gent know right away.

Certainly in this "secret life" there are ladies like yourself who are "professional courtesans", who not only act professionally, but make a real effort to deliver a memorable experience, and there are women who are willing to do whatever to make a fast buck, and those somewhere in between. In the same way there are gentleman who know how to appreciate a truly quality experience, guys who just want to have a release and have no interest in any connection, and gents in the middle somewhere. Thats why it behooves us all to research carefully for what we truly want for ourselves.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

When I here all this about being ghosted by providers , It just makes me think where are you shopping at?

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