What's the best way to confirm in advance whether a provider will agree to your fetish?

[AdventurousMouse]

Many providers don't want to discuss specific services through text or calls (and understandably so, for liability reasons)

That being said, for the sake of the provider and the client, it's best if both parties are on the same page ahead of time (as far as what the client wants out of the session)

My providers I've gotten with on a regular basis are aware of my fetish. I like to see new providers from time to time, however. There have been times with new providers where they get here, only for it to turn out they refuse my fetish.

In a nutshell, I'm looking for a way to confirm fetish willingness in advance with new providers, yet refrain from making her suspect I'm a cop entrapping her.

[Mr69Jones]

If she has a website then you should find out if she's fetish friendly or not. Reviews would be another way.

[~Ze~]

Carefully wording what interests you, is one thing.

Asking if another person will provide it is specific and taboo.

I love hearing what people are interested in. I hate being asked if I am an alphabet girl. (xyz etc)