Please share your thoughts… clients & providers

[corona]

There's a big difference between decriminalization and regulation. Will the hobby every be decriminalized in the US? Perhaps in small geographic pockets. Will it become so accepted it becomes regulated? doubtful.


I feel the main reason for this is because the hobby is too closely linked with trafficking and not two consenting adults agreeing on a barter.

[MisterMeat]

Originally Posted by corona

There's a big difference between decriminalization and regulation. Will the hobby every be decriminalized in the US? Perhaps in small geographic pockets. Will it become so accepted it becomes regulated? doubtful.

Here, in the formerly great state of Texas, the hobby will be decriminalized and regulated at the same time our state decriminalizes and regulates marijuana...about 150 years from now, right behind Mississippi, after everyone on this board is six feet under the ground.

[Foxtrotdancer]

Originally Posted by Best Kept Secretary

I am working on it DM about my up and coming provider only forum I am launching soon if interested. #companionconnect for providers by providers including client reviews, resources, classifieds, events, professional services, retirement resources, family services hosted on an overseas dedicated server. Also, an ecourse hosted on open source servers that will introduce a new industry standard with issued certificate of completion free of charge courtesy of a SW friendly nonprofit organization ��. Not a “how to” course but simply put “finishing school”.

Dream Big, think simple, work smarter, play harder.

Respectfully I don't know how this would work. Retirement options, most ladies honestly get by client to client. There's already a resource called the powder room in Oh2 but that is basically hearsay and innuendos. There are a lot of terrible guys on oh2 who providers would never expose because they are popular. Women barely want to give out references for fear of losing a client

I applaud you attempting to help ladies but I believe it would be a waste of your time. It would be a constant cat fight, bickering, lies etc. You would have to sell ladies on why join. Most ladies are not going to spend the time in any site they don't feel as if they'll get customers out of. A bunch of women just gossiping, no one around willing to spend some money. Women honestly are overwhelmed now with competition, real life, screening, answering a bunch of bullshit emails, no call no shows etc. They not thinking about retirement. They are hanging in a very competitive market. I think your talents would be better spent elsewhere. That's my humble opinion..if you start it I will say get ready for a whole lot of bullshit and absolutely Good Luck!!

[Foxtrotdancer]

Originally Posted by HTXGentleman

Not all men in the hobby are married, and honestly a husband cheating on his wife will be looked down upon whether it’s through the hobby or not, so that really has nothing to do with raising the legitimacy of being a sex worker.

Also, 300 seems awfully low to be expecting a super nice incall. How many clients would the provider need to see a month to keep that nice incall? I think the hobby would be better served if the men would stop expecting lobster and caviar for the price of a taco, but that is probably further away from happening than the entire industry being more socially accepted

If you believe 300 hr expecting a nice incall is crazy then you must haven't visited the best provider in Houston. Thats not caviar taste. 2 clients a day that's 3000 a week. So you are telling me at that much money it's unreasonable to ask a provider to spend 2000 a month on a nice incall. She can share it, etc. That's the start. Who here wants to go to a motel?

Proper instructions. I'm finding that more a challenge with the English impaired providers. Give a client instructions for dummies. At that time our hormones are raging. We are not thinking straight. Make Bookers more a thing. Not pimps, managers but actual Bookers. Someone you explicitly trust who simply sends you your appointments for the day. When I'm horny I'm horny. Might sometimes take 2 hrs for a response. I give a person a hour tops. Then I'm sending out feelers. Women will then respond once you found someone else and get mad.

A person who somehow comes up with a booking agency. Just a booking agency, where the lady pays them for the service or commission per appt booked would literally free so much time up for a lady. That way she isn't flustered with all the calls and stress of doing it herself. She can solely focus on providing a memorable experience for the client. Because that's what it boils down to. We are the ones who spend the money hence we deserve the absolute best experience every time.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Well we have a new oracle of hobby.

[mynameismudd]

I would like all sex work to be legalized so that law enforcement could focus on the real sex trafficking and underage trafficking, not raiding grannies and destroying their AMP business.

[MarcellusWalluz]

Originally Posted by Best Kept Secretary

I made the post to advocate for the ladies. Although I did ask for the men’s thoughts as well, it’s kind of an understood concept that any behavior morally questionable would not be included.

Unfortunately the majority of the country consider anything that is sexually oriented to be "morally questionable".

Originally Posted by Foxtrotdancer

Make Bookers more a thing. Not pimps, managers but actual Bookers. Someone you explicitly trust who simply sends you your appointments for the day. When I'm horny I'm horny. Might sometimes take 2 hrs for a response. I give a person a hour tops. Then I'm sending out feelers. Women will then respond once you found someone else and get mad.

+1
Something like a pussy Clearinghouse would be a very good idea. If the specific lady you are interested in isn't available the booker can suggest someone similar that is available....but it will never happen.

[astrotexan]

There is a double standard that I wish did not exist. I had a lady in San Antonio cancel on me one day. Maybe 5 or 6 hours before the appointment. That was no problem for me as stuff happens. Then, one day I had to leave SA unexpectedly and I texted her 8 hours before the appointment. She texted me back saying that there would be a $100 charge added to our next appointment. Scratch her off the list.

I have had ladies cancel on me or even ghost me over the years. I never take it personally.

I also wish the guys would stop telling providers what we say about them in the private section. It’s childish and just creates issues. Of course I’m reminded of the old saying….”There is no honor among thieves”.

You ladies that are sweet and kind and try your best to give us our moneys worth….i salute you and I appreciate you.

[Busty]

Childish he says, when some men won't discuss something with her in order to resolve/improve the situation. Hiding in the men's locker room shows a lack of maturity. Extreme alerts are worthy, thief, violence, but nitpicking is childish.

Originally Posted by astrotexan

There is a double standard that I wish did not exist. I had a lady in San Antonio cancel on me one day. Maybe 5 or 6 hours before the appointment. That was no problem for me as stuff happens. Then, one day I had to leave SA unexpectedly and I texted her 8 hours before the appointment. She texted me back saying that there would be a $100 charge added to our next appointment. Scratch her off the list.

I have had ladies cancel on me or even ghost me over the years. I never take it personally.

I also wish the guys would stop telling providers what we say about them in the private section. It’s childish and just creates issues. Of course I’m reminded of the old saying….”There is no honor among thieves”.

You ladies that are sweet and kind and try your best to give us our moneys worth….i salute you and I appreciate you.

[HTXGentleman]

Originally Posted by Foxtrotdancer

If you believe 300 hr expecting a nice incall is crazy then you must haven't visited the best provider in Houston. Thats not caviar taste. 2 clients a day that's 3000 a week. So you are telling me at that much money it's unreasonable to ask a provider to spend 2000 a month on a nice incall. She can share it, etc. That's the start. Who here wants to go to a motel?

Proper instructions. I'm finding that more a challenge with the English impaired providers. Give a client instructions for dummies. At that time our hormones are raging. We are not thinking straight. Make Bookers more a thing. Not pimps, managers but actual Bookers. Someone you explicitly trust who simply sends you your appointments for the day. When I'm horny I'm horny. Might sometimes take 2 hrs for a response. I give a person a hour tops. Then I'm sending out feelers. Women will then respond once you found someone else and get mad.

A person who somehow comes up with a booking agency. Just a booking agency, where the lady pays them for the service or commission per appt booked would literally free so much time up for a lady. That way she isn't flustered with all the calls and stress of doing it herself. She can solely focus on providing a memorable experience for the client. Because that's what it boils down to. We are the ones who spend the money hence we deserve the absolute best experience every time.

Honestly I would rather spend more to see someone who doesn’t see 2 clients a day. I’m more discerning with who I see and not try to see as many providers as possible for as little as possible, but that’s me. Spending 300 on a provider should get you in a motel