Proper etiquette when you and the provider are at the same hotel?

[An_Original_UNAME]

Had a session the other week that was pretty funny. Was on business and did the whole rigamarole until she told me the area which was where I was. A decent number of hotels but I got a bit paranoid and figured I would grab a coffee right before the session.


Lo and behold, she gives me the address of the same hotel I am at. Pretended I wasn't staying there and did the whole "send a photo when you are in the parking lot" and all that. Fortunately we were on different floors.


Was way too tired for bullshit after so I only did a two stop on the elevator going back to my room.


I probably over thought it but I know some women have a lookout in the parking lot and figured I would play along. Maybe they were wondering why I never left but there are multiple exits and I don't care THAT much.

[CryptKicker]

Try arranging for a visit with a provider that doesn't show her face only to find out when you meet face to face it was someone in your same office at work! Lol. Happened to me early in my hobbying days!

[Unique_Carpenter]

Almost same as Crypt, one of the Admin gals at my primary work thing used to have ads a decade ago. Pic was clear, so nope not crossing that bridge.

As for hotels, depending on where, chances are good that a working gal is there.
I've ridden with in elevators, walked past in lobbies, etc. Usually a discrete nod, frequently a text later. The gals will easily figure out quickly if another gal is in same hotel.

As for etiquette, let it go with no more than a discrete nod. They are working so don't waste their time. If you want a date, go through normal procedures. If they text you, that means they've opened the option to talk.

Example, on my way out one night, down the elevator with a gal other than my date. We went out for dinner. She knew I had seen someone so we talked fishing. Seriously. Bass in Texas are different than Missouri

[Gotyour6]

Originally Posted by CryptKicker

Try arranging for a visit with a provider that doesn't show her face only to find out when you meet face to face it was someone in your same office at work! Lol. Happened to me early in my hobbying days!

Happened to be 15 years ago with an intern.

[CantBuyMeLove]

It has happened to me more than once. First time, I was scheduled at a shop, but they sent a text saying a water line busted and the shop was setting up a backup location. Just so happened to be at the place I was staying.

Second time, with an independent, when she texted her location, I responded I was just one floor up, could she join me at my place instead of hers and she replied "Sure, but outcalls are an extra $100." I declined and went downstairs.

[GutterFund]

Originally Posted by CryptKicker

Try arranging for a visit with a provider that doesn't show her face only to find out when you meet face to face it was someone in your same office at work! Lol. Happened to me early in my hobbying days!

Ah, yes, the ultimate test of extemporaneous speaking!

Funny, but had to be awkward.

[Jacuzzme]

Got a BJ in Giant Eagle parking lot from a provider famed for car dates in her minivan. She was sitting next to me and the Mrs at a school board meeting a week later. Talk about awkward.

[GutterFund]

Originally Posted by Jacuzzme

Got a BJ in Giant Eagle parking lot from a provider famed for car dates in her minivan. She was sitting next to me and the Mrs at a school board meeting a week later. Talk about awkward.

...and the Mrs never could understand why you had an erection at a school board meeting, right?

[happycamper]

I stay in hotels around 250 to 300 days per year so it’s happened to me a couple of times, but our paths never crossed anywhere else in the hotel.

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by happycamper

I stay in hotels around 250 to 300 days per year so it’s happened to me a couple of times, but our paths never crossed anywhere else in the hotel.

With the mentally checked out providers of today (not all, but most), you do not have to worry too much. You can hear a pin drop if you walked down the hall of a hotel and one of the rooms has a provider in a session.

IF I ever happen to run into a provider I have been BCD with in the past or seen and remember her pictures on an ad that she was/is a provider, then saw her out in public such as an event, store, ect. I would not take a second look at her, much less talk to her in that setting as I feel that would be inappropriate.

[Ripmany]

I been side walk of hotel president solicited for service. I have turn it down most times. If staying there for more than one day avoid. Good last day fun..be safe most provider are not alone and don't work alone there have there, Den mothers, pimps, or fellow officers.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Well Wile E. is back from camp.
His last paragraph is correct.
And btw, the true professional gals will do the same. Maybe a text later from them which is fine.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

This was the big Frezz in Jan in Dallas sometime ago the first time it has ever had happened ,, At the bar eating and was talking this this gent ,just small talk said he lived next door and all his water pipes had burst and he was staying at the hotel.. I relly didn't think much about it.Done with my dinner I said nice talking and I got up to go back to my room.

Half way down the hall I hear somone calling Gina out and I just kept on walking , like to didn't hear him. Then he came up and aked if I was on EROS , I said not sure what you are taking about and went up to my room.
Few mins later I get a text from a provider friend telling me the guy at the bar was her reg and he wanted to see me. I was like cool easey screeing.

I was still kinda like WOWZER.. So I waited a day and asked her to send him my number, he text and we sent up appt later in the week. I'm sure someone has noticed me before but didnt have the gutes lol to Approach me.

I see him every visit!!

[bender1717]

I was working out at the gym before going to an afternoon appointment with a provider that I had never met. I saw a woman working out in the free-weight area and thought she looked like the picture of the provider, but I didn't know her. I was straight across from her, she was doing lat-pulldowns. As she stood up to reach for the weight bar her crop top slid up enough to reveal a six-pack and a very distinctive tatoo on her hip - the same tatoo the provider had in her pictures.

I wrestled with the idea of introducing myself, but didn't want to come across as a stalker. Later, when I showed up for the appointment, she recognized me right away. She laughed and asked why I didn't say "Hi". then chatted a while before starting a great session.

[Fizley]

Why are you so concerned about running into a provider in the wild? Maybe your wife and family were there and I missed it.

If you were alone what the worse case scenario? She says hello? Maybe you sit at a table at the free breakfast and have a discussion.

I can't figure out this post? And why your so concerned?