It's time for a TED TALK .

[LydiaStJames]

As for the thread...that's precisely why I only rent dumps for and by the hour. I get stood up WAAAY more than I get seen and it is very demeaning to feel like our time is nothing unless it's being of service to our clients. Meanwhile the communication isn't even taken into consideration as "free of charge" I actually lowered my rates and it's of no consequence to be thoroughly blown up my ass with smoke on a very regular basis. I figure this is the way it is anymore. No one cares about anyone else anymore. It's par for the course on a much larger scale than hobbying

[winn dixie]

These types of threads on both sides have been posted since biblical times.
Frustrating. Life can be cold. If it. Becomes stressful and too much. A career change could change your life for the better.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by winn dixie

These types of threads on both sides have been posted since dinosaur times.
Men telling woman how a woman should run her business is Frustrating. Everyone knows that Life can be cold. If it. Becomes stressful and too much but not enough to not remember to blacklist someone. A career change could change a lot of men's lives for the better.

FTFY

[winn dixie]

Uc, she asked for input. I gave it.
Folks took it wrong. I brought in reality from both sides and biz 101.
And I've remained on topic with no insults.
The op mentioned something about retiring? If the op is losing biggly monies and having stress from customers. A change may be a good suggestion.
Whatever she does I wish her well

[winn dixie]

Here's one from the other side.
Proves it happens to everyone. Both sides want to be right. Life ain't fair. Make changes to avoid some of these situations that annoy you.

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2988610

If all someone wants is an echo chamber. Private forums is best.

[R.M.]

How about meeting some where in the middle.

[Emmie]

I keep reading make changes , make changes what exactly are the changes you suggest? How can I change someone no call no showing me? There is no screening for that, that issue rests completely on the person not showing up for the visit.

[Kilgore.Trout]

This guy Ted sounds like a real asshole.

[CatMan4u]

This issue is so elementary Dear Watson. No one likes their time or money waisted we all have cell phones use the MFERs and call if you aren't going to show up
This goes for both sides

[queenV]

I agree with Dallas. In the time I have been in the hobby it has become more negative and hectic. We are all here for a reason. We have to hide this side of us from the world. So why make it so negative.
Everyone has made valid points. But Emmie made the best. The provider are EXPECTED to take any hits we get with a smile and not say anything. That is so unfair an if you know me know I can't not do that. I am pretty good at expressing my opinion to everyone. We should be able to throw out side into the mix and not be called "emotion" or so on. KC has become pretty brutal for us ladies in the hobby.We are constantly being slammed for our appearance and expected to just take all that toxicity with a smile and act like it's ok for anyone to talk about us in that manner. To be frank it's complete bullshit.

So thanks you Emmie for posting thism it a topic that's needed to be brought to light and you are so highly respected I'm glad you were the one to do so.
Also Dallas we can all learn so much from your positive attitude. I know when I get upset I think of you and how you would handle the situation.
So now can we all just go back to being sexy and having fun because I just bought some very sexy European lingerie I need to enjoy!

[queenV]

It sounds like basically saying " suck it up buttercup" which is bs

[queenV]

There are no changes you can make to prevent that you're right and being told that is ridiculous and frustrating. There is no way of knowing if someone is a time waster or going to ncns. At the end of the day this is a business between grown adults not its a very personal and sensual business but a business no matter what. A respectful provider will runnit like a business but make you feel the complete opposite. So showing her the respect in return shouldn't be so hard, right? Again Emmie your a bad ass for bringing this up and not backing down. Thank you

[ebonyvixen23]

THANK YOU FOR THIS POST. I have had a sickening amount of money be lost due to last minute cancellations.

It has made me 100% change my policy.

Book via my website. Fill out the booking form.
I am moving away from anything last minute AT ALL.

At the moment I do not charge a deposit that will be changing in the next month!

Disrespect is at a all time high and I'm putting every single measure in place that I can even fathom to save myself from what I absolutly consider puroseful harassment of providers at this point

[ebonyvixen23]

Honestly when they say make changes i say absolutly and they can now pay a deposit, book 24hours+ in advance, larger deposits for booking even further out.

Making so many changes. I saw a guy pay 800 to a unverified girl on another site and apparently she stole from him but there are THOUSANDS of verified girls posting everyday?

Like sir karma is a b. Next time do research. We are posting daily and you get your money stolen from a out of town girl? likeeeee at this point if that happens to a guy im 100% convinced he was aiming for that.

MOST of us have social pages, OF's, Websites, sooo how are guys still getting conned by any other thing then the fact that they want to be by having a adrenaline rush from a 50/50 shot in the dark encounter instead of doing research and finding a REAL provider

[timmystool]

Originally Posted by Emmie

How do you suggest I restructure? I ask because you seem to be suggesting as though I am the one to blame instead of putting the blame where it truly lies. You also are implying that I don't do thorough screening to curb this type of behavior. I don't know a provider who would subject themselves to that. Also, you keep referring to me traveling, nowhere in what I wrote did I say this happened when traveling, what I said is this type of behavior is the reason a lot or traveling girls won't come to KC anymore.

what behavoir exactly?


You are in your car, guy says,

lets meet at a hotel at 5pm for hour


you go get room, then guy doesnt show, ncns?


so you have a room and dont see anyone else and are out the money for the room? otherwise, youd sleep in your car? or somewhere free?


so girls dont come here cause they get a room and no one sees them or everyone is NCNS?


please explain what guys are doing wrong
thank you