I personally love pre-bookings!!!! (especially compared to last minute appt requests)
I travel fairly often and by request, so prebooking helps ease stressors for both parties instead of rushing to perfect the vibes with last minute accommodations.
Im actually coming back up to Springfield in the middle of March around the 15th to visit for a baby shower event.
To me it's sooner than I had planned lol because I was initially told it would be in May. But at least I know the date and can prepare for it and plan around it now, (seeing how I just found out yesterday.)
But that's what I like about prebookings. I don't feel rushed and can simply have everything perfect when the time comes. And it definitely gives me something to look forward to
As for those other ladies you reached out to, maybe they got all excited at the potential prospect of a date but then they ended up disappointed since it wasn't sooner than later like they had hoped. Perhaps they were looking forward to some much needed fun, attention and well you know
But if a gent tells me up front he wants to secure something in the future, how could I be upset! Guys who send *completely filled out* screening forms, in their first or second initial contact pm, to prebook, are some of my absolute FAVES let me tell you.